Guys, i need help with my g/f sex drive

[Nutri-Wrestler]

Ok, here is the problem, my girlfriend has absolutely no sex drive at all. Last time she was in the mood was about a month ago and i had to get her drunk to get her there! I believe god is playing a horrible and absolutely cruel trick on me cause im hornier than an 18 year old with a a bottle of Viagra.

What can i give her that will increase her sex drive? Thanks.

Ross

 

[Legs1010]

How old is she?

We peak later in life then men. I am 35, I hit my peak last year and it is still going strong. The closer to 30 she is the better it will get for her.

I don't know that there is a cure for low sex drive, it could be her birth control pills, they screwed with mine when I was in my 20s, or it could be something else. There are a ton of herbal meds out there that claim to bring back sex drives, you could go to the health food store and ask what they have to help your gf.

I hope she gets help.

 

[Nutri-Wrestler]

Legs, so your saying that she will hit her seual peak around 30. I figuered she would, just kinda had to make sure that i was completely fucked first.

Unfortunaely, getting her drunk was the only way to get her in the mood, but that seems to not be working anymore

I was thinking getting her some L-arginine to increase nitric oxide and therefore increase blood flow. That or tribulus to increase LH.

I work over at a supplement store so i will just poke around when i have some time off. Thanks.

Ross

 

[lamamacita]

Legs is absolutly correct. If she is on birth control that may be the problem. BC also contributes to dryness too. Whatever you do, don't get ill with her b/c it won't help the situation. It will prob just make her .

 

[Loomer]

Man, I'm in the same situation, my wife is 21, on the pill and has like no sex drive except when drunk. It's good to see someone else suffering

So instead of waiting another 9 years, or switching to condoms, are there any proven resources for us? Any herbal supplements that actually work? She refuses to go to the doctor and say, "I have no sex drive" so are there any online resources for her to check out?

Probably the worse part is seeing these horny sex-crazed women on this board. Man did I get screwed over! (pun definitely not intended)

 

[Nutri-Wrestler]

My girl isn't on the pill. Loomer, does't it suck to get completely fucked over?

Everyone tells me abnout the play they get and all i have to share with them are complaints about my g/f. Thats when it hits my, i got fucked! Shes the only girl that went to her catholic high school and didnt turn out the least bit slutiest when she came out. I think she is broken, maybe i can return her for someone else...

Ross

 

[Nutri-Wrestler]

Also, when we actually do have sex, which is rarely, she always says OW! It still hurts her after almost 2 years. Ill be the first to admit, im not hung like a bull in July, but after almost 2 years you would think she would be done with the pain. Im guessingm it is because we dont do it that often. Can anyone offer help here too?

Ross

 

[Loomer]

Weird, same thing used to happen with my wife. That can definitely put a damper on the desire for sex, for a good reason too, (most) women aren't looking for pain in sex. It hasn't been an issue lately, although the doctor once prescribed some lubrication. Try some of that out and see if it helps.

I'm really feeling your pain! (And hers!, that IS a bid dick! j/k) As much as I don't want to, I may have to find my sexual outlet somewhere else if things don't change; and since you're not married, I would suggest you do so too if you just can't take anymore!

 

[Legs1010]

Shes the only girl that went to her catholic high school and didnt turn out the least bit slutiest when she came out.


I think she is broken, maybe i can return her for someone else...

Ross

I love to dress in a short plaid skirt and a white shirt like a school girl. Men totally get off on it too, well some men do.


I might also add, that when I hit 34, my libido became that of a man. I want sex...a lot. And when I am drunk, I am worse. I totally jump my bf, he loves it. The last guy I dated had the libido of your girlfriend, he was also needy and clingy and told me he loved me three weeks after we started dating. I was out of there! Yikes!



She can't help that she has a low sex drive, get her some supps, at least give her a chance. Maybe she has issues about sex, have you ever tried to talk to her about your needs and why she has next to no needs?

 

[DrBones]

This Thread is fucking depressing me!
I'm in 100% the same boat as you dude. Never wants to do it, always hurts her when we start. Never wants to do it. Makes sighing noises when things are about to happen or if she 'has to do something', and when i TRY to turn her on her to get in the mood i get an answer like "fine".
This is the most frustrating thing on the face of the whole fucking planet. All my other buddies also tell me all their great stories and I'm stuck whining. I really need some help too, and she is definitely not one to start taking wierd supplements unless somebody who has no fuckin clue, like her mom, tells her that its ok. Grrrr. I'm glad other people are in as fucked of a situation as I am.
Good luck guys and PLEASE tell me what works!
Thanks