Okay, a woman needs to chime in here. Sure, we like a big fat...ahem...wallet...lol. Just kidding. Different women are looking for different things. I have to admit that I am a sucker for the muscles! Most of the guys that I have dated that had big muscles have seemed to have a screw loose, though. No offense. It is probably just a coincidence. Yes, of course we prefer you to have nice hair, but a few men can carry off the balding look okay. I agree with the comment that women love tall men the most. I am only 5'3" but I don't find myself attracted to anyone who is shorter than, say, 5'10" or so. Sorry, it is just true.
I can't believe you guys are leaving the penis out of the equation...lol. I personally am bowled over by the big ones. They are just so damned aesthetically pleasing that I get very turned on. Some men with big ones still end up being duds in the bedroom, though...lol. A girlfriend of mine and I came up with an idea of passing a law that all men must post a picture of their penises on their shoulder, like a nametag, because there is nothing worse than getting a great looking guy in bed and then finding out that he is hung like a shrimp.
Really, I'm being tongue in cheek here. There are lots of qualities that are more important, such as kindness, intelligence, etc. For pure aesthetics, though. That is what I like.