Confusing Sex Question

[SheDragon]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

 

[needtogetaas]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

 

[SheDragon]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

 

[SheDragon]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

on a different note.... DAMNNNNNNNNNNN.. she got off 10 times????!!! NICE!

 

[jenscats5]

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

I'm a little confused on the question....is the question that the girl gets off first then says "I'm done" gets up so the guy doesn't get his - that's the problem?? Or that men finish first & don't give the woman the opportunity to get hers??

 

[cranny]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

It dosen't happen in my house. I will admit, most of the the time the wife and my orgasm are timed pretty close together. I'm sometimes a little later. But it has definately been the other way around where I'll go before her(prob. b/c it had been a while) . In that case, I do whatever I have to to get her off. I mean, I love to orgasm, but I think I like to satisfy my baby just as much as me getting off Very important in my book.

 

[Sassy69]

Sometimes stuff doesn't happen like in the romantic novels or porn flicks -- you work w/ what happens -- sometimes the guy just can't get off which is fine as well. I don't need the Big O to call it a fun time. For me the point is to enjoy the other person, make them feel good, not make them or me feel bad because "it" didnt' happen. Too much stress. It is what it is. The large preponderence of women don't get vaginal orgasms and that isn't very apparent if don't pay attention to "reality" -- I don't want my guy to make it his personal crusade to pound me until I O if its not gonna happen. I'll fake it before I'll sit there & get raw after 45 min & a very frustrated guy. There are better ways to explore & have fun & reach O. I'm all about having fun, making it mutually good and very intimate. Otherwise if I just need to get off, there's always Mr. Vibrator. Time spent w/ a SO is critically important to me and if its not fun, its not good. Don't make it somethign you "think" it should be vs. what it is.

Not sure if that's what you are asking, but that's my take on things. Whether or not u "O" does not define your ability to be a partner or if you are "good" or whatever. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Sex is a part of life and it is impacted by your mood, your energy level, your stress level and and everything else. You just can't decouple it from all that and tie a whole bunch of other "performance stress" to it as well.

 

[needtogetaas]

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

there are three typs of women in the world when it comes to orgazims.
o girls
g girls
and n girls

o being the type that fucken sreem ooooomg as soon as you tuch them.pritty much anny thing can get them off they are the lucky ones.they often get of sevral times dering sex and even a few times in forplay.

g girls are a little bit more complexs usawaly takeing derrict g spot our clitoris stimulatoin with quit a bit of warm up work to get her of.most oftin they will still have some orgasims dering sex but once in a wile they wont.

and the last n girls.being "note unless all the planits aline and the earth stops will they get off.there are some set backs to haveing a girl like this but there is one big perk.the avrig man will not get here off unless they have spent many hours togather experaminting and talking and figering out what it takes for her.
this sucks for the women because most women dont like to tell a man what they like wich also sucks for the avrig man as well.
the fact is a girl like this is scrood uless she finds a man she loves so much that she will have sex with him because it just feels good to pleace him.then if she hopens up to him and they work togather they can make it happen for her.
the one good perk to a girl like this is if you are good and you can get her off she will wership youre dick till the day you die.lmao

 

[jafo]

to be honest ,,it happens more than you would think ....as a guy its ok by me ..by the time she gets hers I am done ..as in tired and ready to stop.

the problem with your question is ..when a man does it to a woman ..the guy is done really fast most times ..so the woman was just getting into it and ready for more



could you be a little more clear on your question ..it sounds like you are asking if this happened to guy all the time would we put up with it

 

[SheDragon]

I'm a little confused on the question....is the question that the girl gets off first then says "I'm done" gets up so the guy doesn't get his - that's the problem?? Or that men finish first & don't give the woman the opportunity to get hers??

no, i was just giving an example of "what if" it happened the other way around.. my question was why it happens to women all the time and it being "ok" to accept.. =)