Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
napsgear
genezapharmateuticals
domestic-supply
puritysourcelabs
UGL OZ
UGFREAK
napsgeargenezapharmateuticals domestic-supplypuritysourcelabsUGL OZUGFREAK

ex-girlfriend comitte suicide.. i'm tripping!!

got the news a few hours back and im not even sure how i'm feeling but it doesnt feel right.
 
satch I know what you are going through. My ex got cancer right after I dumbed her. I'm still not seeing her, but I go over and visit regularly. She talks alot about killing herself and it tears me up. If she did it I don't know what I would do.
 
Mine was 4 months ago, so it would hit me pretty hard.
 
the thing is....

we didnt finish on good terms, but i still cared about her.
that was 3 years ago.
 
Very sad bro.

Life in the real world is filled with twists and turns, did she have a lousy life or just some rough times?

I don't tend to believe people that say it never occurred to them if they have pushed themselves to accomplish difficult things and are adults.
 
bro, I have had a similar situation when I was 20yrs old.Although we were not together at the time it was pulling at me.My old man talked me into going to the funeral home and seeing her off.Best advise you could have,it will be easier to move on.THOSE WHO ARE NOT SICK AND KILL THEMSELVES ONLY THINK OF THEMSELVES
 
I will pray for you and her family!!
342d7818c8bb86d94c5404a69aa33a37.jpg
 
bebn said:
You couldn't be more wrong supernav.

People commit suicide because they assume they are a burden to everyone in their life. They think people will be BETTER OFF without them.

It isn't selfish at all, they feel its the greatest thing that they could do, thats why suicidal people need all the help they can get.
Click to expand...

Wrong.

Actually, really really wrong.
 
You couldn't be more wrong supernav.

People commit suicide because they assume they are a burden to everyone in their life. They think people will be BETTER OFF without them.

It isn't selfish at all, they feel its the greatest thing that they could do, thats why suicidal people need all the help they can get.
 
bebn said:
You couldn't be more wrong supernav.

People commit suicide because they assume they are a burden to everyone in their life. They think people will be BETTER OFF without them.

It isn't selfish at all, they feel its the greatest thing that they could do, thats why suicidal people need all the help they can get.
Click to expand...

good point although you cant assume that ALL suicides stem from such feelings.
 
Sorry to hear that. Bad news. It will give you and everyone around her to reflect. good luck.
 
how old was she, and what were her reasons?

pretty shitty to hear that. there was a point where i was expecting to get a phone call along those lines about a girl i once dated. i can only imagine what you are going through.
 
supernav said:
People who kill themselves are SELFISH. They care more about *their* pain, but don't give a shit about their family and friends who now have to deal with the pain, the shock and the torture thinking about it for the rest of their lives going "what if?".

She wanted to die. She got her wish. Just hope that she's happy wherever she is now.

-= nav =-
Click to expand...

Dude not even.

Unless you've been there you have no idea how it feels. It has NOTHING to do with being selfish.

You can't even imagine how it feels to be so down you think about killing yourself.
 
Poink in his post
"i can only imagine what you are going through."

Poink in his signature
"Moral weaklings are a danger to society, in whatever line their failures lie. If they are so amiable as to kill themselves, it is a crime to interfere"
 
Robert Jan said:
Poink in his post
"i can only imagine what you are going through."

Poink in his signature
"Moral weaklings are a danger to society, in whatever line their failures lie. If they are so amiable as to kill themselves, it is a crime to interfere"
Click to expand...

yeah? i was just saying i could imagine what the feelings would be like if i was in that position.
 
I had a guy in college to commit suicide over me. It simply is not the great escape that everyone thinks it is.

As 2thick said, the burden of grief falls on the family and friends to bear. It is especially hard when YOU are the reason they do this and they name you in the letter they leave behind. Because then you feel like pure scum that it happened. Although you never have an idea of what is happening, and techincally (and legally) it is not your fault, how do you face their family and acquaintances and mutual friends when YOU are the reason they did this?

You have to just let it go man. She was your ex. Even if it didn't end on good terms, you have to not feel guilty about it. There is nothing you can do about it at this point. Don't let it eat away at you.
 
You know I think I can be a suicide preventist. After hearing my life story, people cant help but feel damn good about themselves.
 
SofaGeorge said:
Satch, when life runs over you with a cement truck - things are just going to be bad for a while.
Click to expand...

so true. my lawyer once said:

"satchboogie (he didnt really use that name), this too will pass"
 
AAP said:
I had a guy in college to commit suicide over me. It simply is not the great escape that everyone thinks it is.

As 2thick said, the burden of grief falls on the family and friends to bear. It is especially hard when YOU are the reason they do this and they name you in the letter they leave behind. Because then you feel like pure scum that it happened. Although you never have an idea of what is happening, and techincally (and legally) it is not your fault, how do you face their family and acquaintances and mutual friends when YOU are the reason they did this?

You have to just let it go man. She was your ex. Even if it didn't end on good terms, you have to not feel guilty about it. There is nothing you can do about it at this point. Don't let it eat away at you.
Click to expand...

I'm sorry.

I hope I never have to deal with anything like that...
 
crew9 said:


Do you know what science has proven about the human mind? Now a whole lot.
Click to expand...

Science knows fuck-all about the human brain. When someone has a head injury the only treatment is to wait. There is no treatment for most problems involving the brain.

I've said this before a few times but, my g/f tried to kill herself at least 5 times since we've been together. All of these attempts were attention garnering schemes, except for the last time.
I don't know if she really meant to kill herself or just went to far. My g/f hung herself from my power rack. I was in the bathroom taking a shower and came out to see her hanging. Her legs were on the floor but she was out cold. I ran downstairs, retrieved a kitchen knife and cut her down.

She wasn't breathing. Insted of giving her CPR, I ran back downstairs and phoned 911. While on the phone I heard gasping upstairs it almost sounded like screaming. She started to breathe on her own.

She was hanging for 5-10 min and had the oxygen supply cut off to her brain. We never knew if her neck was broken or not and it was too dangerous to x-ray her for weeks for fear of damaging her spinal cord further.

She was in a coma for weeks, during which time noone knew what the outcome would be. We were prepared for her to die at any time for WEEKS. She was on a ventilator to help her breathe as she wasn't strong enough to get a complete supply of oxygen herself. She was also heavily sedated. When someone is in a coma, at least in her case, they don't lie there like a dead body, but thrash around like a madman. The eyes and mouth open and close as if they're screaming with no sound being produced.

It's quite disturbing.

My g/f came around, albeit VERY slowly. She couldn't say a word for weeks afterwards and lost most of her motor skills. Her progress was like that of a human child from childbirth to the teenage years.

This was 2 1/2 years ago and her speech is still halting and she can't walk unaided, but she still improves.

Having to go through this was incredibly hard. Sitting at the hospital for weeks, coming home occasionally to shower and get a little sleep, not knowing if the person you love is going to live or die at any moment. I can sympathize with any person having to go through similar experiences.

During this time, I took it upon myself to learn as much as I possibly could about the human brain in order to assist my g/f recovery.

The neurologists originally told us she would be a vegetable and was not a suitable candidate for rehab. Fucking idiots. She did get into rehab after a few nurses requested we get another chance at an evaluation. Bottom line is that mankind know next to nothing about the human mind/brain. It's mostly a waiting game.
 
Last edited:
c-sharp minor said:


Science knows fuck-all about the human brain. When someone has a head injury the only treatment is to wait. There is no treatment for most problems involving the brain.

I've said this before a few times but, my g/f tried to kill herself at least 5 times since we've been together. All of these attempts were attention garnering schemes, except for the last time.
I don't know if she really meant to kill herself or just went to far. My g/f hung herself from my power rack. I was in the bathroom taking a shower and came out to see her hanging. Her legs were on the floor but she was out cold. I ran downstairs, retrieved a kitchen knife and cut her down.

She wasn't breathing. Insted of giving her CPR, I ran back downstairs and phoned 911. While on the phone I heard gasping upstairs it almost sounded like screaming. She started to breathe on her own.

She was hanging for 5-10 min and had the oxygen supply cut off to her brain. We never knew if her neck was broken or not and it was too dangerous to x-ray her for weeks for fear of damaging her spinal cord further.

She was in a coma for weeks, during which time noone knew what the outcome would be. We were prepared for her to die at any time for WEEKS. She was on a ventilator to help her breathe as she wasn't strong enough to get a complete supply of oxygen herself. She was also heavily sedated. When someone is in a coma, at least in her case, they don't lie there like a dead body, but thrash around like a madman. The eyes and mouth open and close as if they're screaming with no sound being produced.

It's quite disturbing.

My g/f came around, albeit VERY slowly. She couldn't say a word for weeks afterwards and lost most of her motor skills. Her progress was like that of a human child from childbirth to the teenage years.

This was 2 1/2 years ago and her speech is still halting and she can't walk unaided, but she still improves.

Having to go through this was incredibly hard. Sitting at the hospital for weeks, coming home occasionally to shower and get a little sleep, not knowing if the person you love is going to live or die at any moment. I can sympathize with any person having to go through similar experiences.

During this time, I took it upon myself to learn as much as I possibly could about the human brain in order to assist my g/f recovery.

The neurologists originally told us she would be a vegetable and was not a suitable candidate for rehab. Fucking idiots. She did get into rehab after a few nurses requested we get another chance at an evaluation. Bottom line is that mankind know next to nothing about the human mind/brain. It's mostly a waiting game.
Click to expand...



I meant to type "not a whole lot" not "now a whole lot" my bad
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

P
cutting sarms for older guy
Replies
17
Views
2K
RoySimpson
RoySimpson
Trenhead3cc
Approved Log Cycle and Training Log Sponsored by Raptor Labs
Replies
97
Views
5K
Raptor Rep
Raptor Rep
L
sarms for the soul
Replies
16
Views
2K
Noah Wixx
Noah Wixx
Macedog24
PSL Sale A SYNERGETIC SALE HGH+T4 🔥
Replies
4
Views
230
Macedog24
Macedog24
N
n2guard really works !
Replies
18
Views
2K
RoySimpson
RoySimpson
Top Bottom