F-ing relationship

[dugie65]

just got out of a year and half relationship and its brutal. any ideas of how to get this girl off my mind? i'm sure you guys can think of something.

 

[theoak01]

I got out of a three year relationship a month and a half ago,what I did probably wasnt the best idea as I pretty much cut loose and blew off alot of priorities,but I went out met all kinds of new people and was always busy so I had no time to think about her

 

[dugie65]

good thinkin. yea i feel you man, i've been tryin to keep myself busy but its the long nights that keep me up thinkin. It's alright each day is better than the next i just need to get past this damn brick wall and move on. Tried a couple new girls but it's just not the same. sucks man i thought it would be better w/ out it, and in the long run i know it will be. Women blow.

 

[jstmitebe]

hahaha yes they do....sometimes anyway....was it you who ended it or her? if it was her then well mate you just have to ride out the feelings and they will go away if it was you, then it shouldn't be too much of a problem since you didn't want her anymore....just remember we all want what we can't have so think of something else...good luck on that

i'm out

 

[dugie65]

Mainly her, thats the only reason it's goin so hard on me. So true, when you're w/ the girl you never realize what you have till its gone, and by that time its long gone. Too many problems, i keep tellin myself that. Its weird, near the end i thought the only reason we were still together was sex, but after being with other girls its just not the same, even though i thought it would be during the realtionship. I dont know just looking back i do think i treated her like shit. Nothing i can do about that now, kind of like being stuck in a sinking ship. A ship full of women ready to rip your heart out of your chest and drive over it repeatedly. Well thats that, life's a bitch. So are women.
(Dont worry i'll get over the negativity towards women soon enough)

 

[Swole_2112]

Hey, I feel ya, bro. Breakups are difficult. Who the hell wants to deal with them? You just gotta hang in there. Keep busy. It'll pass. Just remember, time will do it's healing... you've got to let it go. Good luck.

 

[theoak01]

the nights do suck,but it will get better,I took alot of painpills in excess so I could sleep,otherwise I would be lucky to get 3-4 hrs a night

and stop comparing other girls to your ex,because they are all different,I made that mistake and almost went running back because with her I atleast knew what to expect and had security

stay strong man

 

[hard life]

Just takes time man. The key is to stay busy, but you have to keep busy doing something that really takes your mind off things. I find the best way is to interact with people, especially new people. Most important...DO NOT try and "coincidentally" be at the same place as her. I don't know how many times I went to a bar or some place just because I thought she might be there, don't do it it just prolongs the suffering.

 

[marshallmadman]

The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one.....-Jack Nicholson

 

[concordsize]

Now is a great time bro to run a nice cycle and focus on training!!! This is what i do when i feel like you are. Its hard to controle these feelings but they will go away.

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