and anal sex . . . . but I digress as well. There are virgins out there that don't consider oral sex personal.
With regards to kissing, it can be just as personal, erotic & passionate as oral & sexual intercourse.
My last fling or booty call or one-night stand was almost, my god, 10 years ago. I have the same view as Hiatussin. Since I only have sex with a man that I'm building a relationship into a committed relationship with, everything I do is personal (and pleasing him is important to me).