Bachelor/Bachelorette parties

[AziaReign]

I was listening to the radio this morning, (missed the WHOLE story, but this is what it was about.) This chick has only been married to this guy for a few days. Someone sent her the tape of his Bachelor party and had seen things were going on that weren't supposed to be going on (probably sexual favors and etc.).......with the stripper. And obviously he did not tell her. This is a question for everyone:

What would you do if this happened to you? Do you have any right to say something to your spouse? Do you think your spouse should be completely honest with you even though you are not married yet? What do you think a bachelor/bachelorette consist of?

 

[Bikini Mod]

If the man that I was about to marry felt the need to have his dick sucked or for him to touch any of the women in a way that he would NOT want me to be touched by a man at a bachelorette party then I would kick his sorry ass to the curb - NO QUESTIONS ASKED!

I do not have a jealous bone in my body and I am a very open-minded and fun loving person. On the night of my ex's bachelor party (I went out w/my sis and a friend. We ended up coming home AFTER he did.) I told him that I wanted him to have a grand time abusing the raunchy hos but that he should remember that I would be out doing whatever it was that HE would be doing. So if he had a problem with something - THEN HE SHOULD NOT DO IT!

Very simple really.

 

[Formula]

It's a double standard, everyone knows that. BJ are the most common things at a bachelor party.

 

[AziaReign]

I'll state my comments when I hear what others have to say.

 

[AziaReign]

BAM!

And that is why you are my friend!

 

[Bikini Mod]

If he screws around on her and they didnt either agree upon it first, or he didnt tell her later, regardless of what the act was (BJ,Kiss,Screw etc.) then he should be kicked straight to the curb.

Plain and simple that is cheating. I dont care how it may be common place etc. If you have any type of sexual act with another person and your spouse/partner doesnt know about it, you are cheating. Not a great way to start a marriage. It doesnt matter that it was his last night of freedom etc. If he didnt tell her in advance and afford her the same opportunity, then fuck him! You cant tell me that if he didnt do shit and then found out that his women had either gotten eaten out by a stripper or gave a stripper a blowjob at her party, that he wouldnt drop her in a heartbeat.

Marriage is a system based almost all on trust and commitment. When you keep things from your partner (or start your marriage that way) you are doomed from the beginning. Its guys like this fuckhead that make people think that all guys are assholes.

It is like I keep saying:

NOT ALL MEN ARE DOGS!

 

[DDS24]

I must say, I have seen some pretty graphic stuff at bachelor parties. Dont get me wrong Im no angel. But I honestly dont advocate what the norm is at bachelor parties. I mean what exactly is the difference between that and fucking someone else right befor your wedding?? Tradition?? Fuck that. What gets me the most sick is many of the bachelor parties I have been on, the soon-to-be in-laws are there and are all for it?????????? WTF!!!!!

DDS24

 

[Kahn]

Fuck that, you don't go pound strange the day before or during or anything. Fuck that dog and the righteous piece of shit that sent the tape, even if I do agree with them. Just act right.

 

[Raina]

I would not stay with someone if they did this. No way in hell. I have 0-tolerance for cheating.

Marriage is a serious topic for me. I think it's hypocritical to "celebrate" one's impending limetime-union/committment by fucking around on their partner. Why would someone even waste their time marrying someone if they were willing to betray them (even if some would consider it acceptable on a technicality)??

 

[TEST APE]

Its A Rite Of Passage.......................Mans last nite out with the boys before he takes the plunge...Sorry flame away........Dont get me wrong i not saying its right. But if both are having parties(Him-Her) Then let the tail fly..................

 

[SDRaver]

a point to add

Notice how men always get caught doing this. Women on the other hand rarely ever get caught. There's always that one guy that will rat a bro out just to make himself look better to his woman. You guys know who I'm talking about because we all know someone like that.
Women on the other hand will go into a party like it's a covert black op. No identities no evidence, no proof. but you know there's always that one girl who will end up with more pricks in her than a porcupine Just an observation.
I've worked a couple of bachollerete sp? parties. A pack of horny drunk women are far more dangerous than men. Plus there's always the one homely looking girl that everyone is trying to get laid at the party

 

[NY Muscle]

1st off its cheating and if a guy or girl did that on his or her bachelor/bachllorette party...and if either spouse finds out a few days after the marriage...divorce the stupid scumbag or slut.


and trust me bachlorette partys are 10 x's WORSE than bachelor parties, girls are sneaky and think no guys will find out. lemme tell you from the things a few make stripper buddies of mine have told me....it makes any raunchy bachelor party look like a tupperware party.....girls get fucking nasty when naked guys are allover them. guys are just dumb and horny and sit there like dopes and staring like little kids....at the bachlorette party.....the lil slutty girls ( the ones who do this im referring too not all girls) are the ones doing the sexual acts and other gross shit THAT YOU DONT DO RIGHT BEFORE YOY GET MARRIED or at any point in time of a relationship.


and whoever thinks blowjobs are the norm at bachelor parties, get a clue fellas, not all guys are white trash.

the last one i went to the groom didnt even let the girls do anythung more than take off his shirt, he wouldnt even touch them at all..... now the other shit i seen that this filthy sluts let the guys do to them, well it was just nasty...me and my married friend left after an hour...nasty shit.