lol I seem to have made 3 replies. I hope I deleted them.
Anyway, what I started to say was "Thanks Spatts" and that I wondered whether it was a case of announcements posting on all boards.
FWIW, I think books like "The Rules" which (I am going from what I have hard of the book not having read it) sounds like a "players" version for women are equally insulting.
Let's face it, there are "players" on both sides of the gender gap.