fiance hurts me during sex

[heatherrae]

My fiance does everything really rough. He squeezes my boobs too hard. He grips my butt and legs too hard (to the point of leaving bruises). Even when he goes down, he doesn't do it lightly at first. He just dives right in really hard. When we have sex, he often puts me in positions that hit bottom too hard. ETC. I feel like I'm getting beat up...LOL. Now, I'm not the type of girl who wants it to be really soft all the time. I like to mix it up and even get a little rough sometimes, but I like to work it up to that point. I'm starting to dread the sex, even though I'm the biggest horndog and fantasize about sex all the time. The thing is, he seems like he isn't getting much out of it unless he is really going at it hard. OUCH

Anyone else have this problem?

 

[velvett]

I think that might be something you'd want to talk about and have um, fixed.

 

[Frisky]

Have you expressed this to him? If you are not telling him how it feels, how is he going to know. He may think that you are enjoying the way things are now.

Talk to him and go from there.

 

[Sassy69]

Have him read this ... http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=472032

THIS IS TRUE & ACCURATE STUFF!

 

[heatherrae]

Ha! good article Sassy! I did tell him and he said that he gets carried away. He did an "opps, sorry" apology...lol. I guess I will have to coach him a little next time we fool around. hehehe.

 

[Sassy69]

Actually I think that's the difference between a guy paying attention to himself vs. being in tune w/ YOU.... keep working on him to get it right.

 

[Gymgurl]

try differnt positions....from behind can hurt me sometimes.....but find something that will work for you and talk to him and tell him when it does hurt...it should be enjoyable for both