Do or have any of you had to F friend for booty calls

[seaking420]

Do or have any of you had a F friend for booty calls

Have you ever been in a relationship and also had someone on the side? Did the side person get emotionaly attached, any problems with it, or was it fun and pleasurable?
I'm in a serious relationship with someone and just the other day I had someone who I am friendly with basically say she would like to f me. Not sure what to do. She's hot(body is but face could use some work) but not sure if its worth it. Temptation is strong.

 

[ponyfitness]

Yeah when I was young and didn't care. Had a girlfriend in uni and then a girl on the side that I would hook up with if we were both alone after the night ended. We both got emotionally attached however and it turned bad after a while. Usually not a good situation especially if she is a friend already.

Plus if you're serious about the girl that you are with why would you risk screwing it up for a piece of ass? Those situations never turn out good in the end.

 

[EnderJE]

Do you think there's a chace to marry the person you're in a serious relationship with?

If yes, then why would you risk it?
If no, then why are we even talking about it? Why aren't you fucking it?

Wait..wait...she's a dude, isn't she?

 

[Inhibitor13]

Do you think there's a chace to marry the person you're in a serious relationship with?

If yes, then why would you risk it?
If no, then why are we even talking about it? Why aren't you fucking it?

Wait..wait...she's a dude, isn't she?

Exactly !!!! If your girls not marriage material go for it. Your young only once!

 

[seaking420]

Well this is my problem, she is marriage material and a great person. However I only have been with 1 other person besides her, and that was a drunk and high night. So I've always wanted to "play the field a little" but never did cause I love the girl I'm with now. But if I never do see anyone else I wonder if that will always bother me and cause problems down the road if we do marry. It does bother me a little now, even though it probably shouldn't.
Ohh one more thing, the woman that want to f me is married.

 

[Fitness Nut]

No. You shouldn't. You're in a relationship you don't want to screw up and she is in a committed relationship.

 

[Sassy69]

If you are not ready to be in a committed relationship because you want to "play the field" for a while, then that's one decision. But some considerations about this other person:

- She's married - don't touch that w/ a 10 ft poll. This person has already indicated she has no respect for her own marriage, and based on that you don't know if her husband is going to come after your ass, you also have no idea if she's been out fucking anything that walks. Can you guarantee she's not going to pass you some disease? And then you are willing to put your own relationship at risk by exposing her to some disease? That's HYUGE disrespect for yourself AND your g/f - not just on a relationship level but also on a person level - i.e. are you willing to let your g/f get herpes or something worse because you felt like having a fling on the side?

- Violation of your relationship w/ your g/f

 

[Dial_tone]

you can't be in a serious relationship and have a fuck buddy on the side.

 

[rnch]

you can't be in a serious relationship and have a fuck buddy on the side.

sorry dude...........i can't buy that.

 

[seaking420]

She's married - don't touch that w/ a 10 ft poll. This person has already indicated she has no respect for her own marriage, and based on that you don't know if her husband is going to come after your ass, you also have no idea if she's been out fucking anything that walks. Can you guarantee she's not going to pass you some disease? And then you are willing to put your own relationship at risk by exposing her to some disease? That's HYUGE disrespect for yourself AND your g/f - not just on a relationship level but also on a person level - i.e. are you willing to let your g/f get herpes or something worse because you felt like having a fling on the side?

I've know her for about 3 years. Her marriage has gone sour in the past year and a half, but she has kids and dosent want to divorse him because of them. She "claims" that she has no disease. We've talked about sex and flirted a bit, especially in the past month. So she's looking for someone on the side to have some fun with that she's physically attracted to and knows on a personal level so she dosent have to worry about any disease.


I have to admit before I wrote this question I thought I was going to get a different a split poll on what to do, but it seems like most people are saying to stay true to my girl. I have to give this some more thought. This has been on my mind for the past week, keep going between yes and no.