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fyxgel2

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Okay guys, here's the scoop:

over the last few days I havent done a whole lot in terms of going out in public and asking out hot babes, but tonight I made some progress in a different way.

My goal now, is just to talk to hot babes and hang out with them a ton and a ton, as friends. (i want them to be attracted to me, but we dont have to be dating) I figure I would get as much of a high out of doing that, as I would 'dating' a girl.

So tonight I went to church, which is a good spot to meet hot girls. :) Tonight was a youth group thingy that I went to. There was a service, and then we all talked after words, and some of us went over to a bonfire and were there for a few hours.

Well... I talked more with that Andrea girl, she actually said hi to me when i walked in and asked how I was doing. (she could just be trying to be friendly tho)
Then I talked to this other hottie named Michelle. She's like only 17, but I'm still into her. And then... I talked to this girl named Courtney (who was throwing the Bonfire) and I told her that her senior pictures all looked wonderful, (when she showed them to me). And then there are these other two girls that I kinda think are cool (and yes they are both quite hot), that I was talking to as well, Katie and Emily, who are probably the girls at the church that I know the best.

I talked to Emily mainly, and carried on a conversation with her. Its hard to tell if she's interested in me or not though, she responds back nicely and everything, (but she doesnt initiate much) Well anyways, she was telling me about this Salsa Dancing thing that she does. Apparently they do this at restaurants sometimes around the last hour or so before they close. She has taken friends to this before (including guy friends) I told her I was interested. And asked if I could come. First time she kinda ignored me. Second time I asked her again, and she said yea, and told me when it was.
Later I made this comment in a group setting about how I believe that in life situations "the truth should always be told even if it hurts to hear, and that the truth is much better than silence". hopefully she got my message.

And ironically later on the way back, her brother and her (I'm friends with her brother) called me up as they were driving, and talked a lil more about the salsa stuff, and she made sure I knew where it was and all.

End of story.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
Woo hoo!

Hey it's one step in the right direction. Even if you didn't score.

thank you for the positive encouragement.

some people will hit me with their negative replies about how it wasnt enough, but I know that I will get there one day, (within the next few years if not sooner) even if it involves taking slow steps to make it.
 
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LOL foxygel, you've accomplished more with the opposite sex in one night then I have for a lifetime. Cheers!
 
ferxiyghrel, what land do you live in where every girl around you happens to be hot?

byw i dont think church groups are going to help you score. chances are those chix are brainwashed goody goodies.

good luck
 
Sounds like you've got more play than superdave.

Just have fun man and never let all that girl shit get too serious.........that's what it's all about.

Keep it going.
 
That Andrea chick wants your cock, orb. Trust me on this one. You should ask her out. Remember to wrap it little bro.
 
fyxgel2 said:
thank you for the positive encouragement.

some people will hit me with their negative replies about how it wasnt enough, but I know that I will get there one day, (within the next few years if not sooner) even if it involves taking slow steps to make it.

nice work bro-ham
now just go have some fun, then one thing may lead to another and........ :chomp:
 
Seriously orb, you should go for Andrea. You could be ball deep in that in no time.
 
vinylgroover said:
Sounds like you've got more play than superdave.

Just have fun man and never let all that girl shit get too serious.........that's what it's all about.

Keep it going.
I dont post my dating play by plays on here rob.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
overzealous at the end

not to rain on your parade but I'd have to agree...that speech about silence and honesty was totally uncalled for, you don't want to make these ladies feel forced or uncomfortable. Props for your progress though...
 
Gambino said:
not to rain on your parade but I'd have to agree...that speech about silence and honesty was totally uncalled for, you don't want to make these ladies feel forced or uncomfortable. Props for your progress though...

Yeah, that was a bit much. However, you are making progress, as he said.
 
Burning_Inside said:
ferxiyghrel, what land do you live in where every girl around you happens to be hot?

byw i dont think church groups are going to help you score. chances are those chix are brainwashed goody goodies.

good luck

i dont think all the girls are hot here, i think its just that I only notice the hot ones.

My goal isnt to score. I just want to hang out with one of these chicks, and have her be attracted to me back.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Seriously orb, you should go for Andrea. You could be ball deep in that in no time.

lol, is sex all that is on your mind?
Hopefully Andrea likes me back, I dunno, we'll see. maybe i'll get the balls to ask her out or something. I want to ask Emily out more, but Emily is being kinda dumb right now.
 
fyxgel2 said:
lol, is sex all that is on your mind?
Hopefully Andrea likes me back, I dunno, we'll see. maybe i'll get the balls to ask her out or something. I want to ask Emily out more, but Emily is being kinda dumb right now.

Dumb girls put out faster.... however I hold with my original statement. You are money with Andrea.
 
I dont post my dating play by plays on here rob.
I just do it for the sake of everyone's entertainment. :) No doubt you probably get more play than I do, if you talk to girls on more than 1 day of the week.

overzealous at the end

I know, this seems to be a character flaw of mine. I think I'm going to use it my advantage though, by getting the truth out of people. so maybe it isnt a character flaw after all...

Gambino said:
not to rain on your parade but I'd have to agree...that speech about silence and honesty was totally uncalled for, you don't want to make these ladies feel forced or uncomfortable. Props for your progress though...

maybe, but the evasion practices of women are also uncalled for. she needs to be upfront and say no if thats what she's feeling. I wont settle for no answer. For the most part I agree, its not good to make ladies feel uncomfortable, but I think in this kind of a situation, its called for.
 
my post was to VG, not you fxygel
Good progress by the way. Agree with the others about not doing that honesty speech, doesnt fit in with laying down the game on chicks. Also next time you invite yourself to something and the girl doesnt respond with "sure, let me give you directions/my number/etc" then dont ask again, unless you are getting a good vibe from her and then throw it in at the end or something.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Dumb girls put out faster.... however I hold with my original statement. You are money with Andrea.

haha, well, unless she's dumb and prude.
And remember my main goal is not to get a girl to 'put out' or at least not in the fashion that you are talking about. I want her to submit and be interested in me, and be a friend, but forget about sex for now.

you seem pretty sure about this Andrea girl, any reasons?
 
fyxgel2 said:
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maybe, but the evasion practices of women are also uncalled for. she needs to be upfront and say no if thats what she's feeling.

Bwaahahaahahahahahahhahahahahahha best post by foxygel ever! Orb, you are going to have a frustraiting love/sex life if you actually expect that to happen.
 
fyxgel2 said:
haha, well, unless she's dumb and prude.
And remember my main goal is not to get a girl to 'put out' or at least not in the fashion that you are talking about. I want her to submit and be interested in me, and be a friend, but forget about sex for now.

you seem pretty sure about this Andrea girl, any reasons?

She knows you from someplace else, approached you and said hi and seemed happy to see you. She made the first move to say hi from what you said. This tells me she is interested in you. Ask her out immediately. Don't play games. Go for the kill, and be a man about it. My money says she will say yes to a date.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Bwaahahaahahahahahahhahahahahahha best post by foxygel ever! Orb, you are going to have a frustraiting love/sex life if you actually expect that to happen.

maybe ur right, maybe i will just have to take hints and walk away, if I dont want to ruin my chances with all the women in the world. But lets just say, that I dont like that it has to work this way.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
She knows you from someplace else, approached you and said hi and seemed happy to see you. She made the first move to say hi from what you said. This tells me she is interested in you. Ask her out immediately. Don't play games. Go for the kill, and be a man about it. My money says she will say yes to a date.

Actually she doesnt know me from any place else. I met her at the church a couple weeks before, and said hi, introduced myself, and talked to her for a bit, lol.
 
fyxgel2 said:
maybe ur right, maybe i will just have to take hints and walk away, if I dont want to ruin my chances with all the women in the world. But lets just say, that I dont like that it has to work this way.
Start acting more selfish and having a low tolerance for girls that you sense are yanking your chain. If it were me, the moment I invited myself to something with that girl and she didnt even give me a damn answer, then I would have walked off and talked to someone else.
 
fyxgel2 said:
maybe, but the evasion practices of women are also uncalled for. she needs to be upfront and say no if thats what she's feeling. I wont settle for no answer. For the most part I agree, its not good to make ladies feel uncomfortable, but I think in this kind of a situation, its called for.

are you studying to be a engineer by chance? You look at life with a mechanical eye, which is good for many things but bad with the ladies. True friendship and romance is not forced, it comes natty. You won't settle for no and look were that has got you, frustrated and alone. If someone is into you let them tell you...
 
Gambino said:
are you studying to be a engineer by chance? You look at life with a mechanical eye, which is good for many things but bad with the ladies. True friendship and romance is not forced, it comes natty. You won't settle for no and look were that has got you, frustrated and alone. If someone is into you let them tell you...

ha, nope not an engineer. psychology actually, which is pretty ironic. (you'd think I'd know more about the female mind) But I am a very logical person, mechanical in my manner of thinking, which makes me relate to people on a different level.

I know you cant force someone to like you. I just wish you could force an answer out of them, for them to tell you what they think about you, but I guess you cant do that either,
or at least not without giving them a bad impression about you.
 
fyxgel2 said:
Actually she doesnt know me from any place else. I met her at the church a couple weeks before, and said hi, introduced myself, and talked to her for a bit, lol.

Church is not a place? WTF? I don't get you sometimes.

Good, she is religous, you are not going to her church, she seems to like you enough to at least come over and say hello. Talk to her again, TELL her you would like to take her to a movie this week, and ask for her number. YOu guys can see a PG-13 movie if you are worried about doing something bad.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Church is not a place? WTF? I don't get you sometimes.

Good, she is religous, you are not going to her church, she seems to like you enough to at least come over and say hello. Talk to her again, TELL her you would like to take her to a movie this week, and ask for her number. YOu guys can see a PG-13 movie if you are worried about doing something bad.


lol, sorry I think there has been a bit of confusion. Church is definately a place. A place I go to every Wednesday. Thats where I met her, I've talked to her a few times there after the service. I havent bumped into her at any place outside of church (she didnt go to the bonfire, she had to get up for work the next day)

Anyways yeah though, I totally think that it would be a cool idea to ask her out. She seems like the shy type who doesnt get approached much. So even though she is pretty hot, I might still stand a chance with her (because she's shy)
 
fyxgel2 said:
lol, sorry I think there has been a bit of confusion. Church is definately a place. A place I go to every Wednesday. Thats where I met her, I've talked to her a few times there after the service. I havent bumped into her at any place outside of church (she didnt go to the bonfire, she had to get up for work the next day)

Anyways yeah though, I totally think that it would be a cool idea to ask her out. She seems like the shy type who doesnt get approached much. So even though she is pretty hot, I might still stand a chance with her (because she's shy)

Sounds like a plan. I think you have a good chance with this girl. Do you know if she is single or not?
 
fyxgel2 said:
I dont know for sure, so maybe I should figure this out.

Well, don't worry about it then. Ask her out. If she is single, I think you are in on this one. If she has a boyfriend and shoots you down, at least you know it was not a flaw in you that caused it. It means she is not the cheating type and you have a good eye for picking out the one's who are faithful, so that is a actually a positive trait on your part. Its a win/win situation for you.
 
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