Bachelor/Bachelorette parties

[AziaReign]

I was listening to the radio this morning, (missed the WHOLE story, but this is what it was about.) This chick has only been married to this guy for a few days. Someone sent her the tape of his Bachelor party and had seen things were going on that weren't supposed to be going on (probably sexual favors and etc.).......with the stripper. And obviously he did not tell her. This is a question for everyone:

What would you do if this happened to you? Do you have any right to say something to your spouse? Do you think your spouse should be completely honest with you even though you are not married yet? What do you think a bachelor/bachelorette consist of?

 

[Bikini Mod]

If the man that I was about to marry felt the need to have his dick sucked or for him to touch any of the women in a way that he would NOT want me to be touched by a man at a bachelorette party then I would kick his sorry ass to the curb - NO QUESTIONS ASKED!

I do not have a jealous bone in my body and I am a very open-minded and fun loving person. On the night of my ex's bachelor party (I went out w/my sis and a friend. We ended up coming home AFTER he did.) I told him that I wanted him to have a grand time abusing the raunchy hos but that he should remember that I would be out doing whatever it was that HE would be doing. So if he had a problem with something - THEN HE SHOULD NOT DO IT!

Very simple really.

 

[Formula]

It's a double standard, everyone knows that. BJ are the most common things at a bachelor party.

 

[AziaReign]

I'll state my comments when I hear what others have to say.

 

[AziaReign]

BAM!

And that is why you are my friend!

 

[Bikini Mod]

If he screws around on her and they didnt either agree upon it first, or he didnt tell her later, regardless of what the act was (BJ,Kiss,Screw etc.) then he should be kicked straight to the curb.

Plain and simple that is cheating. I dont care how it may be common place etc. If you have any type of sexual act with another person and your spouse/partner doesnt know about it, you are cheating. Not a great way to start a marriage. It doesnt matter that it was his last night of freedom etc. If he didnt tell her in advance and afford her the same opportunity, then fuck him! You cant tell me that if he didnt do shit and then found out that his women had either gotten eaten out by a stripper or gave a stripper a blowjob at her party, that he wouldnt drop her in a heartbeat.

Marriage is a system based almost all on trust and commitment. When you keep things from your partner (or start your marriage that way) you are doomed from the beginning. Its guys like this fuckhead that make people think that all guys are assholes.

It is like I keep saying:

NOT ALL MEN ARE DOGS!

 

[DDS24]

I must say, I have seen some pretty graphic stuff at bachelor parties. Dont get me wrong Im no angel. But I honestly dont advocate what the norm is at bachelor parties. I mean what exactly is the difference between that and fucking someone else right befor your wedding?? Tradition?? Fuck that. What gets me the most sick is many of the bachelor parties I have been on, the soon-to-be in-laws are there and are all for it?????????? WTF!!!!!

DDS24

 

[Kahn]

Fuck that, you don't go pound strange the day before or during or anything. Fuck that dog and the righteous piece of shit that sent the tape, even if I do agree with them. Just act right.

 

[Raina]

I would not stay with someone if they did this. No way in hell. I have 0-tolerance for cheating.

Marriage is a serious topic for me. I think it's hypocritical to "celebrate" one's impending limetime-union/committment by fucking around on their partner. Why would someone even waste their time marrying someone if they were willing to betray them (even if some would consider it acceptable on a technicality)??

 

[TEST APE]

Its A Rite Of Passage.......................Mans last nite out with the boys before he takes the plunge...Sorry flame away........Dont get me wrong i not saying its right. But if both are having parties(Him-Her) Then let the tail fly..................