Anyone here dating a stripper?

[geoboy]

Tweakle

What happens in the VIP room? Is that fulls ex or something. Different in Jersey, I'm not sure they have them. But I dated a girl once for a couple of months who worked in the City, and I know her place had like $500 limo rides with one of the girls (your choice)

She said nothing went on besides the usual, but chicks lie. She probably did too, fucked like a marathoner

Every club is different, every girl is different, but I think they send them all to Stripper School on how to lie to your boyfriend.

I've dated lots of strippers for the right reasons (crazy-girl sex), then fell in love with one. 21 yo package of estrogen perfection.

I started wondering and worrying about what went on in the "champagne room/ VIP room". Knowing she was doing lapdances was bad enuf, but then I started thinking why would a guy pay $500 @ hour just to get more of the same with a bottle of cheap booze?

"Baby, I no do nothing. They have camera."

OK. meanwhile before I knew her, I remembered some of the girls at her club would try to get me in the VIP with veiled promises of handjobs, bjs etc.

So I did the only logical sensible thing. I hired a private detective to take her to the VIP room.

Told him to keep offering more money for more nookie while in the VIP, and outside.

Results weren't as bad as they could have been, but bad enuf to kill any chance of continuing the relationship. She wouldnt screw, no bj, wouldnt give her number or meet at a motel later for big bux, but she did give him a handi for an extra 100.

So #1 she lied to me, & #2 I'm thinking one day I'm going to introduce her to one of my friends, and they say "oh yeah I remember you, you gave me a handjob in the VIP room".

At that point I was too emotionally invested to have my brain revert to considering our relationship just a sex thing, so I had to bailout. Probably one of the hardest things I ever did.

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[The Shadow]

Advice:


DATE a stripper


DONT have a RELATIONSHIP with one

 

[Allon]

Had sex with one once. While we were doing it I kept thinking: "Guys pay to look at her"

It was good.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Had sex with one once. While we were doing it I kept thinking: "Guys pay to look at her"

It was good.

I thought you were geigh?

 

[jerseyart]

Every club is different, every girl is different, but I think they send them all to Stripper School on how to lie to your boyfriend.

I've dated lots of strippers for the right reasons (crazy-girl sex), then fell in love with one. 21 yo package of estrogen perfection.

I started wondering and worrying about what went on in the "champagne room/ VIP room". Knowing she was doing lapdances was bad enuf, but then I started thinking why would a guy pay $500 @ hour just to get more of the same with a bottle of cheap booze?

"Baby, I no do nothing. They have camera."

OK. meanwhile before I knew her, I remembered some of the girls at her club would try to get me in the VIP with veiled promises of handjobs, bjs etc.

So I did the only logical sensible thing. I hired a private detective to take her to the VIP room.

Told him to keep offering more money for more nookie while in the VIP, and outside.

Results weren't as bad as they could have been, but bad enuf to kill any chance of continuing the relationship. She wouldnt screw, no bj, wouldnt give her number or meet at a motel later for big bux, but she did give him a handi for an extra 100.

So #1 she lied to me, & #2 I'm thinking one day I'm going to introduce her to one of my friends, and they say "oh yeah I remember you, you gave me a handjob in the VIP room".

At that point I was too emotionally invested to have my brain revert to considering our relationship just a sex thing, so I had to bailout. Probably one of the hardest things I ever did.

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That sucks maing

My ex was a dancer (in jersey, bathing suit, not nude) but she quit real soon agetr we started dating (less than a month).

I just told her straight out I wouldnt deal, never tried to pretend I was cool with what she did ie long term romance.

I "dated" other chicks who stripped, prolly over a dozen or more, but never took it seriously

 

[Allon]

I thought you were geigh?

Damn, word travels fast!

Nope note me, you are thinking of ALLON. he is not gay, but had a gay experience.

 

[Dirk Howat]

It friggin awkward to know that you fiance stands around naked in front of other guys.. even tho she just wants them for their money, its pretty far away from the norm...


Yo. If you want a LTR with her, she has to find another job. When a chick strips in front of other men (no matter what), she is cheating on you.



End of story

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[Razorguns]

At that point I was too emotionally invested to have my brain revert to considering our relationship just a sex thing, so I had to bailout. Probably one of the hardest things I ever did.
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Don't forget..

almost 90 PERCENT of strippers have had sexual relationships with clue personnel and management (maybe coerced, maybe consensual). Of coruse they'll never tell bf's or even other dancers.

If she's not screwing the customers -- u can bet she's screwin' the boss.

It's the #1 reason strippers catfight with one another ("that ho, i KNOW she's fucking Tony and that's why she always gets the best shifts..").

 

[geoboy]

Don't forget..
almost 90 PERCENT of strippers have had sexual relationships with clue personnel and management (maybe coerced, maybe consensual). Of coruse they'll never tell bf's or even other dancers.
If she's not screwing the customers -- u can bet she's screwin' the boss.
It's the #1 reason strippers catfight with one another ("that ho, i KNOW she's fucking Tony and that's why she always gets the best shifts..").

maybe not 90%, but true.

 

[MAJNOON]

I've had sex with some strippers but never a relationship, the most incredible sex ever!