F-ing relationship

[theoak01]

Now is a great time bro to run a nice cycle and focus on training!!! This is what i do when i feel like you are. Its hard to controle these feelings but they will go away.

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how can you concentrate on training and diet when you feel like that man?

Im on cycle right now and have only gained 12lbs in 8weeks when I should have added much more.

 

[concordsize]

It always works for me... Kinda like a distraction, and i am able to put my frustrations to the weights
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[dugie65]

The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one.....-Jack Nicholson

hah.. yea man tried that. the sex just doesnt compare mainly bc of the bond u have w/ the relationship opposed to a one night thing. Still it's tough, almost picked up the phone and called her today but instead decided to get up and do something else. Goddamn u women.

 

[concordsize]

yeah its tough!!! It makes it even worse when you see her out with a guy who is in as good of shape as yourself. That will realy make you feel like ass. Only time will help my friend but my advise is to try and focus on yourself and improve things you already have.

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[dugie65]

Yea its best not to think about it like that. just tryin to keep my mind off of her is hard enough.

 

[subluxfxr]

I just broke it off with my fiance about a month and a half ago. I'm in school so much, i really don't have a lot of time to think about her, but i definitely would stay busy and take this advice to heart..."The best way to get over someone, is to get under somebody else!" Definitely propelled me right through it within 1 week. Although, I don't answer or return phone calls. I've always been good about not needing anyone as long as they are not around. Out of sight, out of mind always has worked well for me. I'm also pretty stuck on myself. So, she was never a top priority over myself anyway.

 

[Sta11ion]

Don't worry, after you a few relationships you will get stronger. The first couple long term relationships are the hardest to leave, just because you shared so much. But really you will meet so many others seven days a week driving, shopping, threw friends bars etc.I have reached a point that if I was to break up with someone now it would bother me for a couple days. You forget about it and move to the next or you might just want to be by yourself and have some fun. One thing thou stay away from the clomid that will make you all fucked up.

 

[dugie65]

gettin worse i think. See her ALL THE TIME at school and whatnot. Cant seem to get my mind off of her. FUCK

 

[marshallmadman]

gettin worse i think. See her ALL THE TIME at school and whatnot. Cant seem to get my mind off of her. FUCK

Sorry to hear about all that, Dugie. I still dream about a girl I broke up with a year and a half ago. They are very vivid, fresh dreams. They often times make me think it's a premonition of sorts. It's almost as if I think we're going to end up together someday. I know it's not going to happen, but it's sometimes difficult to talk yourself out of it. It's a very lengthy process. Like my football coach always said; "it'll feel better when it quits hurtin". Until it quits hurtin', get out there and be a fuckin' playa, bro. Work on your self-esteem. Do things that make you feel better about yourself.

 

[jnevin]

I'm in the process of getting divorced. My choice, but just keep wondering how it got bad. Worst part for me is, I've decided what I want to do. She feels awful. I never cheated, never treated her bad. It was just a relationship to make her happy. We're both great people just not good together. It's been three months since we separated and I haven't been to the gym, have been eating like shit, and for a time was drinking myself to sleep to deal with it. Best advise I can give is to stay clear. Deal with things as they come up and work through it. Staying busy is the key. Smart people on this thread. Shit just throws you for a loop.