I am torn on exactly how to raise my kids. I have been so tremendously affected (in a hyugely positive way) because of the time I spent in Europe but now that I must remain in the US for an indefinite amount of time I must change some things about my behavior even though my views are different. I want to raise my kids with the open attitudes that I believe to be better but since we must live here for now at least, they must be able to seperate how they think and how they must act to circumvent problems.... Or do you guys think that this isn't so?