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Stillhere7

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boyfriends, ex-husbands or whatever to find out if they would make a move on another female? For example, one female using a friend to tease the man to try and find out if the man would flirt with the other female.
Does this make sense? If yes, why would a female do such a thing?

I might be getting involved in a predicament such as this soon. What should I do? Should I advance on the other female? She is good looking. Her ass looks so tight and delicious I know for a fact I can bounce a quarter off her.
What should I do?

Both females work for the same company and know each other but I do not know for sure if the one I have been with is testing me.
 
if u dont live ur girl, then go for it and see how far u can get with new girl. if they are like "what the fuck is ur problem"

just use the excuse "i had no intention of actually doing anything with her, i just thought u 2 were friends and i was testing her to see how good of a friend she was to you to make sure she wouldnt fuck you over"

either way, if u do score with this one, be a good guy and tell her that ur a lousy cheater
 
careful.

it might not be a test. most times its not.

make sure you know what you are losing so you don't end up regretting it 2 weeks after you are done bouncing quarters off the ass of a crazy girl.
 
if the other female is being used as an actress to entrap you or to prove your promiscuity, what makes you think it will go anywhere, except downhill with a bottomless pit at the end?....
 
if you just wanna know whether or not shes testing u, go all the way and see.

stop right before ur cheating on the girl if the crazy one wont, and just be like "i thougt u were testing me"

if shes like "no" then be like fuck off, keep real girly, tell ehr what happened, that u thought it was a test but didnt do jackshit.

then if she stops and is like, gotcha this is a test, be like, good fuck off i dont want a girl who tests me
 
i wouldn't give them too much credit for thinking up this scheme. if you have a gf that thought and planned it enough to try to test you...she doesn't trust you and you have nothing anyways.
 
I do live alone and I would not be cheating if I decided to charge this fine little tight specimen. I am tired of watching her play with her waist and hips as she passes by.

Maybe I should take sublimezm's adivice.
 
I will update this story as it unfolds. This experiment should be interesting.

I have to end the never ending blue ball episodes I have continuously suffered from immediately.
 
Stillhere7 said:
I have to end the never ending blue ball episodes I have continuously suffered from immediately.

oh wait...you are getting tested perhaps AND not getting any?!?

go tag some outside random chick and leave the coworkers alone.
 
are you serious?

If she's setting you up and testing you then its time to move on... if you are even considering that whole shit then its time to move on.
 
Stillhere7 said:
No dullboy I am not black


are you sure?

are you spanish?

dullboy has never heard anyone other than black or spanish guys call girls female except for on a job application.
 
Stillhere7 said:
Does this make sense? If yes, why would a female do such a thing?



They are insecure.
Stillhere7 said:
I might be getting involved in a predicament such as this soon. What should I do? Should I advance on the other female? She is good looking. Her ass looks so tight and delicious I know for a fact I can bounce a quarter off her.
What should I do?

Both females work for the same company and know each other but I do not know for sure if the one I have been with is testing me.


I don't really understand how you could KNOW that you would be placed in such predicament and being that you do - the relationship with your girlfriend or wife, whatever is already f*ked up.

So all I can say is - hope the bootay is worth the hassle.
 
bignate73 said:
oh wait...you are getting tested perhaps AND not getting any?!?

go tag some outside random chick and leave the coworkers alone.



No I have never been close to starting anything with her or the other and no they are not my co-workers.
 
Stillhere7 said:
No I have never been close to starting anything with her or the other and no they are not my co-workers.

so no foul if you go after the other girl.

no, what I meant was if you were involved with this one girl more heavily, I definitely wouldnt give the coworker the time of day. it just leads to misunderstandings. but since you are lightly involved (emphasis on lightly) the all bets are off.
 
bignate73 said:
i wouldn't give them too much credit for thinking up this scheme. if you have a gf that thought and planned it enough to try to test you...she doesn't trust you and you have nothing anyways.

WERD

This happened to me a few times - always pissed me THE FUCK off.

Funny thing? When I told my thenbf what the dealio was (because I ALWAYS did) they were like, "Oh.. I know, I told him to ask you out to see what you would do." Then the asshole was stunned when I told him that his best bro CONTINUED to ask me out even after I "passed" the initial test.

Needless to say, the two were best buds no longer and my relationships with the dudes didn't last either.

Insecurity is VERY unappealing.

My advice? Lose both the broads. Why stick your dick into inferior meat?


...just my .02
 
Careful. Sure, females can be VERY insecure and hella sneaky.
I don't know why u would waste your time with someone if u even considered they might put u through such a test...... but then again.... sounds like u might,soon, fail the test. Hell, maybe u are meant for each other. Have fun. U only live once.
 
bignate73 said:
sweet jesus!


:verygood:

I am THE COOLEST broad on the planet and have no time for BS.

Matteroffact my guy keeps having mental lapses because he says that there is NO WAY that I could be real.... because I never EVER give him shit.

Life is too short to piss and moan about dumb shit and certainly waaaay too short for insecurity/jealousy. That shit will turn me off RIGHT QUICK.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I am THE COOLEST broad on the planet and have no time for BS.

Matteroffact my guy keeps having mental lapses because he says that there is NO WAY that I could be real.... because I never EVER give him shit.

Life is too short to piss and moan about dumb shit and certainly waaaay too short for insecurity/jealousy. That shit will turn me off RIGHT QUICK.

I teeter on wanting to e-flirt...

lets use one of these
:qt:
 
bignate73 said:
I teeter on wanting to e-flirt...

lets use one of these
:qt:


LOL

I am outta here - gotta get ready for court - get my brows threaded and a pedicure. I gotsta look REAL PURTY for my ex. :chomp:
 
Stillhere7 said:
Most women are addicted to drama and suspense. Are you suggesting that you are the exeption?

Darlin' what you may not know is that my ex has provided me with more drama for the last 5+ years than any one person should have to endure for fifty lifetimes...

Not to mention that I am nearly 40 - that shit gets old by the time you are my age.

I LOATHE drama. Any guys gives me shit even in a phone call or email it is like, "Buh-bye" ...."Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out."

My bf cant get over how I am in NO HURRY to even talk about moving in, let alone marriage or meeting my kids or family. I dont ask him where he goes and what he does. As long as he is good to me then why should I worry?

If he can find better than me, then he should be with her. I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another female. :)
 
Stillhere7 said:
Most women are addicted to drama and suspense. Are you suggesting that you are the exeption?
SHE COULD BE..... I am another exception. I get my drama and suspense from working as a medic. When I get home I want a normal, happy, sex-filled, chilled-out, relaxing, wine drinking, bubble bath taking, peaceful time. I don't deal with drama at home. Fuck that shit. Life is 2short and I deserve better. I like to be spoiled.... and spoil my man in return.It's gotta be MYWAY.
And now, a word from my sponsors....... :twirl: :twirl: :twirl: :silly:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Darlin' what you may not know is that my ex has provided me with more drama for the last 5+ years than any one person should have to endure for fifty lifetimes...

Not to mention that I am nearly 40 - that shit gets old by the time you are my age.

I LOATHE drama. Any guys gives me shit even in a phone call or email it is like, "Buh-bye" ...."Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out."

My bf cant get over how I am in NO HURRY to even talk about moving in, let alone marriage or meeting my kids or family. I dont ask him where he goes and what he does. As long as he is good to me then why should I worry?

If he can find better than me, then he should be with her. I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another female. :)


With all due respect Bikinmom, you sound very insecure!
You're always tooting your own horn on here and talk "tough"! I am sure you are a super person, but there is no need to try to prove it.
I am 40 and have had very drama filled moments in my past too, but I learned from them, not became bitter.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Darlin' what you may not know is that my ex has provided me with more drama for the last 5+ years than any one person should have to endure for fifty lifetimes...

Not to mention that I am nearly 40 - that shit gets old by the time you are my age.

I do know, I remember when you were married. I have stayed underground.

I am not too far behind in age.

I like your current avatar.
Take it easy.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
If he can find better than me, then he should be with her. I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another female. :)


Omg... exactly how I feel!

the whole damn drama with jealousy and worry and bullshit isn't worth the wrinkles. If you find better than good for you, move on.
 
There is an old joke that ends with the line "If you bait a trap with pussy you'll catch me every time!"
The truth is VERY few women would do it because they know that if their guy is halfway hot then the friend is more than likely to do him and then report back that everything was cool. Women don't trust other women around their men, thank God!
 
Stillhere7 said:
We decided to break the realtionship but we still like each other.

I think I will back off and do nothing. Like always.


AWESOME!

Ok, which relationship?
:confused:
 
blueta2 said:
With all due respect Bikinmom, you sound very insecure!
You're always tooting your own horn on here and talk "tough"! I am sure you are a super person, but there is no need to try to prove it.
I am 40 and have had very drama filled moments in my past too, but I learned from them, not became bitter.

Actually quite the opposite. Sorry you get that impression but it's more projecting than anything else.

I have exposed so many weaknesses publicly I am astonished that you get that impression.

Bitter? LOL

Not by a longshot.

With all due respect to you, just because you dont see me posting up umpteeumpth posts about how I think I am too fat or need more work on this area of myself or that does not mean that I am not 100% self-aware. I have been forced to face reality in ways that very few have had the chance to experience. So if you read that as being "tough", that is your assessment and you are entitled to it.

Most just find me to be confident. Some are irritated by it. Bully for all. I dont change my candor to suit the whims of anyone because I am not trying to "be" anything for anybody. I am just me flaws, strengths and everything in between.

In short, just because I dont care to dwell on my weaknesses that does not mean that I am not aware they exist.

What is wrong with saying that I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another woman?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Actually quite the opposite. Sorry you get that impression but it's more projecting than anything else.

I have exposed so many weaknesses publicly I am astonished that you get that impression.

Bitter? LOL

Not by a longshot.

With all due respect to you, just because you dont see me posting up umpteeumpth posts about how I think I am too fat or need more work on this area of myself or that does not mean that I am not 100% self-aware. I have been forced to face reality in ways that very few have had the chance to experience. So if you read that as being "tough", that is your assessment and you are entitled to it.

Most just find me to be confident. Some are irritated by it. Bully for all. I dont change my candor to suit the whims of anyone because I am not trying to "be" anything for anybody. I am just me flaws, strengths and everything in between.

In short, just because I dont care to dwell on my weaknesses that does not mean that I am not aware they exist.

What is wrong with saying that I think too highly of myself to EVER compete with another woman?

Very cool of you to respond with class......I have not read all of your posts (of course), so was not trying to judge or analyze you, was simply making an observation to what I have seen thus far.

Confidence and cockiness are not the same. You can portray your confidence with brilliance and not cockiness. There is nothing wrong with saying you will ever compete with other women, but if you are confident you don't need to relay that.
I have a friend who always has to reiterate how much she loves her husband, and really her and her hubby are miserable. Self reassurance is usually is a sign of low self confidence.
I just find it hard to palate when strong women have to talk crude to get a point across.....
Again, thanks for replying maturely...there is a lack of that on this board.
 
The crudeness is a running joke with the board. LOL

You see when I say that I refuse to compete with another woman all I am saying is that I am wise enough to realize that if a man isn't REALLY into me, then why should I bother? (Feel me on the "I think to highly of myself to compete" thing?)

I refuse to jump through hoops for a guy who isn't all that into me - why should I?
 
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