Girls that don't materbate

[Bobber]

What the fuck? This girl that I am "hanging out" with is almost impossible to get off and I think its cause she doesnt masterbate. She has no problems being naked and just walking around and stuff but when it comes to the actual deed she clams up and just wont let go. It is frustrating me to the point where I will not fuck her again unless she changes something. Any advice? And yes there is tons of foreplay and no I don't have a tiny dick.

 

[Paulos]

Maybe she just doesn't find you attractive...

J/K bro.

 

[Bobber]

Maybe she just doesn't find you attractive...

J/K bro.

LOL!!!

 

[Nathan]

Why don't you tell us what you are doing? Say it all slowly and very erotically. Thank you.

 

[Zerxes]

Some girls are just deadfucks brother, plain & simple. I have been with a few strippers in my days that sucked in Bed, and was shocked. You'd think that a Woman that can move that well on stage would be a virtual gymnast in the sack, but it isn't always true. I went out with a really sweet girl that I used to bartend with a few years ago as well, and she was by FAR the worst piece of sex that I have ever had. I tried to talk to her about it, and she just came off with the attitude that "Im not going to change, or do that because YOU want me to"! Kinda like a Feminist, "I wont do that because some Man says so" type attitude I thought. It was a waste of a year of my life brother. If a girl doesnt like sex..chances are you aint gonna make her. Move on

O, and about the Masturbation thing...I agree with you. The deadfuck Bargirl that I spoke of didnt do it either. IMO, it is kind of hard to know what you like done to you if you've never tried it on yourself. She felt like that would make her dirty if she did that I guess. I was like HELL YA MAN...Dirty would be nice!!! Not a chance.

 

[Bobber]

Some girls are just deadfucks brother, plain & simple. If a girl doesnt like sex..chances are you aint gonna make her. Move on

I would if it wasn't taking a toll on my ego.

 

[Jimsbbc]

If a girl doesnt like sex..chances are you aint gonna make her. Move on

I can atest to this with first hand experience. Go out and get yourself a wild woman.

 

[T-800]

you guys are all so right! some girls it's like pulling teeth...others they're fucking as horny as a guy! lol girls that are horny like guys are my type!

 

[VicTusDeuS]

My girl masturbates. I ask her frequently if she's done her daily masturbation....

 

[polarpixie]

Here's some advice for all you guys who've come across such a gal. Try seeing what happens if you try your hardest to make her feel like you think that her body is absolutely beautiful including her flaws. Try your hardest to make her feel relaxed and comfortable. Don't criticize her, and don't get mad or frustrated. Don't make this about your ego. Trust is a key word here, and women love to feel like they are the most beautiful thing on earth when they're around their man. It might take a few tries but you just might be surprised at the transformation.

Or there's always the alternative just find some other hoe to spend your lonely evenings with.

 

[casavant]

What the fuck? This girl that I am "hanging out" with is almost impossible to get off and I think its cause she doesnt masterbate. She has no problems being naked and just walking around and stuff but when it comes to the actual deed she clams up and just wont let go. It is frustrating me to the point where I will not fuck her again unless she changes something. Any advice? And yes there is tons of foreplay and no I don't have a tiny dick.

Man, you opened yourself up with this one.

I've been with a couple of chicks who had never had an orgasm. It doesn't always have to do with masturbation, although I could see why a chick who had trouble reaching climax would get discouraged and give up on trying.

 

[knight69]

OH BOY!!!!!! here we go again!! party, just party!! Maybe it will take more than just you 2. get others involved , everybody get naked and just fuck whatever hole you see, male or female, just let it fly everywhere!! once she gets about 4 guys on her and knows you kickin back w/ a beer or a dart full of a.s. she will cum.

 

[DownUnder23]

I can atest to this with first hand experience. Go out and get yourself a wild woman.

agreed!

 

[casavant]

Here's some advice for all you guys who've come across such a gal. Try seeing what happens if you try your hardest to make her feel like you think that her body is absolutely beautiful including her flaws. Try your hardest to make her feel relaxed and comfortable. Don't criticize her, and don't get mad or frustrated. Don't make this about your ego. Trust is a key word here, and women love to feel like they are the most beautiful thing on earth when they're around their man. It might take a few tries but you just might be surprised at the transformation.

Or there's always the alternative just find some other hoe to spend your lonely evenings with.

I thought that was, like, what dudes did when they're with their girl.

 

[Raina]

If she can't get herself off, that's really sad. How on earth is she supposed to think another person can give her pleasure when she's too uptight and inhibited to figure out what feels good.

 

[b fold the truth]

Here's some advice for all you guys who've come across such a gal. Try seeing what happens if you try your hardest to make her feel like you think that her body is absolutely beautiful including her flaws. Try your hardest to make her feel relaxed and comfortable. Don't criticize her, and don't get mad or frustrated. Don't make this about your ego. Trust is a key word here, and women love to feel like they are the most beautiful thing on earth when they're around their man. It might take a few tries but you just might be surprised at the transformation.

If you didn't feel this way about the person anyway...why would you be having sex or making love? Seriously... If you don't love all of their "flaws" then why are you even thinking about getting naked together?

I am FAR from perfect...especially in the body. The women who have made me feel the best in every sense were the women who loved me and thought that I did have a great body. Their perception of me helped my confidence and perception of myself...a lot.

B True

 

[casavant]

If you didn't feel this way about the person anyway...why would you be having sex or making love? Seriously... If you don't love all of their "flaws" then why are you even thinking about getting naked together?

Hell, I don't know....for the pussy????

 

[b fold the truth]

Hell, I don't know....for the pussy????

Guess I've never been like that...ever.

B True

 

[polarpixie]

I thought that was, like, what dudes did when they're with their girl.

I hope that's true, but some guys really need to a few clues. If bobber's setup is just a fuck-buddy sitch, which I think it is, then he just needs to find someone else. It's obviously she's just a wannabe hoe and not the real thing if she can't get off with just any guy.

lol....I feel like a nosey audience member on the Ricky Lake show all of a sudden....

Oh, and Btrue, you're 100% right. But there are guys who don't know this.

 

[tripleV]

here's a thought, she may just be young and inexperienced....

 

[HUGHJORGEN]

here's a thought, she may just be young and inexperienced....

I am too. I will let you take my flower if you promiss to be gentle and loving!

 

[Haz]

It could be hormones, especially if she is young. Most chicks don't start getting horny until they are older.

 

[velvett]

What the fuck? This girl that I am "hanging out" with is almost impossible to get off and I think its cause she doesnt masterbate. She has no problems being naked and just walking around and stuff but when it comes to the actual deed she clams up and just wont let go. It is frustrating me to the point where I will not fuck her again unless she changes something. Any advice? And yes there is tons of foreplay and no I don't have a tiny dick.

LOL

It's not about the dick.


Try two things.

1 - get her some toys and/or books (try 'good vibrations' they're online)

2 - try oral - RRRRRRoooooooooRRRRRRRRWWWWWWWW - (the tongueused properly IS mightier than the penis.



Side note: she may not find herself sexually with you or any time soon and if she's not interested in finding out what works for her - you're just beating a dead horse, it has to come from her .

 

[big4life]

Re: Re: Girls that don't materbate

LOL

It's not about the dick.

Try two things.

1 - get her some toys and/or books (try 'good vibrations' they're online)

2 - try oral - RRRRRRoooooooooRRRRRRRRWWWWWWWW - (the tongueused properly IS mightier than the penis.

Side note: she may not find herself sexually with you or any time soon and if she's not interested in finding out what works for her - you're just beating a dead horse, it has to come from her .

Every man should learn to use his tongue, it can be very rewarding.

 

[Bobber]

Or there's always the alternative just find some other hoe to spend your lonely evenings with.

PP - Wanna fuck?

Velvett - I already offered the toys and she said maybe. I don't like the girl, all I want to do is get her off really good and open her up to the world of great sex then I am out. And as for the tongue....there is no fucking way in hell my tongue is going to touch some strange twat!!! Unless I was hammered shit anyways. I only lick the kitties that are branded with "Property of The Bobber" and she is not going to be in that stable.

BFold - Not every girl I am with am I in it for love, casual sex is a great thing after a 3 year relationship.

I will give her one last try tonight and if she doesn't release those inhibitions she's done. Oh well I have my wedding date to have great sex with all weekend long if this doesn't go the way I want to make up for it I guess, but my ego will take a blow regardless of it not being my fault.

 

[big_bad_buff]

i was with a girl for a while that was the same, she would ride me to the point were she was almost going to, and just stop and not move, (clam up as you said is a good word) what the fuck it that all about? but i know for a fact she did masturbate so you got me.

 

[Zerxes]

PP - Wanna fuck?

Velvett - I already offered the toys and she said maybe. I don't like the girl, all I want to do is get her off really good and open her up to the world of great sex then I am out. And as for the tongue....there is no fucking way in hell my tongue is going to touch some strange twat!!! Unless I was hammered shit anyways. I only lick the kitties that are branded with "Property of The Bobber" and she is not going to be in that stable.

WOAH! Brother, I thought that SHE was the one who was sexually repessed until I read that one!! You have issues yourdamnself it appears. Just stick to the Clit if your so worried about who's been inside her. That's all she gonna want anyhow I'm sure.

 

[Bobber]

Zerxes -

Sorry man but I just can not bring myself to do it. The thought of some other guy's dick having been all up in that shit is the biggest turn off on earth. If thats what she wants then she can feel free to move on at any time. But as for sexually repressed....after being with a girl for some time I am game for ANYTHING and I do mean anything.......well other than large objects, larger than say a finger tip, and my asshole.

 

[Zerxes]

Zerxes -

Sorry man but I just can not bring myself to do it. The thought of some other guy's dick having been all up in that shit is the biggest turn off on earth. If thats what she wants then she can feel free to move on at any time. But as for sexually repressed....after being with a girl for some time I am game for ANYTHING and I do mean anything.......well other than large objects, larger than say a finger tip, and my asshole.

Like I said bro....just lick the clitty if you are worried about who's been up inside her. Stay away from the hole my son! Dont go into the light Carole Anne! As for me saying that you were repressed...I take it back. You obviously aren't.

 

[velvett]

I don't like the girl, all I want to do is get her off really good and open her up to the world of great sex then I am out.

So um, what's the problem then?

Move on to someone that is willing, able and interested in the type of sex you are interested in.

Darlin' - this is YOUR problem not hers.






Why the hell would you have sex with someone you don't like?
Even if it's just sex thang (there nothing wrong with that if that's what you're into and all parties are cool with that) why with someone you're not into?

I don't get it.

 

[Zerxes]

So um, what's the problem then?

Move on to someone that is willing, able and interested in the type of sex you are interested in.

Darlin' - this is YOUR problem not hers.






Why the hell would you have sex with someone you don't like?
Even if it's just sex thang (there nothing wrong with that if that's what you're into and all parties are cool with that) why with someone you're not into?

I don't get it.

This is purely a guy thang there hunny bunny. He wants to get her off so that his sexual ego will be back intact, then he can move on and have a "mission accomplished" feeling about it. I'm not ripping the dude at all by saying this. I've been there myself. If it were me, I would want to make sure that when she talks to her friends about me(and we all know you ladies love to talk), that she says that I was a stallion in the sack, despite the fact that I am a dickhead. That always reels in a few extra fish it seems. Like I said, Im officially a P-I-G today!!!

 

[Silent Method]

Velvett - I already offered the toys and she said maybe. I don't like the girl, all I want to do is get her off really good and open her up to the world of great sex then I am out. And as for the tongue....there is no fucking way in hell my tongue is going to touch some strange twat!!! Unless I was hammered shit anyways. I only lick the kitties that are branded with "Property of The Bobber" and she is not going to be in that stable.

Maybe she will open up sexually when stimulated by a truly loving man. I don't know, some of us in this world still correlate love and sex.

If she's "not going to be in that stable" why are you wasting your time? Go fuck your hand.

 

[Bobber]

So um, what's the problem then?

Darlin' - this is YOUR problem not hers.

Why the hell would you have sex with someone you don't like?

There is no problem...it's a challenge that I want to conquer. It's her problem that I want to fix but has now turned into my problem(for just one more night, then I will pass it on to the next guy if I come out defeated). I have sex with her cause she is cute and I have a quota for this semester which I need to meet. LOL! It's an inside thing with my boy up at Tech. Sorry if yall feel that that is immature. and Polar Pixie please do not wish upon me some horrible STD again or I will reneg on my 2nd offer to fuck.....eventhough you did turn me down the first time.

 

[Bobber]

Zerxes - You hit the nail on the head although it has not effected me to the extent where it will inhibit my performance.

Silent - I am like that too 90% of the time. Sex =love yada yada yada.....but right now I am just having fun and she knows it so its gravy brotha. Read above post for answer to your stable question and my hand will be in use soon.

 

[Lord_Suston]

The clit that is the key my young Padiwan... You hit that and they scream in joy... Plus some women just don't get off by plain sex, the clit is where it is at... Plus after they have one orgasm they will be addicted and be your love slave.... Clit, Clit , Clit....

 

[hippedy hop]

why doesn't she materbate i mean it is the cool thing to do right?

my dream girl won't have to materbate b/c i can pleasure her with a pencil and an eraser.

 

[Bobber]

Ok its 2:45 and she just left and NEITHER one of us got off this time. She said its impossible for her to get off with a guy she is not completely comfortable with and that if it is that big of a blow to my ego I should tough it out until she is. Needless to say that is done, somebody else can teach her the swing of things. What a waste of time... at least I got some good pics out of it.

 

[Zerxes]

Ok its 2:45 and she just left and NEITHER one of us got off this time. She said its impossible for her to get off with a guy she is not completely comfortable with and that if it is that big of a blow to my ego I should tough it out until she is. Needless to say that is done, somebody else can teach her the swing of things. What a waste of time... at least I got some good pics out of it.

Post up then my brotha! The pics I mean....

 

[bigguns7]

And as for the tongue....there is no fucking way in hell my tongue is going to touch some strange twat!!! Unless I was hammered shit anyways. I only lick the kitties that are branded with "Property of The Bobber" and she is not going to be in that stable.

There's your problem. Now stop wasting everyone's time. Don't devote a whole thread to "I can't get this girl off, what's wrong?" and then mention later that you're not engaging in cunnilingus. That's pitiful.

 

[TEXgrl]

Velvett - I already offered the toys and she said maybe. I don't like the girl, all I want to do is get her off really good and open her up to the world of great sex then I am out. And as for the tongue....there is no fucking way in hell my tongue is going to touch some strange twat!!! Unless I was hammered shit anyways. I only lick the kitties that are branded with "Property of The Bobber" and she is not going to be in that stable.

if you're not giving her oral, she probably never will get off. oral is the easiest way for most women to get off, at least it was for me when i was younger. girl on top is another good way.

 

[Bobber]

Damn people whats yalls deal with going down on a chick? She is a stranger. Stranger = no going south of the border. And I didn't know 20 was young but I guess it could be.

Zerxes - When I get the pics developed I will post a few if I can find a scanner.

 

[TEXgrl]

Damn people whats yalls deal with going down on a chick? She is a stranger. Stranger = no going south of the border. And I didn't know 20 was young but I guess it could be.

but screwing a stranger is ok? i don't really see one being any more or less intimate than the other........

 

[lilperronis]

omg dude you need to lick that pussy


o and 1.)licking you cant get a STD
2.)fucking you can mess up and wind up with a kid

 

[b fold the truth]

omg dude you need to lick that pussy


1.)licking you cant get a STD

YES you can...YES you can...

B True

 

[Munkeee de Sade]

Well before my b/f I have now I had never got off. I would try to get myself off but when it got close I just couldn't do it. It was way too intense for me. I had it in my head that I would never be able to. Then when my b.f and I started having sex he tried but of course nothing. This one time I was riding him and he could tell that I was getting close and he rolled me over so that he was on top. He rapped his arms around me and didn't stop it drove me insaine I was tring so hard to get away but then it finally happend!!!!! THANK GOD!!!! It was the best feeling I had ever had. So maybe it does just take the right person.