Couples Counseling

[sexyMFer]

Monogamy is monotonous

 

[digimon7068]

Life can get boring. She had a lil mini vacation & fling.

every good mom i've ever known, when their kids were young...0 to 20-something...their kids are the number one priority in their life...ahead of everyone else...including hubby. that's just the way it works from my experience. and when i run across one of those situations like this one, it always makes me pause and scratch my head. a good mom is never "bored"...exhausted maybe...but not bored. and exhausted moms don't have time to fuck around. and good moms lives are fulfilled by their kids...they barely have the time or need for some dude with a fucking boner.

 

[digimon7068]

Monogamy is monotonous

man...not for me...it's still fun as hell...had one of those hands-on-hips, bent at the waist, sweating and sucking wind go-rounds last night...pounded the snot outta each other

 

[digimon7068]

you're 50...that happens when you climb the stairs to go to bed

 

[digimon7068]

fuck you hahahaha

 

[sexyMFer]

She's cheating on you

 

[digimon7068]

man, if she was, i'd be laying pipe somewhere else tomorrow...i like women...it was really hard to pick just one.

 

[cindylou]

every good mom i've ever known, when their kids were young...0 to 20-something...their kids are the number one priority in their life...ahead of everyone else...including hubby. that's just the way it works from my experience. and when i run across one of those situations like this one, it always makes me pause and scratch my head. a good mom is never "bored"...exhausted maybe...but not bored. and exhausted moms don't have time to fuck around. and good moms lives are fulfilled by their kids...they barely have the time or need for some dude with a fucking boner.

Agree. A good mom doesn't tear apart her family.

However, sometimes women that aren't and haven't getting all their needs met for awhile (because kids can't and shouldn't be meeting mom's needs) will turn outside the marriage relationship and pick a married man, or someone they can't really have, the reasoning being the relationship won't materialize into anything that threatens the marriage (in their mind) and they can get their needs met and stay married and no one gets hurt. No one was supposed to find out. It's stupid but that's what I think was happens sometimes. Maybe I'm wrong too, but when I've seen this happen usually the wife doesn't want to leave, she just...well...was weak. Maybe weak character. Maybe family stuff. I don't really know all that. And I don't know, maybe I'm wrong on that. I just don't see any other reason why she'd do it with a married man other than, she didn't really want a divorce and FT was doing some things right.

When they don't want to try or refuse to give up the affair/man that's an entirely different deal.

 

[rainbococksleev]

Agree. A good mom doesn't tear apart her family.

However, sometimes women that aren't and haven't getting all their needs met for awhile (because kids can't and shouldn't be meeting mom's needs) will turn outside the marriage relationship and pick a married man, the reasoning being the relationship won't materialize into anything that threatens the marriage (in their mind) and they can get their needs met and stay married and no one gets hurt. No one was supposed to find out. It's stupid but that's what I think was happens sometimes. Maybe I'm wrong too, but when I've seen this happen usually the wife doesn't want to leave, she just...well...was weak. Maybe weak character. Maybe family stuff. I don't really know all that.

Why are you doing this?

 

[cindylou]

Why are you doing this?

I don't think you should be allowed to complain when people ignore you