Ever Get those WEIRD STARES???

[magdelana]

n regards to my body - it's ok - i'm alittle thick and curvy

Oooh sounds nice!! Sexy muscle and with a nice bit of womanly bodyfat. That is what turns my head. Also, my sister does the stare in the eyes until the other looks away. She is confronational like spatts i guess. Im just a little kitten. Meeouw.

Women i see are often very competive with each other, comparing to others and being unkind. For so many years now i have wondered how it would be if ALL women were at least bisexual. Would ladies be sweeter to each other? Less catty?

 

[Arioch]

If this continues to be a problem, it is a rather simple thing to use a 10 pound plate as a discus. Coaching is available.

 

[Robert Jan]

lol what are you worrying about? i work in this soft ass cardio gym myself and when they see my squat or deadlift they stare too. but i like it. it makes me go harder.

if there were some more hardworking chicks in my gym i probably couldn`t help but look too. jus cuz your kind looks so good

 

[Imnotdutch]

Does anyone else get those weird stares in the gym?

When I get them I'm thinking, ok what am i doing wrong??? Is there something in my teeth??? My pants too tight??? WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU LOOKING AT??

And then, ok I think if its a trainer staring then i've got to be doing something wrong, but then why don't they correct me and try to score some business???? What really buggs me out even more is this female trainer, great build, but she stares me down hardcore and it freaks me!!!!!!!

I have no problem with someone correcting me and helping the situation but to just stare...it's irryyyyyyyyyyyyy

I'm currently training at a private school and I always get an audience complete with stares and comments. It ruins my workout cos I can never keep a straight face......gives a good ab workout though.

 

[CAROLINACHICK]

Use it to your advantage, train even harder, and act like you don't even notice her. This should let her know you don't have time for the petty high school shit. (and if ya have to, tell her that)
Naaaaa, I'm j/k about that part. I've always hated for people ta stare.

There was a girl (37yr. old woman) who took my kickboxing class that would call me at home at least once a week just ta ask stupid questions. Anyway..... I switched gyms and it wasn't a week later and she was there too. She would sit on the bike w/ the biggest smile on her face and her head tilted and just stare at me the whole time I worked out. One day my training partner asked her why she stared soooo much. The only thing she would ever say was that she liked ta watch muscles at work.?.?

2 days later I was changing in the locker room and she asked if she could see my boobs that she was thinking of getting a boob job.

So more than likely... this girl that's staring at you is either envious or she just wants ta see your boobs!

 

[PowerPrincess]

Yeah, maybe she's staring at my barely b's and my big booty

 

[Gladiola]

How did you arrive at this place?? Be gentle with those people girl!

That was the affectionate term for my gym that Arioch came up with. It was in response to my many comments about not having a t-bar row, no squat rack (well, that wasn't my gym but another place I workout with a friend), etc. I thought it was hilarious.

I workout there primarily b/c it's closest to home - & I hate to drive as it is, but I also workout there for free b/c I teach aerobics classes there on occasion, & the place is pretty nice (although not geared toward BB!) & the free weight area is never crowded - even when the gym is crowded.

While I love trying to get people into lifting weights, I do NOT want them on a bench when I need it! hehe
I'm nice to them so long as they don't talk to me mid-set. I've very rarely had that happen. Something to do with the look on my face, perhaps?

 

[magdelana]

Yeah, maybe she's staring at my barely b's and my big booty

Big Booty?! If she is anything like me then she IS only staring at the b's and the big booty.

 

[katz]

One time this girl caught me staring at her totally ripped abs. She smiled at me and pulled her shirt up so her boobies almost showed. Redfaced I walked in the other direction. She was flirting with me.

 

[PowerPrincess]

So today was kinda a nice weird improvement at the gym because, I was working out with my friend and I walked over to get a drink at the waterfountain, and this guy personal trainer, who've i noticed gives me those weird stares (not flirty ones) was at the water fountain, i lean over to take a drink and as soon as the cold water hits my mouth he says, you're gorgeous,and i spit out the water ahahh. I looked up and said thanks, and then he started conversating with me, and we introduced ourselves. So now with that out of no way compliment, my day felt much better and i acquired a new gym aquaintance...that was nice