i never cum early. NEVER. i always make sure the girl gets off until SHE has had her feel. i then ask her if she is ready for me to cum. no bs, going 45 minutes is short for me, if she can handle me it can go on 4-ever if she can't i try to be gentle and talk to her and try to speed things along according to her. and if i am wearing a condom it takes even longer than usual. as for the question, sex must always lead to more sex for me. sorry for the babble