Does someone's sexual past matter to you?

[FreakMonster]

I think someone's sexual past tells you alot about the person.

 

[Drizzt]

Ya it does matter 2 me I usually try to do a lil investigative work with her friends 2 see how many times she has been tagged. So if she has seen more dick than a urlogoist *sp* then I am not going 2 really prusue anything. Double standard=yes, is it the way I still work= yes

 

[Raina]

Mostly I just like to have an accurate picture of someone's sexual past and want to know if they've been tested-- and not like tested once a year ago but recently been tested. I was with a guy once who was a total whore from age 14-17 and then took a few years off. He may have been with a fair # of people but he kind of grew up and changed his views on sex. In what way does do you think it tells a lot about a person?

 

[frorider6]

It only tells you who they were, not who they are. I've learned my lesson about asking those type of questions. Unless she's a total virgin and has never seen a dick, you're not going to be happy about the answer.

 

[spentagn]

It only tells you who they were, not who they are. I've learned my lesson about asking those type of questions. Unless she's a total virgin and has never seen a dick, you're not going to be happy about the answer.

Unless she's willing to go both ways for ya

 

[frorider6]

Unless she's willing to go both ways for ya

The only questions I'll ask are to see if she's been with another woman and if she'd do it with me.

As for testing, that has more to do with current sexual health than past exploits.

 

[FreakMonster]

Mostly I just like to have an accurate picture of someone's sexual past and want to know if they've been tested-- and not like tested once a year ago but recently been tested. I was with a guy once who was a total whore from age 14-17 and then took a few years off. He may have been with a fair # of people but he kind of grew up and changed his views on sex. In what way does do you think it tells a lot about a person?

Whether a person has slept with one or one hundred people, it says something about a person. Would you take someone seriously if they told you they slept with 40+ people?

 

[spentagn]

The only questions I'll ask are to see if she's been with another woman and if she'd do it with me.

As for testing, that has more to do with current sexual health than past exploits.

Do you shave YOUR legs? If so, does that constitute sex with a woman?

 

[Raina]

Yeah, I suppose if someone told me they'd been with 80 people vs 12 it would be significant difference (more than if someone had been with 2 vs 4 or something close together). I have no real problem with people who've been with a zillion people though. I think everyone has a different view on sex. Some people see it as something sacred, some as something fun, some as something serious, some as something trivial. I think it's upsetting to think of young teens having sex though. I see girls pregnant and realize that I wasn't even kissing at that age.

I suppose it becomes a non issue to those of us who've been with the same person for years.

 

[Puc]

NO.

HOWEVER... if I was going to marry the town whore, I would move to another town when I did. I don't think I could handle all the prejudice bullshit.