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Told you, you wouldn't be single long....Frisky said:Thankfully my man likes me that way
I think people are to quick to use the insecure card to push a position. Just like using immaturity.Frisky said:
Does this mean that guys like short girls, are insecure? No. It means they like what they like. Aggressive women seem less feminine to me. Like tom boys that grew up, got bachelors degrees, and grew a penis and the attitude to go with it. Maybe it's the way I am, was brought up, and where I'm from. I'm crazy old fashion and the world changed around my woods.
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I need a time machine....
ghettostudmuffin
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When I think of a submissive girl several things come to my mind.
A. I let it be known, and she understands that the only one wearing a pair of balls in the relationship is me and that's the way it always will be.
B. I don't mind a girl being agressive so long as she knows that I am letting her. Refer to A.
C. She will only be agressive as long as I feel like letting her be agressive. When I grow tired of her trying to be dominant, then I let her know who is the dominant one.
D. I am in control. Not the other way around. I find relationships tend to work better this way for me. If you think I'm wrong then start watching the discovery channel more. The alpha male rules the roost and always maintains the dominant position.
E. Girls tend to say they like to be dominant, when in fact, if they sense they are more dominant than their male partner they quickly put his balls in a vise, then grow bored and dump him for a more dominant male. The only safe way a guy can stop this from happening is to maintain the dominant position at all times. In the end the woman will be happier this way and so will the man.
F. I am not saying that the man dictates or controls everything the girl does. Just that when actually in each other's company the man takes the lead.
Right or wrong, that's how I look at it.
A. I let it be known, and she understands that the only one wearing a pair of balls in the relationship is me and that's the way it always will be.
B. I don't mind a girl being agressive so long as she knows that I am letting her. Refer to A.
C. She will only be agressive as long as I feel like letting her be agressive. When I grow tired of her trying to be dominant, then I let her know who is the dominant one.
D. I am in control. Not the other way around. I find relationships tend to work better this way for me. If you think I'm wrong then start watching the discovery channel more. The alpha male rules the roost and always maintains the dominant position.
E. Girls tend to say they like to be dominant, when in fact, if they sense they are more dominant than their male partner they quickly put his balls in a vise, then grow bored and dump him for a more dominant male. The only safe way a guy can stop this from happening is to maintain the dominant position at all times. In the end the woman will be happier this way and so will the man.
F. I am not saying that the man dictates or controls everything the girl does. Just that when actually in each other's company the man takes the lead.
Right or wrong, that's how I look at it.
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GhettoStudMuffin said:
I like your attitude. I agree with B and C, but it goes the other way too. The woman is also making a choice to let me lead. She chose me just like I chose her, and at any time she can say "see ya." So while it's true I take the lead most of the time, whenever either of us is being dominant, it's only with the permission of the other.
With E, I tend to disagree. I see lots of relatively meek males with very vivacious females. I think this tends to happen a lot with very smart/intellectual people. And I am talking about strong, lasting marriages. In many cases a marriage of a relatively meek male and a dominant female can work.
Finally, I like your last line. That's the way you approach life and it works for you. In the end that's all that matters.
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Gotta suck to be that guy...Lumberg said:
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I've seen these types. They had their balls clipped from day one. It's bad enough you can only sleep with the same bitch for the rest of your life, but you get bossed around by that one for the rest of you life. I coundn't have itLumberg said:
I have a brother in law like this. I think, even he thinks, he's better off dead...
Frisky said:Thankfully my man likes me that way
Yes, he certainly does.
Its the ultimate expression of my manliness to be built up by, and confident with, a very aggressive and confident woman. Strong, smart, a fighter, driven... the very sexiest possible combination imaginable.
DJ_UFO said:
Not true. I know a lady (June Cleaver-ish) that is a REAL freak btwn the sheets. How's that saying go? Oh yeah, 'A lady in the parlour, a chef in the kitchen & a whore in bed.'
My kinda woman.
Dominant & aggresive are two different things. Neither of us dominate, but when we want something in particular to get the job done, we will aggresively go after it.
Frisky said:LOL
B. A woman you DON'T have to worry about 24/7.. one that can both change a flat and take out the garbage with out your assistance.. one that takes control in the bedroom by not only making sure you are taking care of but by also making sure you know how to take care of her
I'd Take B
Can we get pics of this?
GhettoStudMuffin said:
I disagree with most of this except for part of E.
I'm not my wife's boss. She's not mine. I handle some things better than she, & visa versa. Where they overlap we compromise. We both have anough shit going on without living in a constant power struggle. However, if you let some women become dominant they lose interest & leave for someone who is not a pushover.
Johnnyrocket
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I do like submissive women.I like to roll play and be the master type..even Vampire sometimes..cape included. I do like a dominant woman on occassion as well though.
I like the nakedness and the surrender.... 69 all the way.
I like the nakedness and the surrender.... 69 all the way.
I like a good power struggle in the bedroom...fighting over who is on top...flipping him over on the bed so I can suck his dick....it is all a game .....the more you play the more desire is built up and you end up ripping your clothing off and fucking eachothers brains out
corythosaurus
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WOWZER!Gymgurl said:
corythosaurus
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No need to apologize! I fully understand and encourage you to embrace your horniness and share it with us!Gymgurl said:
bigmann245
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passive aggressive. i dont know what that means but it sounds real hot.....lol
corythosaurus
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Love the way you think.Gymgurl said:
corythosaurus
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BothGymgurl said:
I'm over 30. thanks in advance.
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chesty said:
No offense darlin'... but did you ever stop for a moment and think it may not have been her?
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ncs said:
Spoken like a man who most likely gets more than enough quality play (whether from many women... or the same woman).
vinylgroover
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Beached Whale said:
E, the number of woman i have fucked who just lay there is mind boggling........80% of women have no idea how to fuck. I honestly would prefer to masturbate than bang someone who's idea of hot sex is missionary for 3 hours
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YOU SLUT!!!vinylgroover said:
LOL
The problem is that MOST WOMEN are taught that their sexuality is a dirty thing - and when MOST MEN treat them this way (not saying you, darlin') then they have no one to blame but themselves.
My mother told me that the sooner I "give it up" to my husband, the sooner he will let me roll over and go to sleep. How sad it that?
I remember once I asked her if she had ever been kissed so that she went weak in the knees. She looked at me as if I were speaking a foreign language. I honestly felt sorry for her.
muscleboundman
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I prefer submissive, cause it's just so good when all she wants is for you to throw the bitch down and bang the shit outta her...
still, the main thing is I want her to get off with every-f'ing-thing she's got, cause i've found when they do that then they usually want seconds..
still, the main thing is I want her to get off with every-f'ing-thing she's got, cause i've found when they do that then they usually want seconds..
Trojan Horse
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Submissive women can get boring after a while so a women that is more agressive is a much more turn on. It shows that she knows what she wants and will go to certain lengths to get it.
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