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Going without sex is messing with my head.

scooter22 said:
She's out of town... I haven't gone more than a few days in a couple of years... I wonder if I'm a sexaholic? I'd like to know the medical definition of a sexaholic if there is one.
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So you aren't married...lolllolllolll... :)
 
well don't go too long with out my friend.. soon the fat ugly women you never found attractive will start to look good.. Go to an oriental massage parlor were everything goes for about $100-150..
 
calveless wonder said:
yeah i was about to say.

id imagine hes in a relationship and been bangin the same girl for awhile (and not married lol)
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thats even worse because there are no financial setbacks when you cheat on a girlfriend. meh.
 
Gosh, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in the past 2 years.

:worried:

2 weeks! Ha! I laugh at 2 weeks...lol.
 
heatherrae said:
Gosh, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in the past 2 years.

:worried:

2 weeks! Ha! I laugh at 2 weeks...lol.
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you can count how many times you had sex with your hand?

hawt woman diddling herself = 50 times hawter!

so hawt.
 
timtim said:
you can count how many times you had sex with your hand?

hawt woman diddling herself = 50 times hawter!

so hawt.
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ummmmm....lol.
 
lartinos said:
2 weeks is nothing
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+1, my old lady has held out a lot longer than that before.
 
heatherrae said:
Gosh, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in the past 2 years.

:worried:

2 weeks! Ha! I laugh at 2 weeks...lol.
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Count on one hand or use one hand.
Either way........pics?
 
scooter22 said:
It's been 2 weeks now... Unacceptable.... Do you ever get used to it?
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You will get used to it once you get married. Then, depending on just how dysfunctional your relationship is, you either have to develop a siege mentality or find new and interesting ways to avoid contact.

Seriously.
 
musclemom said:
You will get used to it once you get married. Then, depending on just how dysfunctional your relationship is, you either have to develop a siege mentality or find new and interesting ways to avoid contact.

Seriously.
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ROFL...

awesome post.
 
ricco561 said:
'cept for the married guys.
It just rubs salt in the wounds.
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and makes us un-married guys, not want to get married
 
heatherrae said:
Gosh, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in the past 2 years.

:worried:

2 weeks! Ha! I laugh at 2 weeks...lol.
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who's fault is THAT! all cept about 3 months of it anyway. shezzzz

don't come back at me with the "I have to feel something with the person before I can have sex" shit either...
 
scooter22 said:
It's been 2 weeks now... Unacceptable.... Do you ever get used to it?
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have you ever been checked for being bi-polar?
 
musclemom said:
You will get used to it once you get married. Then, depending on just how dysfunctional your relationship is, you either have to develop a siege mentality or find new and interesting ways to avoid contact.

Seriously.
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how fucking depressing is this post.... and then, somehow it's comforting to know your not alone.... lol
 
txbondsman said:
how fucking depressing is this post.... and then, somehow it's comforting to know your not alone.... lol
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Bear in mind, I'm 43, my husband is 54, and we've been exclusively together as a couple for 14 years. I think we're allowed to get to the point where it's a little :whatever: once in a while. If we did it every day, at this stage of the game, it would be a burden. We have busy, stressful lives, if we manage once or twice a week spontaneously (that whole scheduling thing does not work for us, too much pressure) then it's all good and we're both content.

In the first four or five years of our relationship we tore each other up daily. But things do generally cool off after a few years, especially as you get a little older.
 
just wait until some of you boyz get into a marraige/comited relationship... :laugh2:
 
musclemom said:
Bear in mind, I'm 43, my husband is 54, and we've been exclusively together as a couple for 14 years. I think we're allowed to get to the point where it's a little :whatever: once in a while. If we did it every day, at this stage of the game, it would be a burden. We have busy, stressful lives, if we manage once or twice a week spontaneously (that whole scheduling thing does not work for us, too much pressure) then it's all good and we're both content.

In the first four or five years of our relationship we tore each other up daily. But things do generally cool off after a few years, especially as you get a little older.
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we're 43 and 49, kid, I'm busy, she's busy, we're tired, I can't even spell spontanneous. Wouldn't matter anyway. She's stressed, I'm....not, that pisses her off even more. She always calls the shots pertaining to sex, it's usually when I'm busy as hell and need to get to the jail, people waiting, THEN she says, I'm feeling amorous. Well, gimme an hour so I can make our living and I'll be back. OH HELL no, I'm putting her after work, that causes a fight, more stress........ uhhhhhh, just forget it.
 
txbondsman said:
we're 43 and 49, kid, I'm busy, she's busy, we're tired, I can't even spell spontanneous. Wouldn't matter anyway. She's stressed, I'm....not, that pisses her off even more. She always calls the shots pertaining to sex, it's usually when I'm busy as hell and need to get to the jail, people waiting, THEN she says, I'm feeling amorous. Well, gimme an hour so I can make our living and I'll be back. OH HELL no, I'm putting her after work, that causes a fight, more stress........ uhhhhhh, just forget it.
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That's marriage bro.... :worried:
 
txbondsman said:
we're 43 and 49, kid, I'm busy, she's busy, we're tired, I can't even spell spontanneous. Wouldn't matter anyway. She's stressed, I'm....not, that pisses her off even more. She always calls the shots pertaining to sex, it's usually when I'm busy as hell and need to get to the jail, people waiting, THEN she says, I'm feeling amorous. Well, gimme an hour so I can make our living and I'll be back. OH HELL no, I'm putting her after work, that causes a fight, more stress........ uhhhhhh, just forget it.
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Stress is the bar #1 single worst libido killer, and I don't care how peaceful you think your regular life is, if you go on a nice vacation and suddenly your libido kicks up after day two or three then the stress in your life is impacting you.

As for kids, like I said in my K, until they get old enough that you can leave them alone in the house and be reasonably confident they're not going to kill themselves they will screw with your sex life. Kids have "sex radar" like nobody's business and it's the best mood killer out there. They know just when to be needy and clingy and fulfilling those needs basically drains the shit out of a woman's emotional reserves.

See if you can't work more quickies into your repertoire, at least that maintains the parental emotional bond. I know for me, particularly when I'm feeling stressed, I'd prefer quickies over having an extended session. I want to feel loved, desirable, but I don't feel like having to do a lot of work (if that makes sense, it's kind of hard to explain). It's like: "Stop fucking worrying about my orgasm please, it's just putting more pressure on me, I don't want an orgasm I just want you to be happy and to know I love you and love being with you."
 
musclemom said:
Stress is the bar #1 single worst libido killer, and I don't care how peaceful you think your regular life is, if you go on a nice vacation and suddenly your libido kicks up after day two or three then the stress in your life is impacting you.

As for kids, like I said in my K, until they get old enough that you can leave them alone in the house and be reasonably confident they're not going to kill themselves they will screw with your sex life. Kids have "sex radar" like nobody's business and it's the best mood killer out there. They know just when to be needy and clingy and fulfilling those needs basically drains the shit out of a woman's emotional reserves.

See if you can't work more quickies into your repertoire, at least that maintains the parental emotional bond. I know for me, particularly when I'm feeling stressed, I'd prefer quickies over having an extended session. I want to feel loved, desirable, but I don't feel like having to do a lot of work (if that makes sense, it's kind of hard to explain). It's like: "Stop fucking worrying about my orgasm please, it's just putting more pressure on me, I don't want an orgasm I just want you to be happy and to know I love you and love being with you."
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Could I forward this to my wife?
 
scooter22 said:
I can't jerk off by myself anymore... Any of guys have that problem?
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That's a new one to me. Maybe it's because I haven't been single since my freshman year of high school (3 GF's total since 1995) plus I'm sure the multitude of stresses that I have right now don't help but sex just isn't that important to me anymore.

It's baffled me for a while and I'm sure I'd have a blast being single as I'm sure a lot of it is because sex has always been with the same person for so long though since I'm married and have a daughter, being single isn't something I'm looking for.

Seriously if it wasn't for my wife who's libido is much higher than mine, we'd probably have sex a couple times a year. It's such a labored task to me when I can get the same ending from a few minutes of "alone" time. It doesn't feel good during sex like women seem to feel, at least to me.

I've never considered sex this mind blowing, uber-intimate experience that brings two people together or whatever garbage they say about it. It's breeding pure and simple. Sure it feels good at the end but the journey to get there is no different to me than watching a video
 
ricco561 said:
Could I forward this to my wife?
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:whatever: Yeah, I'm sure she'll just LOOOOOVVVE hearing it :lmao: Even telling your S/O "Let's just have a quickie," can sometimes be a bummer for the guys. They not only are horny, they want their PARTNER to be horny and enthusiastic. That's the part that women (particularly stressed out women) have a hard time with.
 
just jerk it bro, i get that way after 2 days of no release.
 
Delinquent said:
I've never considered sex this mind blowing, uber-intimate experience that brings two people together or whatever garbage they say about it. It's breeding pure and simple. Sure it feels good at the end but the journey to get there is no different to me than watching a video
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See, now to me that is the most depressing thing I've read in this whole thread.
 
musclemom said:
:whatever: Yeah, I'm sure she'll just LOOOOOVVVE hearing it :lmao: Even telling your S/O "Let's just have a quickie," can sometimes be a bummer for the guys. They not only are horny, they want their PARTNER to be horny and enthusiastic. That's the part that women (particularly stressed out women) have a hard time with.
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I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.
 
CMarc said:
I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.
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The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?
 
CMarc said:
I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.
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Good point.
 
Im pretty sure she understands when I say "open your mouth, I'm gonna ..."

musclemom said:
The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?[/QUOTE]
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musclemom said:
The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?
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that 'doctor' who wrote that book has a made up phd.

there was an excellent expose on him...you should really watch it.
 
p0ink said:
that 'doctor' who wrote that book has a made up phd.

there was an excellent expose on him...you should really watch it.
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Poink, dear, I do respect your opinions, but on this I stand by what I said, in fact, I'll elaborate: I don't give a fuck whether the guys credentials are legit or not, he "gets" how women's minds work, and how to explain to a guy how to talk to us and why shit pisses us off.

And he was very articulate at explaining why men are so fucking weird and how to talk to them.

I generally don't recommend all of his shit, just the first book, and the sex one. I honestly think he hit something solid with those two. If you have a problem with him personally, that's your prerogative, but I don't believe in throwing the baby out with the bathwater.
 
I havent had sex since I dont know when ..seriously personal choice due to the fact that I am waiting for the right one... :artist:
 
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