Finding a third......

[Basikstylz]

Okay so I'm looking for a little help and for someone to point me in the right direction.


So... my gf and I are potentially looking to experince our first 3some. I was wondering if there are any one here on EF that has activley sought out a 3rd and been succesfull. I'm not really looking for those guys who managed to score with two random chicks. since that is a different situation than I am in right now.


I'm not really looking for anyone to tell me the possible consequences of this situation. We have talked about and discussed them. We have not decided fully if we are going to. But it is something we would both like to at least try once.

anyways..... Input please?

OH and no M were looking for a female to join us so I know that makes the search that much harder.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Nobody has any input here?

Don't be shy... step up and share.

 

[BNG]

My only advice is let her pick. you be open to it, and treat the new cummer as a third party not thee party and you'll be fine.


................................................... next!

 

[NEO1]

Agreed, let her pick. Go to a club, wait till the drunk girls start dancing on each other, have fun!

 

[rnch]

don't do it, dood....eventually she will hold it against you, even if it is her idea.


this is called "feminine logic".

 

[Basikstylz]

Agreed, let her pick. Go to a club, wait till the drunk girls start dancing on each other, have fun!

Ya, I've been thinking about trying that.... I don't know if shes forward enough to make the first move.

 

[Basikstylz]

don't do it, dood....eventually she will hold it against you, even if it is her idea.


this is called "feminine logic".

Ya, I know what your saying. This has crossed my mind a few times.


but this is also a girl who said. "If we do do this..and you finish.... would you care if the two of us still kept at it?"

kinda makes me feel like I should be the jealous one since I will have to take the occasional break for "recovery time"

 

[Bikini Mod]

Many men *think* they can handle such a situation but those men are the exception, rather than the rule.

Not saying anything negative about such adventures. Just advising all parties to be aware of the reality of this *unexpected* turn of events.

 

[*The_West*]

3 way sex is the future

 

[rnch]

Ya, I know what your saying. This has crossed my mind a few times.


but this is also a girl who said. "If we do do this..and you finish.... would you care if the two of us still kept at it?"

kinda makes me feel like I should be the jealous one since I will have to take the occasional break for "recovery time"

"she's cheating on you"