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Okay, heres my situation:
I was training for gym/water polo 6 times a week and I met this girl at the pools a while back, she seemed really friendly and was clearly into me. She gave me her details to speak on the comp.
So we'd been speaking and e-flirting quite frequently on the comp, and obviously would speak whenever we saw each other at the gym.
Then she gives me her number and a few weeks later I told her I'd call at a certain time to arrange to take her out properly. So I call, but there's no answer. So I sent a funny msg basically asking if she's no longer keen, blah blah blah.... She replied basically saying she is still keen, but is playing hard to get because otherwise its no fun. So I replied with something like 'haha, well I might call you in the next few days if you're lucky.' Anyway, you get the drift.
It's been a few weeks now and certain situations prevented me from calling, and I sensed that she was less interested when speaking to her at the pools, which was obviously expected after I didn't call.
Now, after I didn't call, she's not initiating conversations on the comp anymore, and I've tried to speak to her but she's been ignoring me. But if she wanted to ignore me, why wouldn't she just block me? Does she want me to THINK that she's ignoring me after I didn't call her or something? ... Seems a bit weird.
Anyway, obviously she thinks I'm no longer interested or else I would have called, but I was very busy with stuff at the time and just forgot about it. This girl was really fun to be around and to talk to before this, so I'd like to get back to where we were before, but obviously it's gonna be hard.
It'll be very awkward if I called now three weeks later, so what do you suggest??
I was training for gym/water polo 6 times a week and I met this girl at the pools a while back, she seemed really friendly and was clearly into me. She gave me her details to speak on the comp.
So we'd been speaking and e-flirting quite frequently on the comp, and obviously would speak whenever we saw each other at the gym.
Then she gives me her number and a few weeks later I told her I'd call at a certain time to arrange to take her out properly. So I call, but there's no answer. So I sent a funny msg basically asking if she's no longer keen, blah blah blah.... She replied basically saying she is still keen, but is playing hard to get because otherwise its no fun. So I replied with something like 'haha, well I might call you in the next few days if you're lucky.' Anyway, you get the drift.
It's been a few weeks now and certain situations prevented me from calling, and I sensed that she was less interested when speaking to her at the pools, which was obviously expected after I didn't call.
Now, after I didn't call, she's not initiating conversations on the comp anymore, and I've tried to speak to her but she's been ignoring me. But if she wanted to ignore me, why wouldn't she just block me? Does she want me to THINK that she's ignoring me after I didn't call her or something? ... Seems a bit weird.
Anyway, obviously she thinks I'm no longer interested or else I would have called, but I was very busy with stuff at the time and just forgot about it. This girl was really fun to be around and to talk to before this, so I'd like to get back to where we were before, but obviously it's gonna be hard.
It'll be very awkward if I called now three weeks later, so what do you suggest??
