Anyone care to help out a lost 27 year old with fucked up life?

[2pacshaq]

Feel Ive missed out on my youth. Basicly played computer games til the age of 18, then I got into a relationship which lasted til 23, got cheated on. After just some months I got together with another girl, pretty good times but I lost contact with all my friends, spent almost all my time with the girl for several years. Didnt go out party, got totally pussified by her and now recently I got dumped, surprise surprise.

27 years old, only been with 2 girls, no friends left and almost completely alone aside from some family members. Recently lost my work aswell due to the companys economy going to shit, so Im back living with my mom and have done so for a month now.

Im at rock bottom, I have no friends to call, no old "flings", no job, very little money and I feel totally lost.



The only thing Ive got going for me I have pretty good facial aestetics and Ive been working my ass off in the gym for 9 years, so Im strong and I have a decent body/mass. But I feel the gains these days are almost none so I feel Im starting to lose the motivation for the gym aswell due to the very fact I almost dont get any gains out of it no more. The first 4 years were awesome, but these days It feels like I work out and workout but with very little returns in form of mass.

So basicly I need a total restart of my life, and I feel like Ive missed out so much. Ive been thinking of trying out a simple cycle for a while now, and maybe this would be a good point to try it out, like a thing to mentally "kick start" a new period of my life.

I havent done that much research, and whats holding me back from trying out test is Im afraid of fucking up my natural levels for life aswell as getting sterile. You knowledgeable people .. how big are the risks of that, given you do a cycle of .. I dont know, 250-500 test for 12 weeks?


Anyway, Im greatful for all help I can get at this moment.

Kim

 

[ceo]

No money and wants to cycle. You going to borrow from mom and dad for that?

Focus on getting a job brother. A steady paycheck and getting out of mom and dads again will do much more for your self esteem than some testosterone.
Not saying you shouldn't cycle at all. Just maybe the time isn't right now. I think your focus is a bit off.

 

[2pacshaq]

No money and wants to cycle. You going to borrow from mom and dad for that?

Focus on getting a job brother. A steady paycheck and getting out of mom and dads again will do much more for your self esteem than some testosterone.
Not saying you shouldn't cycle at all. Just maybe the time isn't right now. I think your focus is a bit off.

Thanks man, yeah I know very well I have to get a place of my own and Ima work on that.

Regarding the cycle ... well, basicly Ill have access to a cycle of 250-500mg e5d test for almost no cost at all. So I figured I could start now as Im beginning a new "chapter" of my life.

Mostly worried about fertility issues along with If my natural production will be destroyed forever.

 

[johnnyboy3689282]

I was on over a gram for 4+ years, pct off with clomid n OTC pct in a bottle double dosed, n still got my ex Prego n my levels went back to normal range... I think you will be fine bruh

Steroids are not gonna help your confidence... Income will... You can't impress ladies living with your parents at almost 30... Maybe a change in priorities is in line...

 

[2pacshaq]

I was on over a gram for 4+ years, pct off with clomid n OTC pct in a bottle double dosed, n still got my ex Prego n my levels went back to normal range... I think you will be fine bruh

Steroids are not gonna help your confidence... Income will... You can't impress ladies living with your parents at almost 30... Maybe a change in priorities is in line...

Thanks for your response. Yeah I know that and Im working on my living situation.

Could you please explain more how exactly your pct looked like? How much clomid etc, and what is OTC?

 

[johnnyboy3689282]

Over the counter... The natural Herbs n extracts available for boosting nary test.... I used hardcore revolution black and double dosed...

Clomid
75/50/50/25/25/25
Daily doses for a week

 

[Falcon5200]

Dude, I'm 55 and your life is hardly screwed up. you have a whole lot of life left. Actually, looking back, I feel I still had the maturity level of a teenager through ut my 20s. I have read some research lately which confirms that. the human brain in a male doesn't even access pathways to the logical and rational areas fully until the 30s. a female's brain matures sooner. This makes sense if one thinks about it in human survival evolution. There is also the factor of being anti social that has probably stunted your emotional growth, as well. I can relate because I too was in your same situation in my 20s. Your problems are a manifestation of your priorities. Almost every woman I know when the reach their early 20s is more attracted, for the long term, to a man who shows confidence, stability, and can at the very least pay his own way. Looks and appearance may get you laid at closing time at the bar, but if you wish to have a relationship with a woman who is sane AND attractive....sorry kid, but you are going to have to get your priorities straight and body building is WAY down the list. Get a steady job, pay your bills, do your own laundry, cook your own meals, and make friends who do the same. A dead beat is still a dead beat even if you are swole.......chicks have loser radar. Focus on you for a couple of years.

 

[pepe le'douche]

your in for a wild ride buddy

 

[WorkHardPlayHard95]

As far as your girls prob and being fucked over that's life man. Get a tinder and start sticking ur wiener in as many girls as possible. Best of luck tho brotha

 

[titan927]

When I was 20 I had no money, rented a room but could not make rent, only been with 5 girls ever, haven't gotten laid in two years,no car, had no real friends, ended up in a homeless shelter, and life sucked. During my childhood I grew up in foster homes and group homes due to being severely abused as a young child. My life needed a new start. What was my answer? I joined the Army and got stationed in Germany. Fast forward 12 years I am a Staff Sergeant, I drive a $60,000 Shelby GT500, have an Associates and Bachelors Degree both on the Army's dime, have an amazing and hot wife, who likes women btw and I got to enjoy that benefit on several occasions, banged countless women, and now have baby son.. I make 70k a year, and now enjoy the ability to use gear as I wish, afford proper nutrition, and have access to the best gyms. During that time I went from 110 pounds skinny as fuck when I was 19, to 210/ 10% body fat year round now, and 500lb bench most of the year.

Forget about the past and start new. You will have to do something drastic like joining the military or getting a good college degree. When you get a good and steady income, focus on you bodybuilding goals. Be smart and set realistic goals. When life turns itself around you will reflect on this moment. I remember when I didn't get laid for years at a time, and then think how I made up for it by nailing two chicks at a time looking like a superhero.

Im not trying to be cocky and talk about myself, but I'm sharing my experience on how my life was shit and how I turned it all around. Start new today, there is hope in even the most dire situations. Let me know if you have any questions.

 

[RADAR]

Taking any kind of steroid is not going to do you any good if you don't eat, i'll let you know now not to discourage you but to let you know bodybuilding is an expensive hobby.
Its not how you eat but what you eat.


Please read......... http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/a...-build-muscle-loose-fat-then-read-712503.html

 

[JJRambo]

It could be worse. You could be waiting to see if you go to prison. You could be trying to get off of an addiction. You could have psychiatric issues from combat and losing friends that way, not just because you quit talking to them and they didn't care enough to keep in contact with you (not real friends anyway). You could also have parents that say,"We will always love you but you are on your own. You are a grown man". Have to sleep in your car...... I would get yourself back on track and don't look for a chick and don't look to fill a gap with cycles or anything else. Take some time to heal up. Workout, eat good, get a good job, move out of your parents place:

 

[jjfatz42]

Kim. Sorry to hear about your situation bud. My life was shit a year ago. I'm not nearly as young as you man.

Start reading these blogs right now.

They literally changed my life bro. A year later & I couldn't be happier!

Goodlookingloser
Boldanddetermined
Dangerandplay
Blackdragonblog

If ONLY I had found them when I was your age!!!!

 

[stevesmi]

keep your head up, you have your whole life ahead of you. atleast you don't have kids or an ex wife paying alimony. find a good job, or go to college and get your degree.. move out and get your life steady

 

[miraki2015]

Stay strong bud someone always has it worse. Now go make them gainz !

 

[Lightsaberbro]

Bro I was an alcoholic and drug addict threw my teens into my late twenties, taken away from my friends and family and placed in a mental institution for my addiction problems....been clean the last 2 years......the moral of the story is that life gets better just focus on you right now and your mental situation....you can look like a million bucks but still not have your shit together and girls still won't fuck with you bro.....Keep your head up and make life happen don't wait for it!!!

 

[Moha]

Hello,

We all have good times and bad, try to relativize it, i know it's hard but try.

Testosterone can help against depression (you ll be more confident) but is not the solution in the long term, it ll be a vicious circle if you use testosterone for problems like that.

 

[RADAR]

I married a girl right outta high school this lasted 2 yrs after she started cheating on me i was almost 30 thought i was ready to start a family i glad it didn't happen i never got to date but a few girls before this one after being single i must have dated more girls than i could count, i also grabbed back up my guitar angd started playing in a band (show band) we had our own bus and women were all over me between breaks so traveling all over the US and taking in the sights( and Women) your life is just beginning i'm 64 now so what became of my life after divorce became an adventure ,so she actually did me a favor cheating on me ,if i had it to do all over again ,i wouldn't change a thing, you only have one life enjoy the small things and don't shrug off fat or plain looking women some have beautiful Girlfriends. So each Day is a new chapter of your life and remember its what you make of it if you go around feeling sorry for yourself women can sense it ,hold your head up high smile show the world you are confident and happy and good things will head your way.
The best of luck my friend

RADAR

 

[2pacshaq]

Thanks alot for your responses, Im glad theres someone out there willing to help out. Right now I feel crap.
Another lonely saturday night. I have nothing right now, I have sat here staring at the screen for 4 hours basicly, just browsing around doing nothing.

No text or telephone call all week from anyone but my sister.
Im seriously starting to feel real shitty, I feel no purpose at all at this point, I just feel numb.

Buuut as a man u arent supposed to whine about ur situation, cause "ure a man and not a little girl", so no one will have sympathy, I dont fucking know man. I will probably do a cycle of 500mg test to kickstart my motivation, maybe that will help me get out of this dark hole.

 

[2pacshaq]

Kim. Sorry to hear about your situation bud. My life was shit a year ago. I'm not nearly as young as you man.

Start reading these blogs right now.

They literally changed my life bro. A year later & I couldn't be happier!

Goodlookingloser
Boldanddetermined
Dangerandplay
Blackdragonblog

If ONLY I had found them when I was your age!!!!

I will definately check them out right now.

 

[jjfatz42]

I will definately check them out right now.

You don't even know it yet, but you ARE the man. Life isn't about how you "feel" at any given moment. It's about DOING shit to create long term happiness.

P.S. feel free to PM me if you need to talk about anything bro.

 

[stevesmi]

Thanks alot for your responses, Im glad theres someone out there willing to help out. Right now I feel crap.
Another lonely saturday night. I have nothing right now, I have sat here staring at the screen for 4 hours basicly, just browsing around doing nothing.

No text or telephone call all week from anyone but my sister.
Im seriously starting to feel real shitty, I feel no purpose at all at this point, I just feel numb.

Buuut as a man u arent supposed to whine about ur situation, cause "ure a man and not a little girl", so no one will have sympathy, I dont fucking know man. I will probably do a cycle of 500mg test to kickstart my motivation, maybe that will help me get out of this dark hole.

if Saturday nights are lonely then schedule a class for that night. plenty of colleges offer Saturday classes, then you will meet people and you won't be lonely anymore.

or another option is go adopt a dog, he/she will be your best friend for life

 

[ant76]

Bro who says a man cant talk or whine about a situation? Thats healthy. A real man can show emotion, not try to be a tough guy and keep it in.

And as far as your situation, i dont think there is one guy on this forum who hasnt had some dishrag whore girlfriend cheat on them. Its happened to all of us. Regardless of looks, money etc. sitting around wallowing about it wont change it. Dude u r in your 20's. Go out and bang everything. Process of elimination. Sooner or later you will find one that u want to keep. And as far as losing a job, let me ask u this, was it a "career" or a job? Did u go to school for whatever u were doing? Did u see yourself doing it for the rest of your life until u retired? If not, then it was just a job and u can get another. These guys are all right with their advice. Doing juice wont help. It may help u gain a little confidence, but wont help magically fix all the other stuff. Like one person said, u want to juice with no job? To do this properly u need a good monetary investment. And im a beginner too. Its many weeks and months if investment. Concentrate on work first and foremost. From there u can get your own place, a car whatever u need. Your life is hardly fucked. Ur young and have plenty of time to fix it. It can be so much worse. And trust me i know.

I was in a terrible car wreck a few years ago. I was hit by a drunk woman driver who claimed to be playing with her radio when she slammed into me 70 miles an hour. She killed my wife and oldest son. I had 14 operations on my shoulders, neck and back. I spent months in the hospital and 2 years home recovering. Just recently (september) i started dieting and researching how to strengthen my body with an injury. Thats how i ended up here on this forum/site. Little by little, I addressed each issue in my life that needed attention. U have to crawl before u walk. It dosent happen overnight and depends solely on u. Nothing and no one will do it for u. Get off your ass, stop feeling sorry for yourself and fix shit! And i didnt say all of this for sympathy, i just wanted to show u that your problems are all fixable. U can get a new girl, job, car, house etc. some people cant. Be grateful for that. Keep your chin up

 

[polarbear1134]

Pissed off at life + steroids = on the news

Fix your life 1st

 

[Liquid 2009]

It's never as bad as it seems bro. Trust me. You're 27 and you feel like life is over. Wait until you hit 37, 47, etc and then you will reflect back and think to yourself how stupid you were thinking life was over at 27. There's two ways to go about life. 1. Is to use all the things you have gone through and that experience to get yourself in a much better situation 2. Let it get the best of you and destroy the years going forward. What you are going through now may seem like a big deal but it's not. It's nothing and one day you will see exactly what I mean. Don't worry about where you have been or where you are. Just focus on where you are going. All failures are part of success. It's the matter on how you go about it that defines us.

Find your passion in life and see what you can do to build something from it

 

[Liquid 2009]

Hello,

We all have good times and bad, try to relativize it, i know it's hard but try.

Testosterone can help against depression (you ll be more confident) but is not the solution in the long term, it ll be a vicious circle if you use testosterone for problems like that.

Taking Testosterone is a wonderful thing if used properly but it's certainly not a solution to your problems as stated. What a lot of people do in these situations is make it seem more complicated or make it more complicated than it is. Keep it simple. Figure out a plan, the steps needed to achieve that plan and execute it.

Life is simple. We make it difficult by not staying on a solid plan and having a foundation. Best of luck to you. It's these moments that define you in life. What separates the winners from the losers.

 

[stevesmi]

Bro who says a man cant talk or whine about a situation? Thats healthy. A real man can show emotion, not try to be a tough guy and keep it in.

And as far as your situation, i dont think there is one guy on this forum who hasnt had some dishrag whore girlfriend cheat on them. Its happened to all of us. Regardless of looks, money etc. sitting around wallowing about it wont change it. Dude u r in your 20's. Go out and bang everything. Process of elimination. Sooner or later you will find one that u want to keep. And as far as losing a job, let me ask u this, was it a "career" or a job? Did u go to school for whatever u were doing? Did u see yourself doing it for the rest of your life until u retired? If not, then it was just a job and u can get another. These guys are all right with their advice. Doing juice wont help. It may help u gain a little confidence, but wont help magically fix all the other stuff. Like one person said, u want to juice with no job? To do this properly u need a good monetary investment. And im a beginner too. Its many weeks and months if investment. Concentrate on work first and foremost. From there u can get your own place, a car whatever u need. Your life is hardly fucked. Ur young and have plenty of time to fix it. It can be so much worse. And trust me i know.

I was in a terrible car wreck a few years ago. I was hit by a drunk woman driver who claimed to be playing with her radio when she slammed into me 70 miles an hour. She killed my wife and oldest son. I had 14 operations on my shoulders, neck and back. I spent months in the hospital and 2 years home recovering. Just recently (september) i started dieting and researching how to strengthen my body with an injury. Thats how i ended up here on this forum/site. Little by little, I addressed each issue in my life that needed attention. U have to crawl before u walk. It dosent happen overnight and depends solely on u. Nothing and no one will do it for u. Get off your ass, stop feeling sorry for yourself and fix shit! And i didnt say all of this for sympathy, i just wanted to show u that your problems are all fixable. U can get a new girl, job, car, house etc. some people cant. Be grateful for that. Keep your chin up

I agree, totally normal to go through ups and downs.. we live in a society now that a doctor will want to put you on meds for being normal.

sorry for your horrible story, I would be so angry at that lady and hope you were compensated for life and she is put behind bars

 

[Liquid 2009]

Great advice from all!

 

[ant76]

Stevesmi- yes she went to jail and i got a ton of money, but id burn it all in my front yard to have my family back. Especially this time of the year. Its just me and my youngest boy. Sucks

 

[Liquid 2009]

Very sorry to hear that bro. God bless you and your son.