Average man sleeps with 7 women...

[redshirt27se]

there are other ways of accomplishing that feat... like just asking her if she's clean.. and if YOU are the only one she's sleeping with now... it's none of your business who she slept with in the past. Usually questions like that tend to spark jealousy and can create insecurities within a relationship.

LOL

so you just are going to ask if they are clean? do you expect them to be like "no not really, i have herpes and the clap"

im pretty sure if you are diseased you'll be up front with it, and if you aren't, you're going to lie when someone asks you that question.

 

[caligirl]

LOL

so you just are going to ask if they are clean? do you expect them to be like "no not really, i have herpes and the clap"

im pretty sure if you are diseased you'll be up front with it, and if you aren't, you're going to lie when someone asks you that question.

fuck yes. I'd ask if I didn't know the person very well..
but then again, I'm not screwing strangers.

 

[redshirt27se]

fuck yes. I'd ask if I didn't know the person very well..
but then again, I'm not screwing strangers.

people who knowingly have diseases generally aren't going to be honest about that sort of thing.

unless you are with someone who is dirty themself, i really doubt you'd ever meet someone who would be cool with fucking someone with a disease.

then again most people who are dirty think they are clean..

 

[caligirl]

people who knowingly have diseases generally aren't going to be honest about that sort of thing.

unless you are with someone who is dirty themself, i really doubt you'd ever meet someone who would be cool with fucking someone with a disease.

then again most people who are dirty think they are clean..

wow, sounds like you've had some experience... lots of peeps are walking around infected with some type of "disease" and dont even know it.. or even care to know.
my point is that, I WILL and do ask. I dont ask about their past relationships.. but I do ask if they have anything to be careful/cautious of, and that does not mean that I would not sleep with them IF they did have something... I take the time to get to know a PERSON, not a piece of meat.
there is so much more to a relationship than just sex...

I know several people who in fact are in relationships with people who have diseases and are very open about it. what one did profess is "you cant control who you fall in love with" this is from a man who's wife has hepititis C, that I train. anywho... this whole thing was about past relationships and turned into diseases... everyone has their opinion, mine is yet another that makes no difference to anyone, except to me.

 

[redshirt27se]

wow, sounds like you've had some experience... lots of peeps are walking around infected with some type of "disease" and dont even know it.. or even care to know.
my point is that, I WILL and do ask. I dont ask about their past relationships.. but I do ask if they have anything to be careful/cautious of, and that does not mean that I would not sleep with them IF they did have something... I take the time to get to know a PERSON, not a piece of meat.
there is so much more to a relationship than just sex...

I know several people who in fact are in relationships with people who have diseases and are very open about it. what one did profess is "you cant control who you fall in love with" this is from a man who's wife has hepititis C, that I train. anywho... this whole thing was about past relationships and turned into diseases... everyone has their opinion, mine is yet another that makes no difference to anyone, except to me.

i havent had any experience, i'm just making general statements. i've never caught anything, but i know people who have and that honesty hasn't always been their number one traight.

the point i'm getting at is that if i'm close to fucking someone, i feel that if i ask them, that they aren't going to be like "oh yeah i do have something, i just forgot to tell you".. ya know i'm just saying that if i'm going to fuck you then i'm hoping you are going to be upfront on your own. i don't think i should have to ask if you have herpes. you should tell me that.

that said i would never consider having sex with anyone with any type of disease. the whole "you can't control who you fall in love with" argument to me is BS. I've never loved someone before i've been intimate with them. and if they caught it after the fact then they were unfaithful, so fuck them.

 

[Jacob Creutzfeldt]

7 women simultaneously?

 

[Megalomaniac]

7 women simultaneously?

if in asia

 

[Stefka]

I'm under 10.
That is a good answer for now.
I dont know what my response to a (potential) SO will be after I get to 10.
I still dont see how the average man will only sleep with 7 women. That seems low for a lifetime.

 

[Megalomaniac]

I'm under 10.
That is a good answer for now.
I dont know what my response to a (potential) SO will be after I get to 10.
I still dont see how the average man will only sleep with 7 women. That seems low for a lifetime.

My dad had 1, I have over 100 so averages can be tricky.

 

[jd_uk]

so you know.

it IS annoying and it sure does nothing to improve the relationship... if anything it tells me they are very insecure. but thats just me.

Personally i'd really want to know too but not for any insecurity reasons. I'd just be interested....i'd want to know if we could try new things together...stuff like that....and also the health issue would be in my mind. I'd be pretty quick to ask a woman to get tested if she'd been with a lot of guys ans wanted to sleep with me.