I guess I'm in the minority, but I have to say that I like it a little bit loose. Wet for sure, but if it's so tight that I have to work to get myself in there, I don't like it as much. A nice wet, loose pussy will let me slide right in from about any angle, and it never breaks the rythym of whatever we are doing. Even when you get a little energetic and it "pops out"....it goes right back in just as easy. What's not to like?!?