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nangiggles said:
Apparently I'm that much of a bitch :(

It's actually him who's usually nagging me. Apparently a good deal of it was my fault. Thanks for almost divorcing me bitches :D j/k

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Hey Nan,

I was in a similar situation when I was 26. Together 6 years, married for 3 and she couldn't stand to have sex with me. Except we never fought and there was still some affection but it was "just going through the motions".

For about a year I hoped that she would leave me. Eventually I worked up the balls to tell her I couldn't do it any more. It broke her heart and I had to watch her fall apart. She turned the divorce really nasty and it fucked me up much more than I expected. Detangling your life from someone after that amount of time is brutal.

Life sucked for a long time. Was over a year before I could say I felt OK. But in the end I was much better off and eventually found someone who was a much better fit.

I just want to let you know what you're in for. You can decide if it's worth it.
 
nydj66 said:
Hey Nan,

I was in a similar situation when I was 26. Together 6 years, married for 3 and she couldn't stand to have sex with me. Except we never fought and there was still some affection but it was "just going through the motions".

For about a year I hoped that she would leave me. Eventually I worked up the balls to tell her I couldn't do it any more. It broke her heart and I had to watch her fall apart. She turned the divorce really nasty and it fucked me up much more than I expected. Detangling your life from someone after that amount of time is brutal.

Life sucked for a long time. Was over a year before I could say I felt OK. But in the end I was much better off and eventually found someone who was a much better fit.

I just want to let you know what you're in for. You can decide if it's worth it.
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Plus trannys are a good distraction, or so Ive heard
 
nangiggles said:
It's 7 years together in ups and downs, building a life together, its not that easy bro.

@zwhit, we went to therapy about 3 weeks ago so we both know how the other feels, we want to be together, but sometimes it feels like I'm jamming in a puzzle piece in the wrong place, it kinda works but it ain't right, the big picture comes out wrong

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Then it's probably best to get out before you have kids together. Because after 7 years if you're not happy with each other, think of how much having kids will only compound the problem. Plus you'll then be negatively impacting their lives too, and no kid deserves having to deal with their parents' drama. Kids look up to their parents (or should even these days) as their pinnacle role models. It shouldn't even get to the point of having to bring out the old, "Do as I say, not as I do" speech. At that point you'll all be heading down the slippery slope.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
Then it's probably best to get out before you have kids together. Because after 7 years if you're not happy with each other, think of how much having kids will only compound the problem. Plus you'll then be negatively impacting their lives too, and no kid deserves having to deal with their parents' drama. Kids look up to their parents (or should even these days) as their pinnacle role models. It shouldn't even get to the point of having to bring out the old, "Do as I say, not as I do" speech. At that point you'll all be heading down the slippery slope.
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Neither of us wants kids

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orange2 said:
How was i gullable? If you dont think dating a girl going thru a divorce is hard give it a try. Not going into anymore details but give it some thought before you jump into it.
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With millions of women who arent going through a divorce with kids, why the hell would you date one that is?

Fucking waste of time trying to "make it work" when you are starting with a huge handicap before the race even starts
 
-SD- said:
With millions of women who arent going through a divorce with kids, why the hell would you date one that is?

Fucking waste of time trying to "make it work" when you are starting with a huge handicap before the race even starts
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I think that fucker is dating my ex wife.
 
I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles
 
kx250rider said:
The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles
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Why exactly :confused: ?
 
kx250rider said:
I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles
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Holy fuck what's wrong with you
 
kx250rider said:
I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore....
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My ex had that along with depression, agoraphobia, OCD and slightly bi-polar. What a mess she was.
 
mistaballoonhands said:
This is what I was thinking
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Weird how that can happen to us men, isn't it?

It's an ugly reminder that we're a relatively new brain wrapped in a 160,000 year old core that still calls more of the shots than we'll ever admit.

I personally believe that our new brain spends a disproportionate amount of its energy rationalizing what comes out of our old brains. We like to think that we're objective and rational now, but there's a mountain of empirical evidence that suggests that isn't the case.

If women ever figured out how to completely leverage our old brains against us, we'd be screwed.
 
-SD- said:
With millions of women who arent going through a divorce with kids, why the hell would you date one that is?

Fucking waste of time trying to "make it work" when you are starting with a huge handicap before the race even starts
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I hear what u are saying
 
orange2 said:
I hear what u are saying
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Did you know youve got a time machine? If you jettison her now you wont be sitting around years from now thinking "Damn I wish I had a time machine so i could go back and leave her and not waste all that time and energy"

Boom, time machine baby
 
-SD- said:
Did you know youve got a time machine? If you jettison her now you wont be sitting around years from now thinking "Damn I wish I had a time machine so i could go back and leave her and not waste all that time and energy"

Boom, time machine baby
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That's a good way to look at it.
 
kx250rider said:
I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles
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Damn. If I fuck you, will you pay my bills for 7 years?
 
-SD- said:
Did you know youve got a time machine? If you jettison her now you wont be sitting around years from now thinking "Damn I wish I had a time machine so i could go back and leave her and not waste all that time and energy"

Boom, time machine baby
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You're speaking the truth...lord knows that I could use a time machine right now...
 
12 pages of why I oppose gay marriage. Ain't nobody trapping me in this shit ya'll went through. In the gay world, all divorce costs is the price of a UHaul to come his shit.
 
kx250rider said:
I wasn't married to her, but I lived with my ex-GF for 9 years, and we might as well have been married. Debt intertwined, no kids but several pets co-owned, and all that stuff. She has a condition called borderline personality disorder, and it got to the point where I couldn't take the mental abuse anymore, so I told her I was leaving, and that I'd continue to pay her way for awhile or longer, if she didn't do things to cause me trouble. Honestly it was mixed emotions for me to make that decision, because along with the issues which were so bad, there were good things about her (honesty, good to live with, good cook, etc). But none of that was worth feeling bad about myself all the time, and never quite making the grade with her. And sex had stopped happening too.

The "buyoff" method seems to have worked, although it was in 2006 that I left, and now it's 2013 and I'm still paying all her bills, and she still has my house, and I guess it's just always going to be that way. My wife is OK with it as long as the ex is respectful, but I know it's not politically correct for me to be allowing this to keep up.

Charles
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She had borderline personality disorder but you say she was honest and good to live with...that doesn't make sense to me.
 
stosstruppe said:
Why exactly :confused: ?
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That's a good question, and honestly I can't answer it so as it makes any sense to most people. My ex-GF is a good person; never cheated, lied, or did anything willfully wrong. She has no family, and like a fool, I promised her father and her god mother before they died, that I'd see to it that she was OK, and I don't like to go back on promises.. I guess I feel sorry for her in a way, and as long as it doesn't keep me from living my life and paying my bills, I don't mind helping her out. After all, if we HAD been married, I'd be paying alimony more than the "help" I'm giving voluntarily :verygood:

cindylou said:
She had borderline personality disorder but you say she was honest and good to live with...that doesn't make sense to me.
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I see BPD as a handicap, and it's not deliberately that way. She indeed is honest, and was good to share a house with; in that she would never do things disrespectful of my space or belongings, and she would never be careless with pets or anything. The BPD issues were more about her needing for others (including me) to be miserable all the time, except for the rare occasions where she wasn't miserable. There's a LOT more to BPD than just that of course, but that's the core of it as it affected our relationship. Not living with her, and not being in a relationship, it's a non-issue.

Charles
 
so nan i'm not going to read all this

are you going to get a divorce?
 
I'm still feeling things out, T levels got checked again, he's at 2425 which makes no fucking sense, he's only taking a cc and a half weekly

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He is jerking that thing off every chance he gets!
 
nangiggles said:
I'm still feeling things out, T levels got checked again, he's at 2425 which makes no fucking sense, he's only taking a cc and a half weekly

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Assuming the dose is 200mg/ wk, that's a ridiculously high amount to be prescribed.
 
With a 2K+ test level, he ought to be losing his mind.

Maybe he should throw-in about 50 mg of Provion each day.
 
maybe theres no libido change cuz the shits in his head not his hormones

I'll let the arm chair endos figure out his test levels given there is absolutely no other test info put up including unit of measurement or lab range
 
thanks :)

I'm turning up contest prep again after taking three weeks off and wanted to see where I was at...plus I had a bikini pics request
 
nangiggles said:
I'm still feeling things out, T levels got checked again, he's at 2425 which makes no fucking sense, he's only taking a cc and a half weekly

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150 mg or 150 ml (not), or 1.5 cc.... wtf.

Could be 1.5 x 200 = 300 mg/wk

What about his other numbers? Especially E?
 
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