Going without sex is messing with my head.

[ricco561]

I even let her hold my ears.

 

[BBR100]

Yeah, I'm sure she'll just LOOOOOVVVE hearing it Even telling your S/O "Let's just have a quickie," can sometimes be a bummer for the guys. They not only are horny, they want their PARTNER to be horny and enthusiastic. That's the part that women (particularly stressed out women) have a hard time with.

I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.

 

[musclemom]

I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.

The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?

 

[Chocolate_Thunder]

I'm not sure if this is because women are so confusing or men are just dense.

Maybe it's because men are taught to pay attention to women's feelings/emotions and not treat them as sex objects when sometimes all you both need is a good, hard, simple fuck.

Good point.

 

[NEO1]

Im pretty sure she understands when I say "open your mouth, I'm gonna ..."

The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?[/QUOTE]

 

[p0ink]

The guy who wrote Mars and Venus covered the whole sex negotiation thing in either the book Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus or the other one, Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Men and women have a different sexual style, and the problem is, nobody knows what they THEMSELVES really need and want, or why, which is why they can't necessarily verbalize their needs to their partner.

In other words, how do you teach someone your language if you don't understand it yourself?

that 'doctor' who wrote that book has a made up phd.

there was an excellent expose on him...you should really watch it.

 

[musclemom]

that 'doctor' who wrote that book has a made up phd.

there was an excellent expose on him...you should really watch it.

Poink, dear, I do respect your opinions, but on this I stand by what I said, in fact, I'll elaborate: I don't give a fuck whether the guys credentials are legit or not, he "gets" how women's minds work, and how to explain to a guy how to talk to us and why shit pisses us off.

And he was very articulate at explaining why men are so fucking weird and how to talk to them.

I generally don't recommend all of his shit, just the first book, and the sex one. I honestly think he hit something solid with those two. If you have a problem with him personally, that's your prerogative, but I don't believe in throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

 

[Arabian]

I havent had sex since I dont know when ..seriously personal choice due to the fact that I am waiting for the right one...

 

[walliwalibus]

Just pull the nut and get it over with. Be sure to have a nice pic of yourself and a few kleenx's