Are your glutes more muscle than fat? If they are, i don't know what the problem is. A muscular 'big' ass is always better than a 'fat' big ass.
Well, I dont' know percentage-wise, if it's more muscle than fat, but I know it's A LOT of muscle. I'm not that lean now, but you can still feel that it's ROCK HARD (under some fat).
concentrate on eliminating as much of the fat from your butt as possible
How would I do that?
What I'm trying to say is that I think, now, after the muscle I gained and the fat I gained, if I don't lose muscle, I will have to be at like TEN PERCENT BODY FAT to fit into my size 6 jeans. that is NOT an option to STAY at 10 percent. But I don't want to buy new jeans.
MY ASS WAS BIG TO BEGIN WITH!!! IT WAAAS BIG! Now it's REALLY BIG. I want it back to just "big" & not freaky.
Yes, I have seriously reduced my volume & intensity of training. BUT - in the past I have not atrophied. While I was doing OL, I wasn't allowed to work biceps & pecs. Yeah, they get *some* work through push-presses & other things I did, but they still didn't atrophy at all!!! Same thing with all my muscles when I was just lazy through November & December. I don't atrophy, so I need a plan of attack just to get BACK to where my body was last spring (before OL, before glute-muscle gain, before injury, before fat gain).
I know I know,

I'm SO LUCKY that I don't atrophy. Well I don't want this much muscle now. We all want to be in porportion & I ALREADY had a big ass before OL!