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SparkyGirl said:
Is it possible that a guy doesn't do masturbation?
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Of course it is.......NOT!!!!!! :rolleyes:

I suppose you could say that Priests and the Clergy don't........but we know how truthful that is.

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Anything is possible but i'd be worried about a guy who didn't, even if he was getting the real thing 4-5 times a week.
 
yes it is me.

Ok, here is the thing, I wanted to know when my husband does, i didn't think was gonna be a big deal, so i just asked him, and he got all weird and told me he doesn't, that he waits for me :worried: . I didn't believe in that so i kept asking him, i told him i was just curious that he could tell me, and he never did, and actually got really mad about it.

So , i am all confused here, is it true? or why couldn't he just open up for me? Is it a big deal to tell your wife?
 
If there are any guys out there that don't masturbate, then they must:

A. Not have a penis
or
B. Be impotent
or
C. Both.

I think most girls masturbate, and if that's true, then you know basically all guys do.
 
Insecurity.....

SparkyGirl said:
I wanted to know when my husband does, i didn't think was gonna be a big deal, so i just asked him, and he got all weird and told me he doesn't, that he waits for me :worried: . I didn't believe in that so i kept asking him, i told him i was just curious that he could tell me, and he never did, and actually got really mad about it.

So , i am all confused here, is it true? or why couldn't he just open up for me? Is it a big deal to tell your wife?
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He seems insecure with the topic of masturbation for some reason. The more you pester him about it, the more he will clam up. Guys don't like to be asked repeatedly and if he was comfortable telling you, he'd have spilled his guts already. The true reasons only he knows for sure. It sounds like something semi-serious as any healthy sexual relationship has a healthy dose of pillowtalk and such.

Holla.

DIV

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SparkyGirl said:
yes it is me.

Ok, here is the thing, I wanted to know when my husband does, i didn't think was gonna be a big deal, so i just asked him, and he got all weird and told me he doesn't, that he waits for me :worried: . I didn't believe in that so i kept asking him, i told him i was just curious that he could tell me, and he never did, and actually got really mad about it.

So , i am all confused here, is it true? or why couldn't he just open up for me? Is it a big deal to tell your wife?
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Yeah, listen to DIVISION. With a nervous agitated response like your husband gave you, he obviously jerks off, but probably thinks you'll be mad at him or something. Speak lightly about it, like you know that all guys jerk off and that you'll only be pissed if he isn't honest with you.
 
Re: Insecurity.....

DIVISION said:
He seems insecure with the topic of masturbation for some reason. The more you pester him about it, the more he will clam up. Guys don't like to be asked repeatedly and if he was comfortable telling you, he'd have spilled his guts already. The true reasons only he knows for sure. It sounds like something semi-serious as any healthy sexual relationship has a healthy dose of pillowtalk and such.
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Re-Post in case she missed it.

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SparkyGirl said:
Is it possible that a guy doesn't do masturbation?
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I think maybe it is possible. I didn't do it for the first time until I was 19, believe it or not. Even as a college student at the University of Texas which is crawling with beautiful women.

I had a lot of sexual energy and some nocturnal emissions, but I was not educated on masturbation.

Once I figured it out, I became a pro. :)

Now, though my wife and I have sex 3-4 times a week, I do it once about every 4-5 days.
 
You should start by answering the question yourself. Tell him whether you do or not, and that you don't feel like he doesn't love you if he does. Ask him to let you watch or vice versa.
 
SparkyGirl said:
cool, thanks guys, i will try again, if he still can't open up, i guess i will have to respect his privacy :(
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If he's disturbed by such a simple question like masturbation, think about what other things he could be hiding?@?!?!?!

That's scary...

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DIVISION said:
most do........but few admit to it.

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i would openly admit it if i did, but i dont masturbate on my own.....
now........ i love anal sex.and ....penises......but i dont masturbate.....:)
 
Division don't put bugs in my head! LOL I don't think he is hiding nothing else from me, unleast I am sure he doesn't cheat on me, he is very comited to me, i do trust him fully.

I just really didn't understand why was a big deal to answer my question, since i am pretty honest with stuff that I do, I never had a problem ansewering him ,even if was something that I was shy about it. Well, I did ask him before to do it that I wanted to wacth, but for him to do it he had to look at me doing something.(if you know what i mean)

I do know he is a very visual man, I do not know at this point if he would need a visual stimulation everytime. Usually all man are very visual, but I know he is extremelly that way, thats why the light is always on.

He also drinks a lot beer everyday, I heard that can make a man relax a lot, I don't drink at all so i wouldn't know.
 
SparkyGirl said:
I did ask him before to do it that I wanted to wacth, but for him to do it he had to look at me doing something.(if you know what i mean)

I do know he is a very visual man, I do not know at this point if he would need a visual stimulation everytime. Usually all man are very visual, but I know he is extremelly that way, thats why the light is always on.
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Yes, of course I know. He had to watch you play with yourself....obviously. I am visual, but not so dependent on watching a woman masturbate or whateva. If I am attracted to the female's mind, her face, her eyes.......that is mainly all it takes to get me hard and from that I move on to other things.....my favorite parts of her body.....at that point I can stare at parts of her body and let my imagination run wild as far as what I am going to do with her and I stay hard from then on.

I've always been this way, so really I can't relate to your guy, since he has to keep the light on to enjoy sex thoroughly. For me, it's in the eyes, the eye contact is where the passion and the heat is at.......the eyes reveal all expressed intentions.

As far as his aversion to admitting masturbation; I really can't say. I can't relate to that and I don't know people like that, so it's out of my hands.

Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

DIV

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SparkyGirl said:
Is it possible that a guy doesn't do masturbation?
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My balls would burst into a mushroom cloud when not properly emptied a few times a day.
 
Well I know that I was pretty uncomfortable when my wife asked me about it. I am not sure why, maybe because we all had it pounded into our heads that it was wrong. She told me that she does and I didn't really care so then I told her that I did too. I really don't know why it was so hard for me to tell her about it, but it was. It made for several very uncomfortable conversations. So all I can say to you is that yes, he does do it, so just accept that and don't keep pestering him about it. He will let you know when he wants to.
 
Dial_tone said:
You should start by answering the question yourself. Tell him whether you do or not, and that you don't feel like he doesn't love you if he does. Ask him to let you watch or vice versa.
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then the fun really begins :chomp:
 
DIVISION said:
most do........but few admit to it.

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I admit it openly. Hell, sometimes I DO it openly. ;)
 
dirty~d~ said:
I admit it openly. Hell, sometimes I DO it openly. ;)
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I have a feeling that you have more testosterone flowing through your body than most women........because you lift.

I haven't seen any pics of you........if you're not comfortable posting them openly on the forum, send some via e-mail so I can get a quick read on what you are about. Based on the things you say, you come off to me as a masculine type woman......aggressive.

DIV

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SoKlueles said:
i would openly admit it if i did, but i dont masturbate on my own.....
now........ i love anal sex.and ....penises......but i dont masturbate.....:)
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You don't masturbate at all on your own? That's dissapointing, women who masturbate solo (and enjoy doing it) are better lovers because they know their bodies very well and what gets them off.
 
Sounds like your guy is just embarrassed about it. Don't persue the topic, just leave him be. If he wants to talk about it, he will. Just because 2 people are together doesn't mean they have to share every single detail of their lives, everyone needs a little privacy.
 
SparkyGirl said:
Division don't put bugs in my head! LOL I don't think he is hiding nothing else from me, unleast I am sure he doesn't cheat on me, he is very comited to me, i do trust him fully.

I just really didn't understand why was a big deal to answer my question, since i am pretty honest with stuff that I do, I never had a problem ansewering him ,even if was something that I was shy about it. Well, I did ask him before to do it that I wanted to wacth, but for him to do it he had to look at me doing something.(if you know what i mean)

I do know he is a very visual man, I do not know at this point if he would need a visual stimulation everytime. Usually all man are very visual, but I know he is extremelly that way, thats why the light is always on.

He also drinks a lot beer everyday, I heard that can make a man relax a lot, I don't drink at all so i wouldn't know.
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Im going to guess tha the reason he doesn't want to talk about it is two fold. First it probably involves some fantasies you might not be aware of and that he would have trouble sharing with you. Do you guys, if you dont mind me asking, have a conventional sex life or does he like to experiment. Does he talk about his fantasies with you (everyone has them, lil secret things that turn him on). It might be a whole lot of fun for you if you did get him to talk about them but dont push it. Second, it depends on his upbringing and the way sex was portrayed when he was growing up. He might feel like it's something thats too repugnant to talk about with anyone, let alone you (although most of us probably wouldn't have this problem) but hey how many men's wives ask them about their masturbating anyway? I dont exactly see that as dinner conversation. So yeah he might feel pretty weird about it. There's one more possbility. Maybe he feels like, on some level when he does it by himself he's in a way cheating on you? Like if he admitted it maybe he's afraid you might ask why he needs to do that? But you know what could be fun and open up the subject. Maybe some night if you put on a little show for him; and show him that you jill off too. hehehe
;) :p :evil: :busy:
 
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