Do guys hate girls that are upfront about their feelings?

[Waka]

I've just having been weird thoughts about my close friend.... we had a past. That's over.

What I wanted to know is, do guys get really turned off if...say, the girl told him how she feels EXACTLY. I think if I were a guy, I would become completely repelled if a woman were to say "I miss ya!" or "I still feel something" but I say this because he's not that into relationships, and have no idea if he's interested. need perspective!

The only reason I've thought of this is because I have a guy friend who is open with his feelings, VERY open... (would send very long e-mails to me about it) and it really turned me away from his direction.

sharing some of your experiences would be cool too

 

[flex229]

i prefer when a woman just tells me what she feels....its too hard to decode a woman who doesnt...

 

[Raina]

I'm very open. I can't keep my mouth shut about anything, let alone my feelings. I'd rather be raw and honest than live a lie. If someone can't handle how I feel, so be it but at least I've spoken my mind.

 

[a10j10]

i prefer when a woman just tells me what she feels....its too hard to decode a woman who doesnt...

I agree...

 

[PBR]

if its at a point where this kind of communcation is warranted, then i say what i need to...i would want to know if she was on the same page...otherwise things get misdirected and confusion is brought in....but there are times where there can be too much info....usually at the start when things are new.

 

[Childish///AMG]

Tell me exactly how you "Feel" life is to short to play the guessing game.

All that I ask is that you don't ever LIE to me. I would rather have a woman tell me that it is none of my business than to lie. If you lie about stealing a penny, you'll definately lie about stealing a dollar.

 

[nutsnack]

raina sounds like my kind of woman.. i like it cut and dry.. i dont want any of this beat around the bush shit and the girl wont talk about it unless u guess what's wrong or how she's feeling..
my girl use to have the habit of just pouting when she was upset until i asked what's wrong.. finally she learned i wont ask she just needs to come out and tell me and then ill talk to herabout it and help her out but im not going to try to figure it out!

 

[Waka]

raina sounds like my kind of woman.. i like it cut and dry.. i dont want any of this beat around the bush shit and the girl wont talk about it unless u guess what's wrong or how she's feeling..
my girl use to have the habit of just pouting when she was upset until i asked what's wrong.. finally she learned i wont ask she just needs to come out and tell me and then ill talk to herabout it and help her out but im not going to try to figure it out!

Definitely. That's exactly how I feel about this kind of stuff..... unfortunately

I had that habit too. And it's no good when people already have that kind of impression of you, huh? Anyway, enough of that. Thanks for your replies everyone!

 

[bigmann245]

i would rather a woman be open and honest now rather then spend 2 or 3 years with them and find out that some things i do have been annoying her. its like a slap in the face. i am an upfront person. now i wouldnt write songs about my feelings but i am open and honest. i would like a woman to be the same way. it helps in the long run. maybe when this guy was being honest you found that you actually dont like him and not the fact that hes open and honest. one day a guy will be open with you and you will find that you do like him for who he is. if you start your relationship on a lie it will ultimately end badly.

 

[danaf1]

I definitely prefer a woman open and honest. It ismuch better and simpler for a woman to let you know what is going on rather than trying to figure it out.