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Can you?

Can you have a relationship with some you sletp with on your first date?

  • Yes you can have a relationship with them.

    Votes: 13 46.4%

  • No they are just your new fuck friend.

    Votes: 6 21.4%

  • Depends.

    Votes: 9 32.1%
  • Total voters
    28
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Can you have a relationship with some you slept with on the first date or have they just become you new fuck friend?
 
I couldn't have a relationship with someone I slept with the first date/night.

If they can do that, then to me, they have no respect for themselves and would do it on a whim with anyone else.

Did that make sense?
 
depends
if it was fast and furious most like a fbuddy
but it lasted hours and was long and slow and the climax was more a cherry on the sundae then it has a chance

love the long slow ones
 
Romo17 said:
I couldn't have a relationship with someone I slept with the first date/night.

If they can do that, then to me, they have no respect for themselves and would do it on a whim with anyone else.

Did that make sense?
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I agree 100%
 
Oops. Ive been in a one night stand for 9 months now:(
 
depends of if alcohol was involved...an economics professor explained that alcohol lowers the "time horizon"..in other words if you're intoxicated you will be more laible to do sooner what you would do eventually anyways...most women know relatively quickly whether they want to have intercourse with a guy..either they find him physically desirable and/or his personality and charisma attract her to him..add to this that alcohol physiologically makes women more horny(I'll find a link),where as for men alcohol is actually physiologically impairing..so yes I've had some good caliber relationships with women I've slept with on the first or second date..and many times too I've slept and only slept(i.e. no intercourse) with a women after the first "date"...but generally if a women will allow you to sleep with her in her bed than its a fairly safe assumption you'll be intimate eventually
 
4everhung said:
most women know relatively quickly whether they want to have intercourse with a guy..either they find him physically desirable and/or his personality and charisma attract her to him..
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I agree with that 100% I know right away just a matter of when I will give it up normally!

I like the guy for more than just a fuck friend but after I did it thought oh shit that is all he is going to be now. Not really sure what I want but I like the option of more than just fuck friends. I pretty much never do that but it had been several months since I had sex and I was really into him it just happend.
 
Personally I could, but the relationship that just ended, did so in part because SHE couldn't handle the fact that we slept together 1 week after our first date (it wasn't a date, I was just over visiting when it happened), and she developed feelings for me faster than she thought was healthy, and it scared her.

Dayna, my advice is if he can handle it, don't dwell on it, and let it ruin a relationship that might lead to your happiness. Just accept it, and if you both think there is potential for soemthing long term, just go with it.
 
Romo17 said:
I couldn't have a relationship with someone I slept with the first date/night.

If they can do that, then to me, they have no respect for themselves and would do it on a whim with anyone else.

Did that make sense?
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So you don't have respect for yourself either if you're this "one night stands" partner. You'd "do it on a whim with anyone else" too then. Is that what you're saying?

What's good for the goose, right. Or is it just the gander that're the low self-esteem tramps?

It all comes down to the two people involved.
 
corythosaurus said:

So you don't have respect for yourself either if you're this "one night stands" partner. You'd "do it on a whim with anyone else" too then. Is that what you're saying?

What's good for the goose, right. Or is it just the gander that're the low self-esteem tramps?

It all comes down to the two people involved.
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Dude, I'm a guy and if a chick is working her mojo on my johnson, then of course I'm not going to say no.

And to answer your response, no, I guess I wouldn't have respect for myself. But I'll get over it.
 
dayna4u2nv said:

I agree with that 100% I know right away just a matter of when I will give it up normally!
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you probably didn't mean it as it sounds.....but for me,when a women behaves as if she's "giving" and/or "letting me have" sexual relations with her then I'm decidedly not turned on...coming at this from another angle,the longest I've dated a gal w/o "getting it" was ~2 months and that was the girl I married..a relationship marked by selfishness and virtually no generosity..lasted 2 years and i regard it as my "beta" marriage
 
4everhung said:
you probably didn't mean it as it sounds.....but for me,when a women behaves as if she's "giving" and/or "letting me have" sexual relations with her then I'm decidedly not turned on...coming at this from another angle,the longest I've dated a gal w/o "getting it" was ~2 months and that was the girl I married..a relationship marked by selfishness and virtually no generosity..lasted 2 years and i regard it as my "beta" marriage
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beta lol
 
4everhung said:
you probably didn't mean it as it sounds.....
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True that sounded pretty bad anyways what I really mean is in general I try to wait no matter the physical attraction to someone. I want to see if there is a possiblity of it actually developing into more. I really want to make sure that my head knows where things are at before I let my body get into the physical. :busy:
 
dayna4u2nv said:


True that sounded pretty bad anyways what I really mean is in general I try to wait no matter the physical attraction to someone. I want to see if there is a possiblity of it actually developing into more. I really want to make sure that my head knows where things are at before I let my body get into the physical. :busy:
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good way to live
 
I agree i prefer to build some suspense and anticipation..but you know sometimes you get to necking and kissing and the hands of each of you start to wander....I'll naturally move a palm down to the navel area and then its not too far to work a finger under a panty band(if they're wearing any,I've had a few first dates go commando)..if the gal is receptive to the recon finger its not to much further to the love button...and its wet and its quite frankly hard for either to stop....prior to the intimacy you should have enough time to pick up cues about your mate..i can generally tell inside of about 3 minutes if this is a girl I'd like to get it on with...3 dates with or without intercourse I can tell if they are worth a longer commitment..30 days to see if they are marriage material,and about 3-4 months to confirm..remember to that sexual intimacy is very good barometer of the chemistry the two of you may have,or have not..sometimes you find out if you have bedroom chemistry soon,sometimes it takes a more "traditional" longer period..really girls,wouldn't you like to find out if a guy is a lousy lay sooner rather than later?..there are so many ways and opportunities to express yourself sexually than say in dinner date after dinner date.....
 
I agree the only other time I have let someone hit it so soon, I found out almost right away we were not sexually compatible. The second time we did it I wispered talk dirty to me in his ear, he couldn't do it. I tried to talk about it later and he was making a joke of it. He couldn't understand how that is something I would like needles to say that was short lived.
 
It takes 1 guy out of a few 1000s for me to get attracted to, let alone have an intercourse with. I wouldn't do it on a first date, but I'm not blaming men for trying.
The funny thing is no matter wheather I have sex with "him" right away or later, they still don't leave me alone for many years and I am not just saying it...
I know most women complain about guys not wanting to commit and it's opposite in my case, on the second date it's just another "marriage purposal". That's why my "relationships" only lasts 3 dates. On a second date he would call me his GF and his whole family already knows about me, by the 3rd date he would ask me to go with "him" look at some houses because "I will be living in it"... Believe me, that happens to me with every guy I meet!
I sometimes wonder why? I am definately not the type that makes you think I would make a good house wife.
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types as opposed to "regulars", brings an excitment and challenge into relationship.

But aside from that I think intimacy plays a big role in the relationship. It was one of the reasons of my previous break-ups.
 
Russian KGB said:
It takes 1 guy out of a few 1000s for me to get attracted to, let alone have an intercourse with. I wouldn't do it on a first date, but I'm not blaming men for trying.
The funny thing is no matter wheather I have sex with "him" right away or later, they still don't leave me alone for many years and I am not just saying it...
I know most women complain about guys not wanting to commit and it's opposite in my case, on the second date it's just another "marriage purposal". That's why my "relationships" only lasts 3 dates. On a second date he would call me his GF and his whole family already knows about me, by the 3rd date he would ask me to go with "him" look at some houses because "I will be living in it"... Believe me, that happens to me with every guy I meet!
I sometimes wonder why? I am definately not the type that makes you think I would make a good house wife.
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types as opposed to "regulars", brings an excitment and challenge into relationship.

But aside from that I think intimacy plays a big role in the relationship. It was one of the reasons of my previous break-ups.
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you must either be very special or very hot or both

;)
 
Russian KGB said:
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types
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I like 'em bitchy. The bitchier, the better.

Keeps me on my toes and the sex sessions are outrageous.
 
I know this might suprise you guys lol.....but I didn't have sex with the hubby for about 4 months into the relationship. So like some else on here said....that was the person I married. We dated for 5 years before we married.
 
Gymgurl said:
I know this might suprise you guys lol.....but I didn't have sex with the hubby for about 4 months into the relationship. So like some else on here said....that was the person I married. We dated for 5 years before we married.
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Don't feel so bad, the last 2 years of my marriage we slept in 2 different rooms, we hardly ever saw each other, just communicated thru notes. He was into some weird things I didn't want to have a part of, but had a hard time breaking it off because of my beliefs and upbringing.
In my country they teach us to stick to your man no matter what and always be faithful. The difference is I didn't know him well before I married him, it was a long distance relationship and the time was pushing it, I just took my chance.
My friends would always try to set me up with other men to open my eyes, but would never go for it to all the respect to my marriage, no matter how much I hated it!
I think that's the only part of me that is not Americanized yet...
 
Russian KGB said:


Don't feel so bad, the last 2 years of my marriage we slept in 2 different rooms, we hardly ever saw each other, just communicated thru notes. He was into some weird things I didn't want to have a part of, but had a hard time breaking it off because of my beliefs and upbringing.
In my country they teach us to stick to your man no matter what and always be faithful. The difference is I didn't know him well before I married him, it was a long distance relationship and the time was pushing it, I just took my chance.
My friends would always try to set me up with other men to open my eyes, but would never go for it to all the respect to my marriage, no matter how much I hated it!
I think that's the only part of me that is not Americanized yet...
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sounds like abused wife syndrome
too afraid to leave thinking you might find worse

but if life is as intolerable as you say

GET THE FUCK OUT
 
My current bf and I hooked up nov 2002 after only knowing each other like 2.5 minutes. Just a hit it and quit it thing.

I got it phone number but absolutely wasnt ever going to call him but then mid jan of this year for some reason I called him after I found his number down behind my dresser. We've been bf/gf since mid march. However, the sex isnt nearly as hot as it was last year. Seems like when all the emotions and everything comes in its just hard to totally cut loose and get nasty.
 
Yes. I met my current on the internet. She's in a different state. We chatted (mostly non sexual stuff) for about 2 years before we physically hooked up. When we finally met we both agreed it was purely for sexual purposes. We were kissing within 15 seconds and fucking within 5-10 minutes. We still talk nearly every day but it works for us because we were friends first.
 
i met my ex on the net also
that drug my sorry ass up to canada from the states where i was leading a life of decedence
oh well
i like it up here
and yes we did have sex the first day we met
and we were together 3 years
it did work
and would still be working if your kids did not hate me for replacing there dad
oh well we are still friends
 
Romo17 said:


I like 'em bitchy. The bitchier, the better.

Keeps me on my toes and the sex sessions are outrageous.
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You might be right , when hubby or I have to go out of town, my nagging and bitching is what he said he misses the most
 
dayna4u2nv said:
I agree the only other time I have let someone hit it so soon, I found out almost right away we were not sexually compatible. The second time we did it I wispered talk dirty to me in his ear, he couldn't do it. I tried to talk about it later and he was making a joke of it. He couldn't understand how that is something I would like needles to say that was short lived.
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Id get stressed out if told to talk dirty in such a situation. Im good with language, especially in my own language, and i can talk so disgusting that it makes people barf, but i dont think thats the kind of dirty theyre talking about....
 
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