all i can say is..:
whenever the combo is: ebay, european and large sums of money...run!
huge chance it's just a scam.
I can already see her emails back:
"To protect my identity to protect myself from all the psychos emailing me -- my agent in romania is handling the fees and travel arrangements. You must wire half the money beforehand, along with photocopy of DL, and your full name and address. He'll fedex you the airline tickets. When you arrive, my bodyguard will pick you up, accept the rest of the money and then take you to a hotel where THEN you will be able to do as you wish".
Loser wires $25k or whatever. Then hears nothing.
I bet i could easily pull that shit off if i lived in europe. Lots of loser horny rich guys in the us.