girls into inter-racial: help please!

[chiro2b]

quick story before the question...

I recently dated a little blonde hottie (and as you can see I am white), who one night got drunk and preceded to tell me that i was the first white guy she had been sexually attracted to since she was a junior in high school...She had a "confessional" attitude about it until i reassured her that i didn't give a shit about that...i don't care one way or the other...

Now, about 6 months later, i am faced once again with a hot little blonde who has previously only dated black guys...Now, I understand that everyone has preferences and types, but does it go deeper than that for inter-racial couples? I am just curious, for i can't see myself just dating a specific ethnicity...

 

[BUBBLES]

If you mean "deeper" ...from a female's point of view the answer is yeah lol.

As for feelings between a white woman and a coloured guy it is the same as between a white girl and a white guy. The love is still there between two people, sometimes you may have to deal with cultural differences but its pretty much the same.

 

[chiro2b]

every human is capable of the same range of emotions, therefore it makes sense that every couple can experience the same range of emotions together, no matter the skin color-i agree with you there...

 

[dugie65]

once you go black, you never go back, atta boy chrio way to break that rule. On the serious side, luckily these girls have been brought up to have an open mind, so thats always a plus. I really dont think it's any deeper than just preference, but then again i've never experienced it.

 

[hamstershaver]

black men have bigger cocks you are in trouble

 

[DieselDan]

get ready for their shit.the getto will come out in them.

 

[Dial_tone]

I'm black and I date mostly white because the girls I meet are mostly white. I don't have a problem with black women and would marry one in a heart beat. I just don't like those green chicks.....they stink and don't shave their pits.

 

[gregory]

When women of a certain race date men from another race exclusively, with exclusively being the key word, there's a world of shit under the surface you don't want to touch. They're not emotionally stable individuals and that's putting it nicely. I have seen this with black girls that date white guys exclusively, and same for the white girls dating black guys exclusively. I'm not saying they have to be basket cases in hiding to do this, but in real life it just really seems to be that way.

 

[DieselDan]

Amen-and you put it nicely

 

[TruBalla4Real]

When women of a certain race date men from another race exclusively, with exclusively being the key word, there's a world of shit under the surface you don't want to touch. They're not emotionally stable individuals and that's putting it nicely. I have seen this with black girls that date white guys exclusively, and same for the white girls dating black guys exclusively. I'm not saying they have to be basket cases in hiding to do this, but in real life it just really seems to be that way.

I'm from a very racially mixed area, and my high school was much the same (60% white, 30% black, 10% hispanic), and I can second this for the most part. I don't know why it is, but it is....? People who switch between races, but aren't exclusive, are find though... weird?

 

[jstmitebe]

i think it is whatever you are attracted to....ie...some people like blonde hair blue eyes...some like red hair etc. some people like darker skin then others but all should be open minded enough to try something they never had before....perhaps you are just a cutie pie and they like your package

 

[SexyJen]

black men rule i love big black dicks yummy........

 

[Robert Jan]

It does sort of bother me when white girls date black guys

and yes what gregory said is also my experience, they usually have some difficult situation they're in

I also recall white girlies from my HS being in love with black guys and i'd see those same guys at the gym speaking very disrespectfully of them behind their backs

just my personal experience

 

[gregory]

It's a funny thing really. White girls date black guys because they may have a preference for a more masculine male, while black girls date white guys because they don't like black men for many reasons including the one RJ pointed out in the end. They want more respect. Perhaps it's all for the better anyway, that way in the distant future there will be no black and white and we'll put this to rest once and for all with all of us looking alike.

 

[BUBBLES]

i think it is whatever you are attracted to....ie...some people like blonde hair blue eyes...some like red hair etc. some people like darker skin then others but all should be open minded enough to try something they never had before....perhaps you are just a cutie pie and they like your package

I agree ...
i went out with a mulatto - half africans, a quarter irish and a quarter dutch - because we were attracted to eachother but that does not mean i am not attracted to a blonde, redhead or brunette man....it depends on the chemistry & the package!!!

so i do not think a coloured man should feel intimidated by a white man or the white man by the coloured man because both have unique qualities...same with the girls!

 

[Robert Jan]

Well... this nice looking smart girl made a pass at me last week but I didn't take it up because I heard she had been sleeping with a black guy.
Or well not JUST that... but the fact that a while ago she was with a neo nazi.
Apparently she really doesn't give a shit who she fucks.

 

[BUBBLES]

Well... this nice looking smart girl made a pass at me last week but I didn't take it up because I heard she had been sleeping with a black guy.
Or well not JUST that... but the fact that a while ago she was with a neo nazi.
Apparently she really doesn't give a shit who she fucks.

if the woman/male is a slut then don't give them a chance but if they have been with a coloured person that is not a good reason to stop going out with them....unless you are not attracted to them....

 

[gregory]

Impossible for a man to be a slut.

 

[BUBBLES]

Impossible for a man to be a slut.

say again?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

if they have been with a coloured person that is not a good reason to stop going out with them

Someone's reasons are their own....

 

[gregory]

say again?

Impossible for a man to be a slut. This is an honor bestoved upon women.

We are jigalos, sp? So get it right. J/K

 

[Robert Jan]

if the woman/male is a slut then don't give them a chance but if they have been with a coloured person that is not a good reason to stop going out with them....unless you are not attracted to them....

I assume you read this in "The Book of Universal Unarguable Truthtm"

 

[BUBBLES]

I assume you read this in "The Book of Universal Unarguable Truthtm"

stating the obvious brings things into perspective...
that book has been bestowed upon me together with a few others

 

[BUBBLES]

Impossible for a man to be a slut. This is an honor bestoved upon women.

We are jigalos, sp? So get it right. J/K

you are trying to be funny, for a second i thought you succeeded...

 

[Dr. Evil]

black men rule i love big black dicks yummy........

sexyjen, you truly are white trash

 

[gregory]

you are trying to be funny, for a second i thought you succeeded...

TRYING?!?! Shit, back to the drawing board.

 

[Allon]

Well... this nice looking smart girl made a pass at me last week but I didn't take it up because I heard she had been sleeping with a black guy.
Or well not JUST that... but the fact that a while ago she was with a neo nazi.
Apparently she really doesn't give a shit who she fucks.

I am very surprised by your posts here Robert Jan. From all other posts of yours I have seen before you sound so intelligent and open minded, yet you have a problem with black people? hmmm, I know south africans and their forefathers the Dutch have this issue with blacks, pity you can't go beyond that, I guess you aren't so open minded or liberal after all.

 

[gregory]

So being open minded means you can't have an opinion that unpopular with someone? It means you have to bend over and accept and love everything and never disagree? You may need to be more open minded yourself in accepting the fact that not everyone thinks the same way. If he does not like women that slept with black guys, it does not mean he does not like black people. This is a leap you took. I don't like woman that slept with some white guys either.

 

[Dr. Evil]

So being open minded means you can't have an opinion that unpopular with someone? It means you have to bend over and accept and love everything and never disagree? You may need to be more open minded yourself in accepting the fact that not everyone thinks the same way. If he does not like women that slept with black guys, it does not mean he does not like black people. This is a leap you took. I don't like woman that slept with some white guys either.

way to go gregory!!!

 

[Allon]

You guys are full off shit, not liking a girl cause she slept with a black guy means you are reacist and NOT open minded.

 

[Robert Jan]

You guys are full off shit, not liking a girl cause she slept with a black guy means you are reacist and NOT open minded.

Maybe I should have stated she was with a thug. There are no together, intelligent, ambitious , responsible blacks in my little area.

 

[Allon]

What is your area? apart from it being Holland which has many black people. what do you live in some small village where all the blacks are thugs? I don't buy it.

 

[Robert Jan]

What is your area? apart from it being Holland which has many black people. what do you live in some small village where all the blacks are thugs? I don't buy it.

I do live in a rural area and the very few blacks I see here look right out of a gangster rap video

 

[Allon]

I do live in a rural area and the very few blacks I see here look right out of a gangster rap video

Ok, so you are saying you are not racist? You have no problem with colored people?

 

[Robert Jan]

Ok, so you are saying you are not racist? You have no problem with colored people?

Don't have a problem with a coloured man. Do have a problem with the development that they're taking over Europe.

Not even really that. More that people with foreign cultures and beliefs are.

Their skin colour is not what MAKES them different. It's what makes them easier to spot as different people.

 

[Allon]

Look RJ, I really appreciate most your posts, you seem to be a highly intelligent and well educated person, as well as being open minded and moderate. so I am surprised and dumbfounded by what you are saying.
Take it from me, I live in one of the racist countries in the world, Israel, I also spent a number of years in my youth in South Africa back in the apartheid days so I know about racism.
What you are saying above is racist, I can understand what motivates you to say it and feel this way but you gotta see the big picture.
The Dutch and English as well as the rest of Europe totally fucked up Africa over the last 500 years. Therefore I beleive that Europe has to accept many Africans into Europe and allow for integration. Its the same with the slaves in America, many of their offspring till this days are in "The Hood" and it will still take some time for this to be mended. It sucks but it is YOUR ancestors doing. Your attitude will not make the situation better, and enough people with your attitude will make it take longer to get better.

 

[Dial_tone]

Don't have a problem with a coloured man.

Sure you do and for the life of me I can't understand why you insist on pretending that you don't.

 

[Allon]

Sure you do and for the life of me I can't understand why you insist on pretending that you don't.

As I lived in south africa in my youth I am surprised with myself that I still get shocked and disgusted everytime afresh when I see the kind of racism I have seen on this thread. I should be used to it by now.

I sure have experienced the ELITIST Dutch attitude many times before, booth in South Africa, Holland, Germany, and England. I have met more racist Dutch people than I have any other apart from South Africans.
Robert Jan, only 18, so smart and yet still a brainwashed, racist, elitist member of the Dutch royalty/Free mason/Whatever.

 

[Dr. Evil]

I'll admit it, I'm racist.

I dont like blacks because that whole hip-hop ghetto crap is ruining america.

I dont like gypsies and their theiving ways.

The same goes with those stinkin jew pieces of crapola

and I hate white people who think and act black.

oh, and crackheads too.

ok, dial tone, give me another bomb for exercising my freedom of speech again. go ahead

 

[gregory]

Sure you do and for the life of me I can't understand why you insist on pretending that you don't.

Oh please, don't take an all high and mighty attitude here. You have racial dislikes in you just like anyone else, but wait opps i forgot only the white man can be racist, to every other race it's a foreign thought, their minds are oh so pure. I remeber your comments about the white girlfriend you have, it went something to the effect of giving it to her for your people kinda thing, hipocracy? sp.

At least RJ is open about his thoughts, most here pretend to be high and mighty but mumble racial insults under their breath walking down the street. And not liking a particular demographic of black people does not make one racist. I worked and hung out with guys from Africa (Nigeria) and one thing we had in common when hanging out is we all equally hated black gangbangers. So imagine that a white guy with a bunch of Africans hating on black gangbangers, with the Africans openly calling them Niggers and stating how much they would love to shoot them for being lazy, standing round the corner all day dealing and doing who knows what.

Next time you guys are so quick to pin the racist tail on the donkey make sure you have the persons entire perspective on the issue, not just tid bits that make it easy to jump to conclusions.

 

[Gymgurl]

There are so much more to a inter-racial relationship then just the color. There are cultural differences, other peoples influences and ect....but if you can both get passed all that stuff why would it be a bad thing.

RJ....come vist me in Detroit.

 

[Snypr]

When women of a certain race date men from another race exclusively, with exclusively being the key word, there's a world of shit under the surface you don't want to touch. They're not emotionally stable individuals and that's putting it nicely. I have seen this with black girls that date white guys exclusively, and same for the white girls dating black guys exclusively. I'm not saying they have to be basket cases in hiding to do this, but in real life it just really seems to be that way.

This is the truest post I've read anywhere. I have female friends of both races that "cross-color" exclusively, and every single one of them has issues that you and an army of head doctors couldn't sort out.

 

[Allon]

Oh please, don't take an all high and mighty attitude here. You have racial dislikes in you just like anyone else, but wait opps i forgot only the white man can be racist, to every other race it's a foreign thought, their minds are oh so pure. I remeber your comments about the white girlfriend you have, it went something to the effect of giving it to her for your people kinda thing, hipocracy? sp.

At least RJ is open about his thoughts, most here pretend to be high and mighty but mumble racial insults under their breath walking down the street. And not liking a particular demographic of black people does not make one racist. I worked and hung out with guys from Africa (Nigeria) and one thing we had in common when hanging out is we all equally hated black gangbangers. So imagine that a white guy with a bunch of Africans hating on black gangbangers, with the Africans openly calling them Niggers and stating how much they would love to shoot them for being lazy, standing round the corner all day dealing and doing who knows what.

Next time you guys are so quick to pin the racist tail on the donkey make sure you have the persons entire perspective on the issue, not just tid bits that make it easy to jump to conclusions.

BS

 

[Dial_tone]

Oh please, don't take an all high and mighty attitude here. You have racial dislikes in you just like anyone else, but wait opps i forgot only the white man can be racist, to every other race it's a foreign thought, their minds are oh so pure. I remeber your comments about the white girlfriend you have, it went something to the effect of giving it to her for your people kinda thing, hipocracy? sp.

At least RJ is open about his thoughts, most here pretend to be high and mighty but mumble racial insults under their breath walking down the street. And not liking a particular demographic of black people does not make one racist. I worked and hung out with guys from Africa (Nigeria) and one thing we had in common when hanging out is we all equally hated black gangbangers. So imagine that a white guy with a bunch of Africans hating on black gangbangers, with the Africans openly calling them Niggers and stating how much they would love to shoot them for being lazy, standing round the corner all day dealing and doing who knows what.

Next time you guys are so quick to pin the racist tail on the donkey make sure you have the persons entire perspective on the issue, not just tid bits that make it easy to jump to conclusions.

He's not open about jack shit. He states his bigotry then denies it in the very next sentence. Call a spade a spade. I like RJ just fine and give him credit for posting as himself, unlike Dr. Evil who's probably an alter that didn't have the balls to post under his real account.

 

[Robert Jan]

I suppose I am racist.
Theres just a lot to the definition of racism. I don't believe whites are all born "better" than blacks... but heres my objective experience...

I walk out on the street for 30 mins and see around 2/3 whites and 1/3 non whites.

I go to class with 300 people. My school asks almost no tuition, Flanders is socialist about that. There are no screening interviews, only a fairly tough entry test. There are all sorts of facilities to help people from other cultures follow the programs. There is not a single black person in my class.

My sister who is 21 years old and intelligent has been seriously threatened with weapons three times in the past few years. Each time they were coloured people. Each time it started when they started hitting on her, she told them no, and they got insulted. One time a guy pulled out a big knife on her and she hit him over the head with a glass bottle and he went down hard. when the police came they told her she shouldn't even go in this part of town because "its THEIRS here", and she's lucky if he doesn't sue her.

Out of all the white young girls I know, only one is in the habit of dating different races. She has a broken home, a suicidal little brother, educational problems and also dated neo nazi army boot wearers for a while.

Maybe it's different elsewhere.

 

[gregory]

I suppose I am racist.
Theres just a lot to the definition of racism. I don't believe whites are all born "better" than blacks... but heres my objective experience...

I walk out on the street for 30 mins and see around 2/3 whites and 1/3 non whites.

I go to class with 300 people. My school asks almost no tuition, Flanders is socialist about that. There are no screening interviews, only a fairly tough entry test. There are all sorts of facilities to help people from other cultures follow the programs. There is not a single black person in my class.

Out of all the white young girls I know, only one is in the habit of dating different races. She has a broken home, a suicidal little brother, educational problems and also dated neo nazi army boot wearers for a while.

Maybe it's different elsewhere.

No different elsewhere, it's the same scenario playing out everywhere.

 

[gregory]

BS

It's not BS, it's my life experience. Sorry to shatter your world.

 

[gregory]

He's not open about jack shit. He states his bigotry then denies it in the very next sentence. Call a spade a spade. I like RJ just fine and give him credit for posting as himself, unlike Dr. Evil who's probably an alter that didn't have the balls to post under his real account.

No DT, Black people in the USA have been and continue to be conditioned to see racism EVERYWHERE. If you look for things like this you'll become naturally adept at seeing it everwhere. In other words, you'll always find what you look for, in this case racism. This is perpetuated by the Black Media, Black leaders and Black Entertainers especially. I've watched Black entertainers talk about racism in recent TV interviews and they are convinced Racism is still alive and well, just like 40 years ago. The only difference they said is that:
" a Nigger is only a Nigger when he leaves a room "

Well that's just fucking great, with an attitude like that no colored person stands a chance as he is his OWN WORST ENEMY, free your mind. I am as white and European looking a white man you'll ever meet and i can tell you that every time a black person we knew left a room even after an argument he was not a "nigger". His name was and is Jeff. And behind his back everyone called him Jeff.

I have come across many Blacks in the US that see a white guy as racist for not liking a particular black person. As if Black people were just a mass of living people, all the same and indistigushable from one another. Hate one and you must hate them all, so you're racist as can be. I just don't see it that way. I can hate on one black guy and call him an asshole and not want him dating my daughter in front of "Jeff" and just go about my business having a drink with him laughing at jokes we made behind that particular Black guys back.

Peace and free your minds.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Maybe it's different elsewhere.

Nope.

 

[Dial_tone]

No DT, Black people in the USA have been and continue to be conditioned to see racism EVERYWHERE.

More bullshit on toast. I have lived in an area that is 2% black (yes 2%) for the last 6 years and I have seen no racism whatsoever.

 

[gregory]

Fine I'll not argue this any more, afterall what's the point. We all have our points of view and they're not about to change in any direction. But your statement about not seeing racism is what i was talking about in my post. You know the leaving the room part. But hey ta ta.

 

[SuperDawgy]

I'm black and I date mostly white because the girls I meet are mostly white. I don't have a problem with black women and would marry one in a heart beat. I just don't like those green chicks.....they stink and don't shave their pits.

I hear ya dawg! Green chicks suck, but not as much as the polka dotted ones. Personally i think black and asian mixed chicks are the hottest around...unless they're ugly in which case they fall in the same category as greenies and polka dotted skanks.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

I havnt met too many people I can say I dislike, of any color really.

But I do strongly beleive that white girls who exclusivley date outside their race ( or any person that exclusivley dates outside their race) are compeletly fucked up.

We are genetically programmed to find our won race the most attractive.. its buiilt in. It perpetuates each specific race.

To purposely go against that is either out of spoite or some deep rooted issue with self esteem..

Ive always felt like women who dated exclusively outside their race did not feel "good enough" about themselves..

and as far as the dick size thing.. Being an active member of the swinging community for the last couple of years.. that is a complete myth.

If it were true it woudl NOT be a good reflection on the loyalty of black women.. the size and shape of the penis has evolved the way it is to help discard the semen from other males..

To imply that black males have bigger dicks would be saying that through natural selection.. it has occurred because black women fuck so many men while there ovulating, the man with the biggest dick is the most likely to impregnate her...

But countless studies have shown black men just do not go as flaccid as white men due to higher DHT levels. (one of the cause of their much higher risk for prosatet problems later in life)

 

[TruBalla4Real]

More bullshit on toast. I have lived in an area that is 2% black (yes 2%) for the last 6 years and I have seen no racism whatsoever.

See that is so false. Sorry to say this, but you can't argue that every time someone sees a black person in your community they aren't thinking something or acting slightly different around that person. One of my best friends is black and I've talked to him about this. I can't lie and say I'm not guilty of at least thinking, "that guy is black/asian/hispanic," but after that I treat them no differently. The ONLY answer to this problem is integration, acceptance, and letting go of cultural differences and barriers. As long as we are visably distinguishable from eachother, racism will exist. This is why white people like the Irish were able to integrate (even though they were hated), they are WHITE. Period.

And looking at this situation subjectively, without the elimination of the thuggish attitude of SOME blacks and the redneck attitude of some whites the acceptance will never occur. Many whites hate the thug culture, and blacks hate redneck racism. The most important thing to remember, though, is that there are many people that don't fit either of these categories.

I am speaking the honest truth here.

 

[Dial_tone]

This is the breakdown of my zip code.

* White Non-Hispanic (63.1%)
* Chinese (8.5%)
* Japanese (7.9%)
* Hispanic (5.7%)
* Korean (5.0%)
* Two or more races (3.4%)
* Black (2.0%)
* Asian Indian (1.6%)
* Filipino (1.5%)
* Other race (1.2%)
* Other Asian (1.2%)
* American Indian (0.6%)

(Total can be greater than 100% because Hispanics could be counted in other races)

You really think somebody is giving me a second glance in that group? This is SoCal so if anybody is catching hell here it's the Hispanics.