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Just wondering about this. I heard on a talk show that often times couples eventually stop flirting with each other and eventually become distant emotionally and sexually. Is this true for any of you?
If you are a woman would you like for your boyfriend/husband to flirt with you and look at you like the strangers on the street (in a complimentary way)? Visa versa for the guys.
Personally I enjoy flirting with my g/f. We're in our early 30s and live together. Occasionally I'll call her on my way home and act like we we old friends/lovers and ask can I come over. She gets all giddy and flirts back. When I arrive sometimes we carry on sometimes not.
Or I'll act like we're strangers and approach her in a swuave manner and ask her name, I'll make up a name for me, make small talk then start making out. She loves this.
I know this may sound stupid to some but I just try keep it interesting.
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If you are a woman would you like for your boyfriend/husband to flirt with you and look at you like the strangers on the street (in a complimentary way)? Visa versa for the guys.
Personally I enjoy flirting with my g/f. We're in our early 30s and live together. Occasionally I'll call her on my way home and act like we we old friends/lovers and ask can I come over. She gets all giddy and flirts back. When I arrive sometimes we carry on sometimes not.
Or I'll act like we're strangers and approach her in a swuave manner and ask her name, I'll make up a name for me, make small talk then start making out. She loves this.
I know this may sound stupid to some but I just try keep it interesting.
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You obviously care enough about him and your marriage to make him feel wanted, which in alot of relationships is one of the first things to go. Kudos! I always do the same with any girl Im seeing. I consider it as foreplay. I was at a bar a month or so ago with this girl I was seeing in South Carolina, and I went to the restroom. I came back & there were a group of guys sitting there talking to her and looking at her from behind because she had a pair of hiphugger jeans on with her G pulled up over the waistline. I sat back down with a big grin on my face and she said that "they weren't hitting on me or anything hun", and I says "I don't blame them if they were hitting on ya, ya sexy little bitch! I know I would if I weren't with you already". She liked that.
i've watched my husband's best friends marriage slowly go down the toilet because all his wife does is tear him down, and she'd rather flirt with a stranger or a co-worker instead of putting the time in on her own marriage. 
i'm all for casual flirting, it can even be a game with your spouse, like going to a bar seperately and seeing if they get hit on and then coming up and acting like a stranger yourself and picking them up! 
He always makes me feel very wanted, and turnabout is foreplay..err fair play.
