habitualhealth said:OMG...you took the words RIGHT out of my mouth. Mark this day down as I'm sure it'll be one of the few that I will say that.![]()
I was right about you.
DIV
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habitualhealth said:OMG...you took the words RIGHT out of my mouth. Mark this day down as I'm sure it'll be one of the few that I will say that.![]()
oh yeah? i think i missed the memo...care to enlighten?DIVISION said:I was right about you.
DIV
habitualhealth said:oh yeah? i think i missed the memo...care to enlighten?
habitualhealth said:Ugh...if it weren't so early....you'd piss me off with this "baggage" garbage. A child is not baggage. Emotional instability, financial ruin, addictions.....THOSE are baggage. If he's crazy about this chic he needs to take it super slow. IMO, 2 months isn't quite long enough to know if you really are ready to take on the "ready made family". Personally, I do not date with my daughter at all. I'm very fortunate that her daddy is a HUGE part of her life and he and I share custody/schedule so I have down time so to speak. I feel that i need to get to know a man (and he me) thoroughly...see if he and I are compatible together before involving my daughter. A child is far too impresionable to have diff men/women coming in and out of their life. I'm speaking on my OWN behalf....you dont get to know me and THEN get to know my daughter to determine if you want to be with me. She is, without question the best part of who I am....so it's a done deal. Like someone said above...predetermine BEFOREHAND if you are willing to/can date someone with a child before even engaging in any "relationship". If not, no big...but be man/woman enough to say it upfront. If you're really into this gal....assure her you're not going anywhere and that time is key. Flip it to her that you are just as excited about the relationship but want a chance to really show her and get to know all that she AND her priorities (the children) are about.That will show her you respect her situation and have everyone's best at hand.
hey! solidBeached Whale said:You have known each other for two months and she is asking you, "When are you going to warm up to my kids?"
Stupid question: How long had she known you before she introduced you to them?"
Answer: NOT LONG AT ALL.
HYUGE RED FLAD
This will sound harsh, but, fuck the shit out of her as long as you can and run like hell when it ceases to be worth it anymore. But not when the kids are in the pic. Meaning, only see her when the kids are with the dad or take her out and doink her in a hotel while the kids are home with a sitter.
Any woman that feels the need to push her kids on a young man (or any man) that soon after she has met him has rocks in her head and that young man (or any man) is better off without HER...
Children are NOT baggage. They are a blessing and a gift, one that is not to be taken lightly or "pushed" on anyone.
ceasar989 said:I just say this because I know my self, and that while I could hold someone else child very close to me if i were a step dad or something...i really wouldnt beable to hold them as if they were my own blood. That's just me though.