Dating and feeling empty

[Austin316]

Long story short, i have dated a total of 9 girls in 4 weeks....all but one was a one date thing, girls 2-4 I ummmmm well fooled around with and lost virginity on # 4 yet of course Im not proud of that, at the time I didn't know if I cared and was confused, but in all it was meaningless and left me feeling kind of empty..every date since then has been more innocent but not developed in the slightest...its frustrating, ud think after 9 girls I would find ONE that I would want to date exclusive, yea Ive met some cool girls, and some complete BITCHES but fuck I dunno in the end right now I just feel empty about it because I dunno I may know a lot more about dating I spose but I have really satisfied nothing in myself as of yet....crap I hope it doesn't take me like 100 tries to just meat that someone I can be in something with..maybe Im picky I dunno a few girls I didn't continue on with soley for the fact that Im not attracted enough physically or mentally, I need a lot of both....ughhhhhh man I wish I didn't wait till I was 20 to start this whole dating thing but fuck oh well

 

[danielson]

hey

better than no dating and feeling empty....did u just suddenly decide to go out and start dating or something me wish me knew the womans u did i think



but hey, 9 dates in 1 month and u slept with one. thats 117 in a year sleeping with 13. not a bad statistic i think.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Its better to have boned and lost, then never to have boned at all....

 

[Charvelle]

Keep meeting them, honestly, it'll probably take about 20 good different girls or so before you find someone that you want to hook up with in a relationship.

 

[vinylgroover]

Austin,

Can i ask how or where you are meeting these girls?

 

[Frackal]

The net... aol chat is an awesome place to meet women, wish I had it without the rest of aol...also facethejury.com is good.

 

[Taps]

To be honest, in my entire life I've only clicked well with a few girls. It's easy to be attracted to someone, but to really connect with a person -- that's rare.

My advice: don't put so much pressure on yourself. As I've said before (many, many times lol) -- go out; have fun; and don't try to force anything. If you don't enjoy "dating" more than one girl at a time (I don't blame you; it's not something I like either) then don't do it. You can just hang out as friends. That is allowable, you know.

 

[Puc]

The net... aol chat is an awesome place to meet women, wish I had it without the rest of aol...also facethejury.com is good.

why not get a non aol isp and install trillian *www.trillian.com" it is a chat client that has aol, yahoo, msn all in one...

then uninstall that aim crap.

 

[Frackal]

AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Frackal]

Puc will this actually let you on the AOL network to talk to girls that subscribe to AOL??? Not the same thing as AIM??