Do you have (or ever had) a crush on someone in real life and they...

[Judo Tom]

So long as its not a friend or co worker type then there is no reason to keep quiet.

give it a shot and see what happens..

if its someone you are already friendly with in one way or another then you have to judge for yourself

but dont let fear of rejection or being shy or whatever hold you back..

 

[Seashell]

Yep, a number of times. Was too shy to do anything about it, and thus.. nothing happened.

 

[Raina]

Not really because I'm not good at keeping my mouth shut about anything that's on my mind. If I think someone is hot I tell them.

 

[AAP]

So long as its not a friend or co worker type then there is no reason to keep quiet.

give it a shot and see what happens..

if its someone you are already friendly with in one way or another then you have to judge for yourself

but dont let fear of rejection or being shy or whatever hold you back..

it isn't that easy for us shy types.

 

[Judo Tom]

whatever it takes you just got to get passed it.. maybe not for the crush thing but for anything in life you should never let your shyness hold you back.. if you want to tell someone something do it. if you dont want to do something dont do it but it will drive you batty if you live your life wanting to do things but are too 'afraid' to actually do it

its not the same but its similar to those people who are always just about to start the best training program ever or just about to re dedicate themselves to do something or the peple that will quit smoking once there pack is empty.. they want to do the right thing but they hold themselves back

i used to be like that and i was always 2 steps behind where i wanted to be now at least im heading in the right direction

 

[Dial_tone]

yep, when I was 17....took me 8 years to get over it. We're still friends today.

 

[AAP]

yep, when I was 17....took me 8 years to get over it. We're still friends today.

do you ever experience flashbacks to the crush stage?

 

[buffer1]

situations like that are tricky

very true

 

[The_Ghost]

Yep, a number of times. Was too shy to do anything about it, and thus.. nothing happened.

You are not the first woman I have had that affect on, so sorry

 

[The_Ghost]

Had a crush on a girl as far back as grade school, I look in my kindergarten year book and there is heart drawn around her picture, yea I was into the girls early LOL.

We had known each other for about 15 years and were in similiar social circles. Hooked up with her a some function when I was about 24, turns out she had a crush on me back in grade school and for years after that is well. Turned out to be one of the best relationships I have had.