GhettoStudMuffin said:When I think of a submissive girl several things come to my mind.
A. I let it be known, and she understands that the only one wearing a pair of balls in the relationship is me and that's the way it always will be.
B. I don't mind a girl being agressive so long as she knows that I am letting her. Refer to A.
C. She will only be agressive as long as I feel like letting her be agressive. When I grow tired of her trying to be dominant, then I let her know who is the dominant one.
D. I am in control. Not the other way around. I find relationships tend to work better this way for me. If you think I'm wrong then start watching the discovery channel more. The alpha male rules the roost and always maintains the dominant position.
E. Girls tend to say they like to be dominant, when in fact, if they sense they are more dominant than their male partner they quickly put his balls in a vise, then grow bored and dump him for a more dominant male. The only safe way a guy can stop this from happening is to maintain the dominant position at all times. In the end the woman will be happier this way and so will the man.
F. I am not saying that the man dictates or controls everything the girl does. Just that when actually in each other's company the man takes the lead.
Right or wrong, that's how I look at it.
I disagree with most of this except for part of E.
I'm not my wife's boss. She's not mine. I handle some things better than she, & visa versa. Where they overlap we compromise. We both have anough shit going on without living in a constant power struggle. However, if you let some women become dominant they lose interest & leave for someone who is not a pushover.