I always thought I looked good, and have been told that all my life. Maybe everyone lied to me, whatever. Point is, I still think it is all in the confidence.
Even when I ballooned up to 260lbs fatass, I still thought the attention was there. My gf liked me even more at that bodyweight as she felt more "secure" since I was so "big." Different girls will like different sizes, shapes, etc etc. I think in the end it's all about the confidence if you are at least somewhat average looking.
Yea maybe if you look like complete shit then girls will get intimidated no matter how good your "game" is, but that isn't what I am talking about here. Just think that generally the better one looks the more confident he/she gets, and, therefore, gets more attention from the opposite sex.
JMHO.
-sk