Divorced peeps

[billfred]

Not only are they the same but I'm tolerating him less and less, its almost like I'm getting NOTHING out of this marriage, no sex, no intimacy, no conversation, no affection, I don't know... He keeps blaming it on my attitude, says I always have to be right, I on the other hand feel like he's delighted to put me down and minimize what does matter to me.

We've developed almost a fucking parentified relationship, I keep feeling like he's my fucking dad.

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you don't have any kids and very little shit. It is almost like breaking up with a boyfriend with those circumstances

 

[nangiggles]

you don't have any kids and very little shit. It is almost like breaking up with a boyfriend with those circumstances

It's 7 years together in ups and downs, building a life together, its not that easy bro.

@zwhit, we went to therapy about 3 weeks ago so we both know how the other feels, we want to be together, but sometimes it feels like I'm jamming in a puzzle piece in the wrong place, it kinda works but it ain't right, the big picture comes out wrong

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[pdaddyII]

He's cheating on you Roberta

 

[dusteefartz]

You have to ask yourself..do you really want to make it work or are you just going thru the motions bcs you invested so much time already. If its bcs of the time then you need to get out. It may hurt for awhile in the beginning but if you look at the bigger picture its all worth it.

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[Fishak]

Damn that suck to hear.

 

[zwhit]

It's 7 years together in ups and downs, building a life together, its not that easy bro.

@zwhit, we went to therapy about 3 weeks ago so we both know how the other feels, we want to be together, but sometimes it feels like I'm jamming in a puzzle piece in the wrong place, it kinda works but it ain't right, the big picture comes out wrong

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Yeah, I was just wondering. as long as you really gave it your best shot at making it work, what else can you do? but I'm not divorced and am happily married so I'll bow out now

 

[-SD-]

Ive been married 2 months I can help anyone in this thread

 

[oxymoron]

we want to be together, but sometimes it feels like I'm jamming in a puzzle piece in the wrong place, it kinda works but it ain't right, the big picture comes out wrong

this is how I feel with the same girl I've been with for 4 yrs. we just keep sticking to it. although for me it'll be fine after I get over it, for her she'll be the same although she's been crushed too many times and I wonder if it won't turn her hard as a rock.

 

[pdaddyII]

this is how I feel with the same girl I've been with for 4 yrs. we just keep sticking to it. although for me it'll be fine after I get over it, for her she'll be the same although she's been crushed too many times and I wonder if it won't turn her hard as a rock.

Hard as a rock?

 

[-SD-]

Im hard as fuck