Girl Drama + Weight Loss

[Fashionista]

Ugh, I give up, the other day I hit a wall with a good friend of mine. We decided to throw a 4th of July party and invite our crushes to a picnic. Everything was going fine until she suggested we go swimming at the lake… I could have killed her! She knows I am self-conscious, and of course she’s perfect in every way… but I talked with my mom and she said I can’t blame her, so I’ve decided to go for it and tackle my over-weight issues head on, its no one else’s problem but mine alone! I have to do it. I have started watching the new Rocco Dispirito show on Bravo recently and have heard that he is going to start walking us through a new healthy diet that will help out.With his Watch and Win contest, its given me some incentive but, tonight he’s bringing on some fitness experts… has anyone heard of them? Joe Dowdell and Betty Wong? Let me know!

 

[JDid23]

Ugh, I give up, the other day I hit a wall with a good friend of mine. We decided to throw a 4th of July party and invite our crushes to a picnic. Everything was going fine until she suggested we go swimming at the lake… I could have killed her! She knows I am self-conscious, and of course she’s perfect in every way… but I talked with my mom and she said I can’t blame her, so I’ve decided to go for it and tackle my over-weight issues head on, its no one else’s problem but mine alone! I have to do it. I have started watching the new Rocco Dispirito show on Bravo recently and have heard that he is going to start walking us through a new healthy diet that will help out.With his Watch and Win contest, its given me some incentive but, tonight he’s bringing on some fitness experts… has anyone heard of them? Joe Dowdell and Betty Wong? Let me know!

bro, idk who the fuck jow dowdell and betty wong are, but i sure as well wouldn't listen to betty fuckin wong if i wanted to get in shape... I'd listen to guys who have been in your situation and gotten into good shape in similar situations here on EF. I've always been in good shape so i can't empathize with you, but i was in a similar position with a girl. I've never had any problem picking up girls, but this girl was the "different one" for me. Anyways, enough about me, but i used her to motivate the shit out of me in the gym, and i think you should do the same.

first off, you gotta take care of your diet. Diet = the most important part of the battle when fighting off weight, and for many, the hardest. What does your current diet look like on an average day? don't be afraid to say it honestly even if you eat fuckin doritos for every meal; people are here to help.

are you currently working out with weights/doing cardio?

also, what are your stats (height, weight, age)

lastly, girls are emotional motherfuckers. I know guys who are really good looking who have little success picking up girls, and guys who look like a gorillas anus (ok, maybe a little better) who get girls who are "out of their league". Be smooth, confident/cocky, but not just a huge cock, tease them, touch them, and you'll be good to go. Don't let your weight or any insecurities keep you from getting a girl you want. Everyone is his/her own worst critic, so keep your head up bro


EDIT: I just saw that you're a female, so disregard the 'bros' and the part about getting girls hahha

 

[stevesmi]

^^^ the OP is a female.

and to fasionista you are welcome to PM me and I will be glad to set u up on a program so you can reach your goals.

 

[miked8c]

Jdid, your post was hilarious.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

lmao at the "girl" advice to a girl, lmao now shell never come back

 

[JDid23]

Jdid, your post was hilarious.

Sorry fashionista! it's not often i see a female venture into these forums, so please forgive me for addressing you as a guy. The principles are still the same though, and i wish you the best of luck please dont be discouraged by my idiocy

 

[lweaver]

Yeah, just be cocky , but not too big of a cock, and everything will be just fine.

Follow the advice above, and me leary of fitness "experts".

 

[stevesmi]

heres wat you

put on some running shoes, walk out ur front door and go for a RUN, dont worry if you cant run far, wen u run outa breathe walk abit and then start running again, aim for 1.5 mile a day in the start, and work your way up to 3

everyday eat vegies, lean meats and fish, and water, and dotn eat ANY junk food

go gym 3 times a week and do full bodyworkouts,

youll loose weight faster then you ever thought possible, and tone up aswell

^^^ the perfect program for weight loss right here... simple and to the point..

unless the person has thyroid problems they will see a difference within 2 weeks doing this.

I would even throw out all meat except baked dry chicken and add lots of fruits and nuts.

 

[Fashionista]

heres wat you

put on some running shoes, walk out ur front door and go for a RUN, dont worry if you cant run far, wen u run outa breathe walk abit and then start running again, aim for 1.5 mile a day in the start, and work your way up to 3

everyday eat vegies, lean meats and fish, and water, and dotn eat ANY junk food

go gym 3 times a week and do full bodyworkouts,

youll loose weight faster then you ever thought possible, and tone up aswell

Haha, no worries to Jdid and the rest of you. I am glad to get your advice, (Partially why I came) and I like the above idea, but a lot of my girl friends are really getting into the "Now Eat This! Diet" by Rocco Dispirito. We've been watching his show pretty religiously and that reminds me its on at 10 tonight on bravo, I need to Tivo it. Would you guys mind taking a look at it and doing some research to see if is a good solution to go with? Just eating dry baked chicken all day every day seems like it will be hard to stomache after the 2nd day... it seems like it would get really repetitive and boring...

Let me know guys!
Thanks for chiming in!

 

[Hellawulf]

Haha, no worries to Jdid and the rest of you. I am glad to get your advice, (Partially why I came) and I like the above idea, but a lot of my girl friends are really getting into the "Now Eat This! Diet" by Rocco Dispirito. We've been watching his show pretty religiously and that reminds me its on at 10 tonight on bravo, I need to Tivo it. Would you guys mind taking a look at it and doing some research to see if is a good solution to go with? Just eating dry baked chicken all day every day seems like it will be hard to stomache after the 2nd day... it seems like it would get really repetitive and boring...

Let me know guys!
Thanks for chiming in!

There's tuna, salmon, and an occasional steak too! Don't bash it till you try it... (ok it does suck at first, but you get used to it)

As for your crush, if you want him, just send body language messages, like being near him occasionally, smiling lightly when he notices you, stuff like that, but don't ALWAYS be near him, and do this to other guys too... crushes are overrated, why is one guy the object of your attention? Don't put all your eggs in one basket (haha, quite literally )