Do you have (or ever had) a crush on someone in real life and they...

[*MissFit*]

situations like that are tricky

 

[AAP]

Yeah, on one hand you risk making a fool of yourself, on the other hand you risking losing something you might have had.

 

[slat1]

I had one and didn't do anything about it. The irony is that she had one on me and did nothing about it. I'm an idiot!

 

[The Red Dragon]

All the time
Although that should change :S Fuck, crushes are big no-no's for anyone to have

 

[broley]

Do you regret it? Or do you think it was best for the long run that you did nothing?

No I don't think it is ever good for me to bury my head in the sand and run from any uncomfortable situation. Which is what I have done and still do.
The last time I did get scared and hide, my old lifting partner quit working out with me and then married the one I was acting shy around.

The being weak part bothers me. As does with most people.

 

[nycgirl]

In real life, yes. I've only did something on a few (2 or 3) of them. Don't like to chase - I figure if he is interested then he will have the balls to do something (if he doesn't then he was meant for me anyway).

 

[velvett]

No, they pretty much always knew because I normally acted like a complete spaz infront of them.

 

[nycgirl]

No, they pretty much always knew because I normally acted like a complete spaz infront of them.

I become witty and sarcastic (dry Jerry Seinfeld like humor).

 

[HiDnGoD]

Not since junior high.

 

[AAP]

No, they pretty much always knew because I normally acted like a complete spaz infront of them.

That usually causes them to run away from me.

I am rather shy. My partner had to make the first move and come over to talk to me. Which is how things usually go anyway, but it wasn't until I got to know him better I realized how much courage that took for him to that because he is 1000x more of an introvert than I am.