DOES a man's slary matter??

[Smurfy]

i knew what you meant. I was going to say i agreed with you, but since you were being misunderstood, i didn't want to be also.

nobody understands me

 

[stilleto]

this sucks. i am the definition of a lazy man. i have been 3 weeks without a job now, and am no where near finding one. i havent been to the gym in probably a year. i would love to change this but i dont know how.

so basically im screwed then, when it comes to women?

no, there are plenty of lazy, desperate women who would want you.

not going to a gym might not matter to most women (doesn't matter to me), and if you're not working but actively looking, or if you're in such a specialized field where its not uncommon to look for work for months, you're ok.
if you just can't find a deli that needs counter help... you're phukked.

 

[gotmilk]

(doesn't matter to me)

As if.....and my salary is fat and wide.

 

[stilleto]

nobody understands me

lol
that ain't so.

the other thing i was just thinking about is class.
if one grows up in a higher class home (which may mean a higher income home), things like grammer (grammar?), social skills, taste in food/clothing/travel, etc might be a more important quality. Those qualities are usually found in more educated, higher salaried men.

a girl who's father is a cursing, crotch grabbing plumber (or whatever) won't be embarrassed or turned off by marrying the same, where as a girl who's grown up with a father who is a surgeon and a mother who is an attorney, will look for higher standards of a way a man presents himself.

it is what it is.

 

[stilleto]

As if.....and my salary is fat and wide.

no, no, i said if a man works out doesn't matter to me... you... well you're just a wierdo.

 

[healother]

No, but he needs to be able to take care of his responsibilities, and be happy with where ever he is in his life.

hmm.
i have enough money in the bank to be okay for awhile. although its lame cuz i still live at home with the parents.

im definately not happy at where im at in life. i spent 4 yrs in school for a psych degree and i cant do anything with it. and honestly IT (what ive been doing most recently) isnt my first pick for a job that i'd want to do long term. i only do it because im decent at it. but id hate going back to school for a degree in something else other than psych.

most of all though im disappointed about how lazy i am, and how my social circle is limited and how i havent been to the gym in ages, but i feel like i cant make any permanent changes. when i try to change stuff it just doesnt stick.

 

[Gambino]

lmao at slary

 

[healother]

you're lame.

i know

 

[gotmilk]

i spent 4 yrs in school for a psych degree and i cant do anything with it.

You can go after a teaching cert and teach...

You can join the military and go after whatever you want. Fuck, my dad's engineering unit is paying $35,000 bonuses for who ever signs/re-signs. The catch being he's killing Taliban by the dozen while fixing bridges and roads.

Go back to school and get a masters in something.

 

[jd_uk]

Before we go out to dinner. Clarification as to why BM used to date only self made men. Even though I can more than afford dinner out, I like to cook here at home.

Once you make it should something happen there is no question he can make it again. Character and all that go with men that make their own way in the world is not a negative. But she chooses to spend time with a man that can afford dinner and other perks that come with having disposable income. I am lucky enough to be married to her so the dating part is moot. Wooooo Hooooo

Comfort is all this is about. And cash doesn't make a man/woman, but, character and ability does. AND I know a few people that have won gold medals, they have some pretty hefty checks from sponsoships/endorsements and personal appearances.

All in all, moeny is merely a means to do what you want, when you want and how you want. I told BM when we met and today, money can't buy love, happiness, health or a minute of the day that has passed.

I'm glad that you are aware that money does not make you ahppy bla bla.. but you could've simplified all of that by saying that money does not equal success. Those people who have won gold medals and been the best in their field (not necessarily sporting) often do not do so for money...they do it to be successful and the best that they can be.