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dugie65
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good thinkin. yea i feel you man, i've been tryin to keep myself busy but its the long nights that keep me up thinkin. It's alright each day is better than the next i just need to get past this damn brick wall and move on. Tried a couple new girls but it's just not the same. sucks man i thought it would be better w/ out it, and in the long run i know it will be. Women blow.
jstmitebe
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hahaha yes they do....sometimes anyway....was it you who ended it or her? if it was her then well mate you just have to ride out the feelings and they will go away if it was you, then it shouldn't be too much of a problem since you didn't want her anymore....just remember we all want what we can't have so think of something else...good luck on that
i'm out
i'm out
dugie65
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Mainly her, thats the only reason it's goin so hard on me. So true, when you're w/ the girl you never realize what you have till its gone, and by that time its long gone. Too many problems, i keep tellin myself that. Its weird, near the end i thought the only reason we were still together was sex, but after being with other girls its just not the same, even though i thought it would be during the realtionship. I dont know just looking back i do think i treated her like shit. Nothing i can do about that now, kind of like being stuck in a sinking ship. A ship full of women ready to rip your heart out of your chest and drive over it repeatedly. Well thats that, life's a bitch. So are women.
(Dont worry i'll get over the negativity towards women soon enough)
(Dont worry i'll get over the negativity towards women soon enough)
Swole_2112
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Hey, I feel ya, bro. Breakups are difficult. Who the hell wants to deal with them? You just gotta hang in there. Keep busy. It'll pass. Just remember, time will do it's healing... you've got to let it go. Good luck.
theoak01
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the nights do suck,but it will get better,I took alot of painpills in excess so I could sleep,otherwise I would be lucky to get 3-4 hrs a night
and stop comparing other girls to your ex,because they are all different,I made that mistake and almost went running back because with her I atleast knew what to expect and had security
stay strong man
and stop comparing other girls to your ex,because they are all different,I made that mistake and almost went running back because with her I atleast knew what to expect and had security
stay strong man
hard life
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Just takes time man. The key is to stay busy, but you have to keep busy doing something that really takes your mind off things. I find the best way is to interact with people, especially new people. Most important...DO NOT try and "coincidentally" be at the same place as her. I don't know how many times I went to a bar or some place just because I thought she might be there, don't do it it just prolongs the suffering.
marshallmadman
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The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one.....-Jack Nicholson
concordsize
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Now is a great time bro to run a nice cycle and focus on training!!! This is what i do when i feel like you are. Its hard to controle these feelings but they will go away.
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concordsize
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It always works for me... Kinda like a distraction, and i am able to put my frustrations to the weights 
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dugie65
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hah.. yea man tried that. the sex just doesnt compare mainly bc of the bond u have w/ the relationship opposed to a one night thing. Still it's tough, almost picked up the phone and called her today but instead decided to get up and do something else. Goddamn u women.marshallmadman said:
concordsize
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yeah its tough!!! It makes it even worse when you see her out with a guy who is in as good of shape as yourself. That will realy make you feel like ass. Only time will help my friend but my advise is to try and focus on yourself and improve things you already have.
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I just broke it off with my fiance about a month and a half ago. I'm in school so much, i really don't have a lot of time to think about her, but i definitely would stay busy and take this advice to heart..."The best way to get over someone, is to get under somebody else!" Definitely propelled me right through it within 1 week. Although, I don't answer or return phone calls. I've always been good about not needing anyone as long as they are not around. Out of sight, out of mind always has worked well for me. I'm also pretty stuck on myself. So, she was never a top priority over myself anyway.
Sta11ion
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Don't worry, after you a few relationships you will get stronger. The first couple long term relationships are the hardest to leave, just because you shared so much. But really you will meet so many others seven days a week driving, shopping, threw friends bars etc.I have reached a point that if I was to break up with someone now it would bother me for a couple days. You forget about it and move to the next or you might just want to be by yourself and have some fun. One thing thou stay away from the clomid that will make you all fucked up.
marshallmadman
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dugie65 said:
Sorry to hear about all that, Dugie. I still dream about a girl I broke up with a year and a half ago. They are very vivid, fresh dreams. They often times make me think it's a premonition of sorts. It's almost as if I think we're going to end up together someday. I know it's not going to happen, but it's sometimes difficult to talk yourself out of it. It's a very lengthy process. Like my football coach always said; "it'll feel better when it quits hurtin". Until it quits hurtin', get out there and be a fuckin' playa, bro. Work on your self-esteem. Do things that make you feel better about yourself.
jnevin
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I'm in the process of getting divorced. My choice, but just keep wondering how it got bad. Worst part for me is, I've decided what I want to do. She feels awful. I never cheated, never treated her bad. It was just a relationship to make her happy. We're both great people just not good together. It's been three months since we separated and I haven't been to the gym, have been eating like shit, and for a time was drinking myself to sleep to deal with it. Best advise I can give is to stay clear. Deal with things as they come up and work through it. Staying busy is the key. Smart people on this thread. Shit just throws you for a loop.
dugie65
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yea just tryin to stay busy but only prob is i dinged up my shoulder and have to stay off it for 2 weeks. No work outs makes me extremely tired during the day, all i do is sit around wondering about the possibilities. If i could just avoid seeing her i think all this would pass sooner, but thats not goin to happen.
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