Hi guys....
Here is a womans point of view for this. My b/f started working out last year, and had this guy that was helping him train, etc etc.... and I was pretty sure this guy was using, and I asked him a couple of times if he had ever been offered any "stuff" and he said no. A month of so went on, and he was horny ALL the time, and would have these fits of rage that freaked me out. But he still denied. His buddy was over the one day, and let it slip out that he was using. Can you guess how surprised I was to get confirmation of this? I had obviously known this for awhile, so what he got in trouble for, was not being honest with me. After 5 years together, I feel like we should be in a partnership, and something like this is a somewhat life altering decision, so yeah, you gotta share this with the other half.
He just decided today that he wants to go on another cycle, and he told me, and I am making him get an account on here to get advice from some of the mods here, and not just the buddy that got him this stuff, and doesnt really know what he is doing. I worry about the long term effects on this, because I care about him. So here I am, doing product research, and trying to be supportive.
Bottom line - A relationship will not survive without honesty and trust. If you hide this, there is a chance she will have suspicions, and when she finds out, she will be pissed. You dont have to really tell her right at the beginning, but if she notices, and asks you, be honest, you dont have to get all scientific, but say you are using some enhancements...... and you never know, maybe she will want to try some stuff from this site too.