I like some agression and domination. I find it a natural consequence of passion. Some taunting can be enjoyable too. Spanking with the flat hand onto the ass or face cheeks, grabbing her by the arms or neck or even head.
I like it when a girl goes into complete submission, fascinated by the idea of being my material possession. Paradoxically, immediately following such a session is usually hours of cuddling and cute pillow talk. It´s actually a very autonomous desire on her part.
Some bondage- Although im not into the leather and spikes nonsense- That makes a staged travesty out of the whole thing. I like rope and leather belts. Possibly handcuffs if i can get my hands on some actual ones, instead of the lightweight-plastic crap they usually sell for toys.
Where do you buy actual cuffs- like the cops have?