Chick just made herself do the walk of shame at my place wtf

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So I had this chick over, went out a couple times before. She comes over tonight and we go to a football game then back to my place for a movie, then got it on. Shes loving it and I try to turn her around for doggy and she wont do it because its "all wierd and stuff to her". So I just play it cool and let her chill and she out of the blue said she was going to go home because she "didnt feel right". So I just casually say OK, like I can just get a chick every saturday night. Shes a single mom and was married 9 years with dovirce final in march, so all bets are off regarding her sanity. i dont think i can deal with any chick that wont fuck backside. Never knew how much I missed the dating drama LOL.

 

[borris]

lol, she prolly is insecure bout her un-bleached deuce shoot

 

[BIGBUCK$]

hahahahahahahahaha

 

[Longhorn85]

Sounds like she feels guilty about something. Are you her first since her marriage ended?

I thought you were going to go for the younger ones now?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

felt weird = unsure of what she was doing = negative feeling

try the following, if yorue so inclined: announce to her that for the next 10 minutes, she has to see you as a purely platonic friend and tell you everything thats on her mind and why shes feeling like she is, but then in 10 minutes, youre going to have sex and thats that. - get her started by saying something "you feel really weird because youve been used to having sex with one person and have seen yourself in a certain way for a really long time, and now that its changing and youre finding yourself in these situations that yorue not used to, it makes you unsure about stuff and leaves you feeling bad, which is a totally normal human thing to do - am i right?" then she'll confide in you and bridge a lot of those issues, but you ahve to be really confident/strong in demanding that she assume the position in 10 minutes and actually have sex, otherwise youre going to become her emotional sponge.

its a lot of erffort and you have to be switched on emotionally to do it, but if you dont, you risk her associating all those feelings with you and not wanting to have sex again.

cant stress enough though taht you need to have a really strong frame. "i am your lover and your confidante, but this relationship is staying sexual. you have 10 minutes to let it out, but then...its SEX TIME"

works well. makes good friends too. ciao

 

[-SD-]

dont think it would happen anyway but i dont think i want to see her again. not worth the horseshit.

 

[stephen4327]

i like cookin up super daves

 

[stephen4327]

i like to cook super daves

 

[Sub-Zero]

felt weird = unsure of what she was doing = negative feeling

try the following, if yorue so inclined: announce to her that for the next 10 minutes, she has to see you as a purely platonic friend and tell you everything thats on her mind and why shes feeling like she is, but then in 10 minutes, youre going to have sex and thats that. - get her started by saying something "you feel really weird because youve been used to having sex with one person and have seen yourself in a certain way for a really long time, and now that its changing and youre finding yourself in these situations that yorue not used to, it makes you unsure about stuff and leaves you feeling bad, which is a totally normal human thing to do - am i right?" then she'll confide in you and bridge a lot of those issues, but you ahve to be really confident/strong in demanding that she assume the position in 10 minutes and actually have sex, otherwise youre going to become her emotional sponge.

its a lot of erffort and you have to be switched on emotionally to do it, but if you dont, you risk her associating all those feelings with you and not wanting to have sex again.

cant stress enough though taht you need to have a really strong frame. "i am your lover and your confidante, but this relationship is staying sexual. you have 10 minutes to let it out, but then...its SEX TIME"

works well. makes good friends too. ciao

id end up getting slapped across the face

 

[-SD-]

she texted me and said it was because she wants a meaningful relationship and not just sex LOL. Ive actually gone kind of slow with this one lol.
This was our 4th date before we even got sectchoowal. and i was never trying to put the moves on her before now.