jesus, what men have you been with? I mean don't get me wrong, I always "HOPE" that the girl I'm dating is into some of the freaky shit I am......but I've never "expected" it, like acted entitled to anything. If we just too sexually incompatible I moved on, I think that's usually how it works. But it's the girls that then realize the guy wants something different and so they do shit they don't really like but pretend they do and then once they get "the commitment", all extra curricular activities get rescinded. And that's annoying as sin. I get really pissed off when I even hear about girls pretending to like certain things so they can either get capital out of it or rescind it at a future time. The main attraction to me for anal is that there is no chance of pregnancy. If it weren't for that I probably wouldn't have ever tried it. It's nice not to have to wear a condom every once in a while.